Category: Music

Depeche Mode For Dungeons – Nicco Noire & The Commandant

“The longest relationship in my life was with Depeche Mode.” – Nicco Noire

Why do so many of my cool kinky friends love Depeche Mode and goth synth music? Nicco Noire & The Commandant claim the music of Depeche Mode should be played in all BDSM dungeons.

We discuss the Depeche Mode discography, the atmospheric style, drug use, romance, songs for edging, a DM tattooed woo-hah, and why “Christmas Island” is the best Depeche Mode song to flog to.

“Martin Gore is naturally a kinky person.” – The Commandant

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The Femdom Intoxication Episode – 11.2023 w/ Vivian, Vex, & Nicco Noire

“I microdose DMT on a fairly regular basis.” – Vivian

Vivian, Vex, Nicco Noire, and Nicholas Tanek discuss intoxication play, micro-dosing, cannabis, mushrooms, forced Viagra, DMT shibari sessions, sissy hypno, music, role play, femdom, serotonin, and psychedelic hot chocolate.

“I automatically take the role as the doctor” – Vex

Note: This is harm reduction. YKF does NOT condone any form of non-consensual intoxication play.  

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Medusa (Rock Star Domina from Rio) – 8.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I wish I had more hands so I could feel more things at the same time.”

Amy Stargher (aka Goddess Medusa) is the Rock Star Domina from Rio de Janeiro (living in Los Angeles). Her Brazilian accent hypnotizes me as she talks about foot night parties (foot worship), pegging, aftercare, and the love of performing various cover versions of her favorite songs.

“Hugs & head scratches”

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VIDEO CHAT: Dr. Jae West, PhD w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Everyone can dance. We just have to give ourselves permission to.”

Dr. Jade West, PhD is the founder of Archetypal ALKEMY (Embodied Archetypal Dance Series & Training) and a founder and actress of the touring performance group, The Hairy Godmothers. We discuss kink, dance, poetry, body dysmorphia, the power of objectification,  and her book, The Art Of Raw Desire.

“We quit our jobs for 7 months to travel around the world.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Lady Bellatrix – 1.2023

“I use a strap-on so often, I cannot remember the first time I used one.”

Lady Bellatrix is a British Domme in Paris, France. We talk about latex, rubber, pegging, ballbusting, the chastity mantra, carrying dildos across the border, interrogation boot camp, and Han Solo in vac beds.

“You can smell the pubes singe.”

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VIDEO Interview: Kurt Ralske (Ultra Vivid Scene)

“By entering fantasy, there is an authenticity that comes out of that.”

Kurt Ralske is the creator of the 90’s indie psychedelic art-house 4AD band Ultra Vivid Scene and a Professor of the Practice in Digital Media at Tufts University’s School of the Museum of Fine Arts, Boston. We discuss BDSM themes in music and art, the 3 UVS albums, The Breeders, having James Franco as a student, weird Japanese softcore pornography, the blockchain, and making the artistic creative process comfortable and fun.

“Those are my people…. the goths.”

 

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VIDEO: Emperess Oksana at Mischief Manor – 12.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Definitely… fireplay.”

Empress Oksana is a Dominatrix who was having a photo shoot at Mischief Manor. We talk about her journey from burlesque to Femdom / BDSM, roleplaying, fireplay, kinky fashion, Asperger Syndrome, and having kinky scenes outdoors.

“I have a Carl Sagan tattoo”

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VIDEO CHAT: Giselle Thibodeaux pt. II – 8.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’m giving you permission to wear panties… life is short.”

The Naughty Goddess Giselle Thibodeaux from Pep Love returns. We discuss taboo-free phone sex, power exchange, sissification, medical play, CBT, being a goth girl, chastity, sounding, BDSM poetry, corsets, making a policeman cry, long-distance electro torture, boiling testicles, and celebrating castration with cake!

“I’m an artist and the submissive slave is my canvas.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Nicki Golden w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I get off on helping people facilitate their fetishes.”

Nicki Golden is a professional Dominatrix in the Bay Area of California. We discuss tease & denial, mummification, sensuality, the fun of BDSM, and sploshing with Vegan cupcakes (smashing them into people’s faces).

“I’m very playful, but I can be a mean bitch.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Lilith Kat w/ Nicholas Tanek

“We did an enema with a garden hose.”

Lilith Kat is a well-known professional Dominatrix. Her specialties include full toilet training (golden showers and brown showers). We discuss her breast augmentation plans, CBT, sissification, creating online content, strap-on dildo play, urinating/defecating on people, and making testicles bloody. Also, find out was a PISS-icicle is.

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