VIDEO CHAT: Maya Berger with Nicholas Tanek

Maya Berger is an editor and proofreader of erotic fiction (as well as other fiction and non-fiction genres). She is the owner of What I Mean To Say – Clear and Professional Copy-editing and Proofreading, and she specializes in editing stories with BDSM and other kink themes, LGBTQ+ characters, and non-traditional relationships, and in sensitivity reading for all of the above. She is passionate about diversity, inclusivity, and accurate representation in erotica and in all writing.

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VIDEO CHAT: Phani3 with Nicholas Tanek

Phani3 is crazy & crafty the artist formerly known as Blent Girl— She is an EXOTIC DANCER/CAMGIRL😽 & Jeweler

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VIDEO CHAT: Pepper with Nicholas Tanek

Pepper is a Canadian cam model with 6 plus years experience in the cam world. She is known for her positive attitude as well as her conversation and awesome humor. She likes to use her platform to promote healthy sex and healthy relations. Her hair is ever changing. She sports piercings and tattoos. She likes science, politics, conspiracy theories, painting. Drawing and creating in general.

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VIDEO CHAT: King Lexa with Nicholas Tanek

King Lexa  is a professional sex coach who specializes in coaching highly successful men through BDSM. She does Femdom videos and she is on Niteflirt. Her work is purely psychological. She opens the subconscious mind to new realms. Everything he does is strongly based on the aspect of consent. She focuses on the power exchange of the male mind working deep inside their psyche. She develops personal challenges with the sole purpose of exploring new levels of submission.

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Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part I by Nicholas Tanek

SADISM: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

Consensual sadism is quite common in the BDSM community, but the practices vary widely depending on the participants.  Some sadists enjoy sensual sadism.  This can be defined in many ways but it loosely involves the infliction of pain  mixed with pleasure.  Both participants tend to enjoy the scene and have agreed upon terms.  Other sadists engage in brutal, violent acts that may not be sexual and fulfill a need for power.   Sadism can seem scary to those who don’t understand the dynamic and question why participants get a rush from it.  I wanted to learn more about Our Kinky Friends who use pain, humiliation, and suffering in their scenes.

So… I asked some questions to my kinky sadist friends so that we could learn more about this kink.

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Our Kinky Friends Write: Going Down by Kitt Wolf

I love to write trashy little sex stories.  Last November, I entered my work in a contest called The Smut Marathon sponsored by Marie Rebel at rebelsnotes.com.  The contest is a year long event where writers are eliminated through ten rounds of writing.  We are now in the semi-finals and shockingly, I’m still in the contest!  Writers win points through reader votes and jury votes.

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Our Kinky Friends Write: This Boy is Her Girl by Allison K. Atwood

This is not what you’d call a traditional story with a beginning, middle, and end. It has none of those things. I guess it sits somewhere between pornographic fantasy and wishful thinking. It’s the tale of the person I wish I was, bonding with the person I wish I could be with. The characters are unorthodox and kinky, and yet in their own way rather conventional. The setting is nowhere, and it takes place probably never, because the world where such a relationship would be possible, for me (without the consequences I fear), may not exist. But who knows?

Artwork by myboyisacross.tumblr.com

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Our Erotic Kinky Artist Friends Part II by Nicholas Tanek

The power of creativity mixed with eroticism is limitless, weird, and beautiful. Once again, I needed to reach out to my erotic kinky artist friends and ask them several questions about erotic/kinky art.

Here are their answers…

VIDEO CHAT: The Lady Ascends with Nicholas Tanek

TheLadyAscends is a very talented artist and pagan love witch who is a good friend of mine. She has multiple subs and participates in many kinky spiritual rituals like fake blood orgies and human sacrifices.

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VIDEO CHAT: Syren Rayna with Nicholas Tanek

Syren Rayna is a trained erotic hypnotist and Dominatrix from Portland, OR. She is nationally certified and well studied in hypnosis and how the mind works. She utilizes NLP, hypnotic phrasing, and behavioral conditioning to manipulate behavior. Syren has been in the BDSM scene around Portland since 2016 Syren noticed her natural gift of manipulating people at an early age. What brought her to the kink side of it was a desire to break down some of the “shame walls” that people have. She hates that, even in this community, people can feel isolated of their kink choices. She enjoys helping people understand and embrace their true under current of BDSM and Kink.
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