Our Kinky ROPE Friends by Nicholas Tanek

 

In the BDSM community, there is a trust and artform that are intertwined when it comes to rope. (I was not trying to make a pun in that last sentence.) What I am trying to say is that there is a beauty in the artwork of the knots and the play. There is also a sensual aspect to a person being bound and their partner wielding the power to tie them. Rope. Rope. Rope. Rope. Rope. I love rope and I love being tied up… and tying people up!  So, I asked my rope-loving rigger friends some questions.

 

Here are their answers…

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VIDEO CHAT: WolvyGirl with Nicholas Tanek

WolvyGirl is an intersex two-spirit (trans girl) who does online content. Her favorites are kinks are pet play, primal, bondage, dom/sub, and painShe is in a poly relationship and enjoys furries, Muay Thai, motorcycle, reading, studying, folklore, history, tabletop games, nature/hiking, etc.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Lydia with Nicholas Tanek

Miss Lydia has been part of the BDSM community for over 20 years. She started out as a submissive and for the last 12 years, she has been a Domme. Miss Lydia is a lifestyle/ Pro Domme living the lifestyle 24/7. She hosts Pro sessions in a fully set up playspace/ dungeon (Lady’s Wicked Playground) near Allentown Pa. Miss Lydia accepts novice – experienced clients.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a chat with her.

Kitten Wants: SHOP SMART #ThriftyKinkThursday by Tangled Blue

By TangledBlue

Toys can be a huge part of a BDSM dynamic.  Some people may have a favorite item that they use for every session, but other kinksters are collectors that revel in the acquisition of toys.  I fall in the collector category.  I love the thrill of buying a new toy or scene enhancer.  One of my favorite places to shop is /sub-shop.com/.  This online store has ALL the fun normal things like handcuffs and whips plus items that tug at your imagination.  For this week’s Thrifty Kink, I wanted to feature this cool store so that My Kinky Friends can get the most bang for their buck when they are shopping for new gear.

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Mental Bondage by Forneycation

Its no secret that the BDSM world is full of wonderful toys meant to take you to the edge of ecstasy or agony, beautiful adornments for the body, and furniture to act as a stage for your kinky scene. I love it all. I love my floggers, my collars, my corsets, and my violet wand. I even find myself gazing at things I don’t think I’d ever want to try because its all so fascinating! Despite my enthusiasm, I know that my kink goes a little deeper. With me, it all starts in the brain. I’ve had brutal scenes where many toys were used, but I didn’t feel submissive. This is important to me. Contrary wise, I’ve had scenes where no toys were used, but I was so deep into subspace I was almost in tears. I won’t be able to cover everything as there is no end to what you can do, but I hope what I can cover will spark your kinky imagination.  A mental tool I love so much is obedience training.

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Kitten Wants! Part One: Kinky Shopping on Etsy

by TangledBlue

Shopping for BDSM goodies with someone you love is an adventure. Many BDSM stores online offer mass produced products, but if you are looking for something extra special, Etsy has great finds that are exceptionally well made and unique.  

https://www.etsy.com/

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BDSM on a Budget: Cummy Mummy! #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

Nicholas Tanek was making his own straight jackets as a teenager (see my favorite chapter in Chipped Black Nail Polish, titled “homemade straight jacket”), so I gave him one for his birthday several years ago. The best thing about the straight jacket is that I can use bondage even when I’m too tired to take out my rope. Lazy BDSM is still fantastic sex, but I decided we were long overdue for a session with some thoughtful planning behind it. I wanted to use something with a more complete restrictive feeling than rope or a straight jacket.

Let’s have some fun with sensory deprivation, and let’s do it for FREE! Or at least for under ten bucks, depending on what you have at home.

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Sex Toys and Furniture for People who Live with Disabilities

By SassyWitch666
Recently Nicholas Tanek,  our awesome leader of YKF,  did an interview with SugarCunt,  a sex toy tester who has a disability.

(Watch it, it’s great!)
This video got me thinking. Are there sex toys out there specifically for those of us who have a physical disabilities?
So I did a little research and found out some great toys! How cool is that?

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VIDEO CHAT: Forneycation w/ Nicholas Tanek

Forneycation lived the first half of her life in Palmdale, CA, but now resides in a very small college town in Missouri, just minutes away from the Kansas and Oklahoma border. She has been active in the local scene on and off for 8 years. She is currently a trustee in her local group that she is trying to help build so that local kinksters can have a safe, fun, friendly, and educational space. Forneycation is also a new kinky youtuber. As a kinkster, she is a romantic submissive who enjoys Cg/l, pet play, impact play, electricity, fire, bondage, and playing with fear, though there is much more she’d like to explore. She first had BDSM experiences when she was too young, but was in love and wanted to explore. Unsurprisingly, that didn’t work out so well, but then she attended her first munch when she was 18 and has strived to take better care of herself as a submissive. She now is in an open, but vanilla marriage. Forneycation is also a huge animation, horror, film in general, and musical theatre nerd. These things can often find themselves being intertwined with kink whether it is watching cartoons in little space or researching kinky movies to later show friends.

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Cassie (CassieLovesRope / Sanctuary Dungeon) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Miss Cassie is a Professional/Lifestyle Dominatrix, Rigger/Rope Artist, Performance Artist, Rope Bondage Instructor, BDSM Educator & Fetish Actor/Model

www.MissCassieLovesRope.com
www.SanctuaryLAX.com
www.DomConLA.com

Twitter: https://twitter.com/CassieLovesRope

NOTE: The audio and video is a little weird in the beginning, but the interview works. Don’t give up on it.

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