VIDEO CHAT: Lady Vi with Nicholas Tanek

Lady Vi is a professional and lifestyle Dominatrix in the Seattle metropolitan area. Beautiful, brazen and delightfully wicked. Lady Vi exudes a unique brand of sinister sexuality, instinctual sadism, and natural born female dominance. She is also an active member in the  Leather, BDSM and Sex Positive community. We talk about a penis crucifix, the occult, sadism, and so much more.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

 

Continue reading VIDEO CHAT: Lady Vi with Nicholas Tanek

A Dollar + Duct tape! by Miss_Melissa_

BDSM ON A BUDGET

As Nicholas Tanek says in every interview… support independent vendors who make high-quality kink gear if you can, but sometimes you’re in a financial bind. And sometimes you just want to get crafty! Suggestions from Nicholas’s video interviews are always an excellent source of inspiration (see suggestion two of this article). Sometimes simply walking the aisles of the Dollar Tree can get your kinky mind-gears turning. Here are a few inexpensive ideas that you can try using things you can find at the dollar store and some duct tape.

Continue reading A Dollar + Duct tape! by Miss_Melissa_

VIDEO CHAT: Natasya von Wölfe with Nicholas Tanek

Natasya von Wölfe is a professional dominatrix based in Albany, New York. Her greatest delights and specialties are role play, sadism, brown showers, breath play, and excruciating tease. In her vanilla life, she runs a not-for-profit, grows some of her food through gardening, and exults in the hedonism of cooking and consuming lavish, gourmet meals.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

Continue reading VIDEO CHAT: Natasya von Wölfe with Nicholas Tanek

Heroes of The Kink Community Part V by Nicholas Tanek

The kink community needs heroes more than ever now. With FOSTA/SESTA and ongoing suppression of sexual expression, there are some kinky people who want to educate, enlighten, and help kinky people. Through my journey into the BDSM world, I have met many heroes. So, I asked them a couple of questions.

Here are their answers.

Continue reading Heroes of The Kink Community Part V by Nicholas Tanek

Life After Breast Cancer by SassyWitch666

I recently had the pleasure of speaking with the amazing ArindaStormWeaver.  She’s a 57-year-old sensualist, Mistress, and breast cancer survivor who has a healthy outlook on body positivity.

She was kind enough to answer some of my questions about what she went through while battling cancer and what life is like after.

Continue reading Life After Breast Cancer by SassyWitch666

VIDEO CHAT: May Hemmer w/ Nicholas Tanek

May Hemmer is a burlesque performer known as “The Sassiest Thing in New Orleans” and has been dubbed the “Cocoa Barbie” by Vita DeVoid of Florida.  We talk about burlesque, rope, POC (People Of Color), cosplay,  and NERD culture!!!

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

Continue reading VIDEO CHAT: May Hemmer w/ Nicholas Tanek

Our Professional Dominatrix Friends Part V by Nicholas Tanek

A professional Dominatrix is more than just a sex worker. They play the role of a kinky therapist or counselor. Throughout this series, I have befriended many professional Dommes. Each one has something unique to offer and can give us insight into their world. So, I asked some of our professional Dominatrix friends some questions.

Here are their answers.

Continue reading Our Professional Dominatrix Friends Part V by Nicholas Tanek

Happy New Year from Your Kinky Friends! – Kinky Resolutions!




by TangledBlue and Mistress Melissa

It’s good to think about the bright shiny spots and the shitty dull moments of life as a year closes.  Reflection helps us to grow as people, and the resolutions we make for ourselves promise betterment and enlightenment for a happier future.  Some people choose to go for a goal like our friends Jay Tesst who wants to learn how to do play piercings and1RuleSupercedes who is going to put out a new album in February.   Others may choose something less tangible like spiritual enlightenment or inner peace. Your Kinky Friends sent us their resolutions, and here are our goals, wishes, and/or hopes for a brand spanking new year.   Continue reading Happy New Year from Your Kinky Friends! – Kinky Resolutions!

Our Erotic Hypnosis Friends By Nicholas Tanek

Erotic hypnosis is the practice of hypnosis for sexual purposes. Often used in Femdom, the erotic hypnotist can sissify a man, financially dominate someone, or lead to total power exchange. Hypnosis is a huge fetish in the kink community. So, I asked some of our kinky erotic hypnosis friends some questions.

Here are their answers.

  Continue reading Our Erotic Hypnosis Friends By Nicholas Tanek

Breaking Down BDSM for Newbies by Master Bear

Before the car accident I used to teach a lot more. I had come up with a “Find your Inner Dominant Class.”  Since the folks who came were all brand new, I started off with a generalized explanation of BDSM. I’ve worked on this for a while and I have found it be relatable for somebody who has no idea what I’m talking about.

This is how I break it down.

Continue reading Breaking Down BDSM for Newbies by Master Bear