Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part II by Nicholas Tanek

The BDSM/kink community is filled with sadists… who are good people. There are sadists who love to hurt people and there are masochists who go to them because they love the pain and humiliation.

So, I asked my kinky sadistic friends about sadism and here are their answers…

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VIDEO CHAT: Luna Darke & Nicholas Tanek discuss EXXXotica, sex toys, and more!

Luna Darke and Nicholas Tanek discuss going to EXXXotica 2018, sex toys (Miss Melissa’s sex toy foot locker, friendship, and my book, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself

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VIDEO CHAT: WolvyGirl with Nicholas Tanek

WolvyGirl is an intersex two-spirit (trans girl) who does online content. Her favorites are kinks are pet play, primal, bondage, dom/sub, and painShe is in a poly relationship and enjoys furries, Muay Thai, motorcycle, reading, studying, folklore, history, tabletop games, nature/hiking, etc.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Lady Von Piper (Cultress) with Nicholas Tanek

Lady Von Piper, better known to her submissives as “Cultress”; is a 23-year-old Canadian who has been in the scene professionally for 2 years, and has enjoyed it for many years previous. She specializes in phone sex and verbal role play. She has had hundreds of submissives, ranging in location from Germany, to Russia, to her own hometown in Ontario. She is extremely versatile and creative and loves to be challenged by authentically odd fetishes.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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Our Kinky Friends Discuss the Sexuality of HALLOWEEN Costumes by Nicholas Tanek

I love Halloween. The atmosphere of delightfully creepy things is the perfect backdrop for wicked fun.  Now, people are allowed to dress up any time of year.  If I want to dress as Batman on the fourth of July, I will put on a mask and run around my house saving the houseplants.   I may want to be a sissy maid on a Tuesday night so I put on my French maid outfit and let my Domme fuck me with a strap-on dildo.  I can do this any day of the year, but the Halloween season makes dressing up magical.

It feels so good to put on a costume and be someone different for a little while. Adults have the option to add the spin of sex appeal to their tricks and treats.  Normally shy people may be strutting around in corsets and thongs and the energy is infectious.  The classic sexy costumes like French maid, sexy nurse, or Morticia from The Addams Family are always a welcome sight, but the creative aspect of Halloween makes it extra exciting.  I never know what sexed up concoction I will see at a dungeon party, Wal-Mart, or tagging along for trick or treating. I may see John Snow from Game of Thrones looking hot in a pair of fishnets with a little cleavage showing or Bert and Ernie in ball gags and leather.  Adults are sexual beings and Halloween is the perfect holiday to let sexual creativity come out to play.

The sexuality of Halloween costumes has always intrigued me. So, I asked my kinky friends about how outfits affect and change their sex lives.

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Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part I by Nicholas Tanek

SADISM: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

Consensual sadism is quite common in the BDSM community, but the practices vary widely depending on the participants.  Some sadists enjoy sensual sadism.  This can be defined in many ways but it loosely involves the infliction of pain  mixed with pleasure.  Both participants tend to enjoy the scene and have agreed upon terms.  Other sadists engage in brutal, violent acts that may not be sexual and fulfill a need for power.   Sadism can seem scary to those who don’t understand the dynamic and question why participants get a rush from it.  I wanted to learn more about Our Kinky Friends who use pain, humiliation, and suffering in their scenes.

So… I asked some questions to my kinky sadist friends so that we could learn more about this kink.

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VIDEO CHAT: Antique Deb from Slave Nation Radio with Nicholas Tanek

Antique Deb is the host of Slave Nation Radio on Beaten Path Network. She considers herself a lifestyle slave and has her own wonderful radio show.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Fenris & Lady Lilah Wilde with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Fenris Wolf & Lady Lilah Wilde are friends and business partners. Mistress Fenris is a sadist and a professional Dominatrix. Lady Lilah Wilde is also a professional Dominatrix who embodies values of cruelty, comfort, and culture. They both run Wilde Fenris Production.

 

Nicholas Tanek sits down for a video chat with them.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mercy West with Nicholas Tanek

Mercy West is a companion, BDSM practitioner, adult actor, and genuinely kinky person. Just a queer jumble of non-binary sensuality and empathy residing in Portland Oregon. She enjoys exotic cuisine, vintage erotica, retro fashion, marijuana, as well as all things sex-positive and am currently working on her new membership site.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Sir Mondo with Nicholas Tanek

Sir Mondo is a professional master who has now been in the lifestyle for nearly 8 years. His life journey has shaped him to be very versatile and rather unique. It has been stated that his style is the perfect blend of sensation and pain, where it is unknown where pleasure stops and suffering begins. His touch is highly energetic, but it can be either extremely seductive or very unnerving. His style of sensation and impact is delivered in a beautiful way. A true art form.

This playful demon has a way of adapting to the needs of the subject at hand; seeing every person as a blank canvas to be painted with the desires of the individual. As playful as this Dom can be, he can be just as equally cruel in more ways than one. Definitely not an experience to overlook.

Some of his services offered are impact play, sensual, sensation, sensory deprivation, sissy training, and more.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with him.