Red Angel is a legend in the BDSM / kink community who is a part of The Blood Moon Pack. She is also a blogger and a lifestyle Domme.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
I am Ms. Red living up to the bold power and dominance of my namesake. Naturally dominant, I have been knowingly a Dominant since 2009, when I started honing my skills as a lifestyle Domme.
I conduct myself with the poise and dignity, the fact I have manners does not undermine my authority. I am average – at 5’5” – strong and confident woman, my traditional curves and looks command the attention of any room I enter.
I am not the stereotypical Dom in either appearance or mentality. I care about the well being of those who speak to me. I am personable but will discipline those who require it, verbally or physically within agreed limits. Those who know me say I’m just the right balance of approachable and strict which, so I’m told, is apparently a breath of fresh air. There is a time and a place for all things.
My ever-growing collection of implements for administering your humiliation, escape, pain and or punishment – not all enjoy pain; range through a variety of canes, whips, spanking tools, rope, needles, fire cupping, a collection of sensory items and a selection of violet wands.
Many diverse individuals, female, male and couples seek my knowledge ranging from novices yearning to enhance and integrate a newly found BDSM experience into their lifestyle through to those well versed in the nuances of pain and suffering. The rich and powerful right down to the every day Joe, with me you are all equal.
You may wish for me to help you control your life and keep you in check with real punishments whilst others in my presence will benefit from submitting to my will to escape the demands of their own life. Or you may want to experience a fantasy, which I am more than comfortable with.
I enjoy nothing more than smiling sweetly as I hum, putting you off your guard before delivering the desired session. I may even be laughing or giggling as you try to hide the fact that you’re enjoying what you receive.
I care about and respect the safety, consent and limits of anyone who offers me their submission. I will read your body and its reactions, together with any pre agreed safety word/system. And I allow constructive feedback, because I enjoy learning as well.
I do not tolerate time wasters – meaning those who seek the thrills of constant messages and choose to ask me to make them my slave or they will make me submit to them. If you qualify as one of these types, you will be marked down on my shitlist.
I regularly attend events in Nebraska and Iowa.
If you see me out at fetish events/munches/nights/
workshops, you are welcome to speak to me, provided you observe my approch protocols:
1. If I am mid session/scene with someone or providing after care to them post play (presence of a blanket or floor mat with the sub/slave means they are receiving aftercare) – DO NOT APPROACH, respect the intimacy of our time and come back to me later.
2. If I am sat observing the room/venue OR walking through the room/venue – you are welcome speak to me, be polite and curtious. Those who are demading are seen to be rude and uncareing.
3. If you would like to sample my style of domination/play at a suitable event, you are welcome to ask. I will only offer about 5-10 mins – provided I’m up to it, sometimes I may have already over indulged and require a break. 5-10 mins is more than enough time, to deside if you’d like to scene with me.
MY INTERESTS ( this is just some of my bbn interests)
Some need to be trained to take this, others are already experienced.
Kick them, beat them, stand on them, shoot pool balls at them, shoot them (nerf or airsoft – for the more hardened individual), and many more imaginative things to inflict discomfort, mild to extreme.
Who knew my love of beating the soles of feet has such a great name.
I limit the areas and types of worship, to those I enjoy receiving. There is NO genital worship allowed.
Tie you up, tie you down or attach you to equipment. I have reasonable rope skills and a selection of leather restraints and metal clip fastenings.
I have a growing collection of footwear including designer and fetish. I can teach you to properly care for feet. You can smell my feet/shoes etc.
I will tie those boobies up.
I will hold the key/tab code for you device, and issue you with rules and instructions.
Ever wanted to be caged and ignored? Or caged and tormented? Or imprisoned?
Cock & ball torture CBT
Very much as with ball busting except there is attention paid in some delightfully cruel way to your cock. Again mild to extreme.
Everything from the lesser over the knee, to heavier over a bench. Spankings, slipperings, paddling, canings, strappings. From mild role play CP to judicial caning.
