Tag: femdom

YKF CHAT: Dirk Hooper – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Drown out the ignorance with intelligence.”

Dirk Hooper talks about the re-release of his book DOMINATRIX BOSS (by Asher Lake). We talk about how pen names are like role play, comics, art, sleazy boudoir photographers, Catwoman, Exit to Eden, Femdom fiction, bad erotica,  how to stop dating vanilla, indie publishing, the Domme deficit, and how he has never been pegged. What does that mean? Find out…

“Kink allowed me to be better.”

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YKF VIDEO: Miss CatastroV – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I love hurting people… consensually.”

Miss CatastroV is a lifestyle & commercial Dominatrix in the Netherlands who lives a TPE (total power exchange) and female-led relationship with her live-in submissive. We discuss Amsterdam, heels, love of leather, breath control, OWK (Other World Kingdom), and how she loves her dirty sluts as much as her trained sissy maids.

“I love to crawl into the mind of the submissive.”

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Depeche Mode For Dungeons – Nicco Noire & The Commandant

“The longest relationship in my life was with Depeche Mode.” – Nicco Noire

Why do so many of my cool kinky friends love Depeche Mode and goth synth music? Nicco Noire & The Commandant claim the music of Depeche Mode should be played in all BDSM dungeons.

We discuss the Depeche Mode discography, the atmospheric style, drug use, romance, songs for edging, a DM tattooed woo-hah, and why “Christmas Island” is the best Depeche Mode song to flog to.

“Martin Gore is naturally a kinky person.” – The Commandant

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The Femdom Intoxication Episode – 11.2023 w/ Vivian, Vex, & Nicco Noire

“I microdose DMT on a fairly regular basis.” – Vivian

Vivian, Vex, Nicco Noire, and Nicholas Tanek discuss intoxication play, micro-dosing, cannabis, mushrooms, forced Viagra, DMT shibari sessions, sissy hypno, music, role play, femdom, serotonin, and psychedelic hot chocolate.

“I automatically take the role as the doctor” – Vex

Note: This is harm reduction. YKF does NOT condone any form of non-consensual intoxication play.  

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VIDEO CHAT: Bad B*tch In A Mask – 10-2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“The mask does it all. I put it on and I become this extreme b*tch.”

Bad B*tch In a Mask is a former women’s freestyle wrestler and mixed martial artist who finds men, locks them in chastity, brutally pegs them, and keeps them in body bags. (I am so glad that I am on her “good” list.)

“(Lube?) They’ll be lucky if I f*cking spit on it.”

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The Pegging Panel: Ms. Genevieve & Anna Valentina w/ Nicholas Tanek – 10.2023

“Saturday night… I’m going to plow your ass.” – Anna Valentina

Anna Valentina (Bussy Boss) and Ms Genevieve (NOLA Domme) join forces to discuss PEGGING. We discussed preparation, strap-on sizes, pegging techniques, aftercare, and building the perfect strap-on.

“Their asshole almost pulled my dick off.” – Ms. Genevieve

NOTE: We had to broadcast in 2 parts due to the usual technical issues.

Part II

 

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VIDEO CHAT: MsChelle – 9.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“It’s empowering to be true to yourself and who you really are.”

MsChelle is a lifestyle, Pro Dom. We chatted about the Femme Dom events she has attended worldwide. Some topics we discuss are CBT, chastity, forced bi, Bob Flanagan, brutality, bloody bodies, and how we can heal through pain. MsChelle’s sadism comes from love, not hate…

“If I don’t like you, I’m not going to hurt you.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Venus In Bells (Mistress Kayla & Sorceress Bebe) – 9.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“My name is tattoed on a slave’s ass.”

Venus In Bells (Mistress Kayla & Sorceress Bebe) – The Dominatrix duo, known for setting up BDSM events in Los Angeles, discuss throwing BDSM parties, chastity, sounding, and their custom-made CBT toy. They also gave us a tour of their impressive medical playroom.

“That’s why I don’t do wrestling sessions anymore.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Anna Valentina 8.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Every man should experience penetration and every woman should penetrate a man.”

The legendary Anna Valentina (“The Bussy Boss”) returns to discuss her personal pegging technique, teaching classes, chastity, latex vs. rubber, extreme bondage, popping balloons, and burying people alive in transparent coffins.

“There is always something new out there.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Sophie (UK) – 7.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“You have to naturally find things yourself.”

Mistress Sophie is a Transgender autistic Dominatrix who is also a truck driver in London. She returns to discuss intensive bondage, truckers, liposuction, rope, financial domination, transgender safety, and plans to consensually kidnap me if I visit London.

“Just be you.”

(Note: of course, the interview has technical issues at the end)

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