by TangledBlue Screens are everywhere: restaurants, stores and even Chuck E. Cheese. Glowing images beckon us in every man-made place and we even carry our own pocket-sized screen in the bathroom to poop because breaking that tether even for a delightful twenty minutes is too much to bear.
It’s not surprising to know that I think most the articles you see in women’s magazines are stupid. They tout these “unheard of sex positions, tricks, and techniques that will drive your partner(s) wild” lists. Most of these articles are usually very simple ideas that have been around forever or incredibly way out there ideas that no person would ever bother trying.
Every day those of us with disabilities have to find new and inventive ways to make the world work for us. It’s not always easy, and when it comes to something as personal as meeting ones sexual desires there can be many obstacles. Motor function, flexibility, pain, libido, and balance can all interfere with a quality sex, but using toys can really help bring pleasure to anyone’s life.
Shopping for BDSM goodies with someone you love is an adventure. Many BDSM stores online offer mass produced products, but if you are looking for something extra special, Etsy has great finds that are exceptionally well made and unique.
Miss Vivian is a legendary NYC Dominatrix who specializes in OTK ( light to heavy), flogging ( light to heavy), caning, bondage, creative role play, (especially, naughty school girl scenarios), hair pulling, sensory deprivation, power struggle scenes, and damsel in distress scenes. She is also a performance artist.
Nicholas Tanek was making his own straight jackets as a teenager (see my favorite chapter in Chipped Black Nail Polish, titled “homemade straight jacket”), so I gave him one for his birthday several years ago. The best thing about the straight jacket is that I can use bondage even when I’m too tired to take out my rope. Lazy BDSM is still fantastic sex, but I decided we were long overdue for a session with some thoughtful planning behind it. I wanted to use something with a more complete restrictive feeling than rope or a straight jacket.
Let’s have some fun with sensory deprivation, and let’s do it for FREE! Or at least for under ten bucks, depending on what you have at home.
Jenny/Ghorza, a geeky 29-year-old who dreams of adventures beyond her humdrum life, is transported to a fantasy world like the ones she’s spent her whole life dreaming about. There she is captured by mercenaries but is soon “rescued” by Vargan, the leader and orc king of a raiding band of orcs. Vargan, however, gives her a choice: she can either be released and left to wander the forest of a foreign land alone or be given shelter and protection in exchange for one thing… she must surrender her freedom as his “human pet.”
Starting with the Rule of Three is an easy way to begin putting your household together as a Master. However, it is only the beginning. Each component that you pick for your “Rule of Three” has four pieces to it that fine-tune what it is that you are looking for.
I know that this is a lot of thinking, processing, talking, and experimenting. It is NOT at ALL like the porn or the hot books that you have read. However, what this does is set both you and your slave up for long-term success. Anything can be done for a short period when you are both hot and bothered. However, what is attainable for the next 7 months? Next eight years? How you emotionally communicate will determine how successful your relationship is. In addition, these four legs of each requirement will help you have those conversations about expectations, wants, and needs.
BDSM calls to many people but willing kinksters can be inhibited by the cost of the tools. Unicorn tails, Pikachu suits, and full Batman costumes can really break the bank. Your Kinky Friends decided to challenge ourselves to create kinky experiences that cost less than ten bucks. We used our twisted imaginations and ingenuity to help you get the most bang for your buck.