Corsets & stockings
I love if not totally adore tight laced corsets especially under bust ones. I also love stockings my favorite are fully fashioned contrast seam nylon or silk stockings – but as they are $40.00 a pair, if you rip them your paying for them
At the moment I own a selection of: a violet wand and tens unit. I have many many attachments as well.
I love this and never thought I would. The look of genuine shock is what I enjoy.
I slap only enjoy as part of humiliation .
Gags & hoods
From ball gags to panties stuffed in your mouth. Blindfolds to full head coverage.
I’m naturally gifted, insults demeaning and making you feel small. Many various forms it can take.
I often require a seat, foot stool or coat stand and bag hook etc.
Intense and extreme role play. Ever fancied staring in your own spy interrogation, with bright lights, bag over the head, tormented until confession?
I draw special attention to this one. As I have very thick legs, I like nothing more than to have them pampered and looked after – shaved, waxed, massaged, moisturized etc.
Clingfilmed or other.
Traditional service trained subs are hard to come by, but widely sort after – think Downton Abby. Sissy maids also welcome but all service will be traditional in training given.
Nipple tease or torture
Pain, flicks, clips, pegs, pinchy things etc.
Clit & pussy torture CPT
Spank it, cane it, flog it, tie it up, staple it, clips and pins, repeated and intense vibration.
Role play fantasies
So long as its legal, message me to discuss it.
Over the knee, over the bench, over the table. Hand and implements. Teacher, Auntie or Governess.
Blindfolded, overpowering smells, under or over powering sounds. All to disorientate your experience.
The more sensual side of BDSM play.
I can teach you how to behave and advice on how to live your life.
Helping you outwardly be the girl inside. Or as part of humiliation being feminized.
Barefoot, in stockings, flat shoes or heels. I will walk on you.
Oh how I love this, I will restrain you so there is no escape until you relent.
Only I will pee on you or make you drink my pee.
Hot wax suitable for use on the skin dripped or poured on you, then left or removed.
Whipping & flogging
Single tail or multiple falls, stingy or thuddy I have a growing collection of choice.
I WILL CONSIDER
DEPENDING ON THE SESSION/SITUATION
Little time for those adults who are mentally toddler to 10, but I DON’T entertain messing nappies or adult babies.
This when done right and safely, can be a good experience. It is a more extreme play and as such, I will only consider it with those who I’ve played with before, because I can read your reactions better.
For those who already have an interest/curiosity, need a helping hand. And want me to watch.
I have limited experience with this at the moment, so believe honesty is important. Hygiene sterilization and proper sharps disposal is paramount.
Puppy & pony play
Puppies on leads or being petted.
Pony play as yet I have no experience with, excluding being able to actually ride a horse.
Non-competitive, fantasy style wresting only. I CANNOT offer lift and carry or anything competitive. I am more than happy to use real moves to pin you down and clamp body parts in braces.
MY HARD LIMITS
DON’T EVEN ASK FOR – THE ANSWER IS NO
LACK OF AND/OR NO COMMUNICATION
After 72 hrs of no communication between D/S or partners, I will see this as being released. Unless the reasoning is for family, work, medical, or death. Exception to this rule: Both parties have agreed and spoken about no communication prior to the event.
I am a Dom, not a prostitute/escort/. So therefore I WILL NOT provide hand relief no matter how special you think you are. I will verbally instruct should the mood take me or make you shuffle on the carpet like a dog. BUT if you require physical sexual relief then I’m not the Dom for you.
I’m talking poo and vomit here. Not something I enjoy, both are a no.
I’m talking actual animals here – it’s illegal and wrong!
I LOVE presents, if you really want to please me, then something special is the way forward. I have Amazon Wishlist. What Domme doesn’t enjoy receiving gifts and new toys? And honestly post and parcels excite me, like presents for a birthday.
FACEBOOK: Red Angel