Kinky Mixtape, Sorta

By TangledBlue

Combining kink with music can turn up the heat and bring added frivolity to any scene. There are countless lists of songs for sexy time and most are geared for vanilla realm of sweet candlelit missionary sex.  Kinky people need a sound track, too!  I thought about the scene in 50 Shades of Gray where the  dude presents his lady with an I-pad of songs that make him tickle in his pants.  This reminded me of  the beloved mixtape.  I had a sweet dual-deck pink jam box in the 90s, and I would stay up late to capture songs off the radio to weave into a musical love letter for some lucky guy.   I decided to create a mixtape of sorts for my favorite kinks.   Chill thumpy electronica is the sound track in most dungeons and it’s good for lulling patrons into a “get sexy” state of mind, but there is so much fun music in the world.  Check out my picks, have some fun, and remember you can always skip to the next one if it is not your jam.

Please play safely and be prepared for injury or emergency by having a cell phone and first aid kit close to your play space.  

 

Kinky Musical Chairs:  A Party Scene

Playing with others is a common kink.  Many people fantasize about multiple partners and group orgies, but may not be sure how to start. This game works with three or more people, and playfulness is essential. Divide into recipients and teasers.  Have the recipients sit on chairs in a circle with their hands tied behind their backs.  Unleash the teasers and have them dance around the chair bound humans without touching them. When the music stops, each teaser must choose a partner.  They then kiss their chosen one slowly, but when the music starts again they dance away out of reach. The game goes on until everyone is a sweaty, happy, horny mess.  

DNCE- Kissing Strangers

Elle King- Good Girls

Christina Milian- Dip it Low

Spanking Party:  Drop that Beat

I like a little fun and friskiness in my spanking sessions.  Work with your partner and agree ahead of time on the number of spanking sets and what tools will be used for spanking.  Counting the blows can enhance the session and help partners develop their communication skills. Bend your spankee over a chair or the arm of the couch.  It’s fun to put a mirror in front of them so they can watch their punishment.  Have them count out loud as you beat their booty like a drum.

Ramones-Beat on the Brat

Jessie J, Ariana Grande, Nicki Minaj- Bang Bang

Fluer East- Sax

Pitbull- Fireball

K. Flay-Blood in the Cut

The Cramps-Queen of Pain 

Jessi Malay- Fetish

If you are already on YouTube and looking up songs, then you may want to learn more about spanking, too! I love the Perverted Podcast because they are funny and informative.  They created this great introduction to spanking.

Splosh!: Fun for One or More

Rolling around in squishiness can be decadent fun.  The feeling of being immersed and coated in something is a real turn on for some people.  I suggest putting a tarp down and assembling your ingredients around the edge. A remote control for your playlist is a must.  Set up your music away from the action zone and press play before you get messy. Some suggestions for pourables include bowls of pudding, chocolate syrup, whipped cream, and cake batter.  If you don’t like sweet treats, giant cans of creamed corn or buckets of frozen peas can make for a fun sensory experience. You can also have a cake fight! Bake a bunch of cakes! Smash them on each other!  

Weird AL Yankovic- Eat It

Galantis- Peanut Butter Jelly

Def Leppard-Pour Some Sugar on Me

Katy Perry-Bon Appetite

Kittens Rule:  Meow Meow Meow

I am a kitten.  Donning kitty ears makes me feel sexy and fun and more than a little bitey.  These songs are great for role playing kitty space time.  I like to wear a tail and  white thigh highs to put me in the kitty cat mood.  Kittens are pouncy and excellent dancers.  These are great songs for grooming, prowling, or bouncing on the bed. You can play them when you are all alone or priss and prance your kitty ass for a partner.  

Kahimi Karie-I am a Kitten

Shonen Knife- I am a Cat

Koo Koo Kanga Roo- Cat Party

The Presidents of the United States of America- Kitty

 

2 thoughts on “Kinky Mixtape, Sorta”

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

WordPress spam blocked by CleanTalk.