Heroes of the Kink Community Part IV by Nicholas Tanek

The kink community has wonderful people who educate and help other kinky people. Sometimes, it is through podcasts. Other times, it is through groups or books. Here at YKF, we know many heroes in the BDSM/kink community. I asked our friends a couple questions and here are their answers.

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VIDEO CHAT: Jacqi Kill (The Bad Drugs) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Jacqi Kill is the lead singer of punk rock band, THE BAD DRUGS. She is a Houston born and raised, communist, professional makeup artist, kinkster, and musician. A genderqueer, polyamorous, catgirl wrangler, and punk scene native.

Jacqi has worked as a fetish entertainer, creating fun and kinky nightclub scenes. Jacqi lives in the city with her two cats and is doubly partnered.


She is in the band called The Bad Drugs.

VIDEO CHAT: Susan Wright (National Coalition For Sexual Freedom) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Susan Wright founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom in 1997, and currently serves as Spokesperson and Director of Incident Reporting & Response. Susan has presented over a hundred seminars for professional organizations, Universities and community groups on discrimination against consenting adults, consent, and sex & the media. She chaired the successful DSM-5 Revision Project which resulted in unusual sexual practices between consenting adults being separated from Paraphilic Disorders. Susan has also conducted several surveys documenting discrimination and violence against BDSM practitioners as well as consent practices and attitudes. Her research has been published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, Journal of Sexual Medicine, Journal of Behavioral Health Services & Research, International Journal of Social Psychiatry, and Journal of Homosexuality.
@NCSF on twitter

VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Mia (TS Dominatrix) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Mia is a transsexual Dominatrix. She has a video chat with Nicholas Tanek





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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Porcelain Midnight (Midnight Manor) w/ Nicholas Tanek

The legendary Mistress Porcelain Midnight has a video chat with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Porcelain Midnight is an internationally published model for print, TV, movies, music videos and more. She is also the Owner and Head Mistress of The Midnight Manor. A kink facility located in San Diego. The Midnight Manor is an opulent space. It is fully equipped with the main dungeon, a medical fetish room, suspension rig, bondage bed and more. The Midnight Manor also host party’s, BDSM and Kink classes, and is available for session or party rentals.

She is also a DomCom Advisory Board Member. The industry’s largest convention for Pro, lifestyle and all things Dominatrix, BDSM, and Fetish.

IG: PorcelainMidnight

Our Sex Shop Employee Friends by Nicholas Tanek


Sex shops are great! Even though many people go online to buy their sex toys and other kinky items, good brick & mortar sex shops offer much more to customers than online websites. Both serve an important purpose. People have many misconceptions of sex shops. Some think they are dirty and grimy and filled with old men jacking off in trench coats. Sure, there are some adult book stores and movie theaters where you would not want to shine a blacklight, but most sex shops have a helpful staff who can make the customer feel comfortable and educate them at the same time.

So, I asked some of our sex shop employee friends several questions. Here are their answers.

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VIDEO CHAT: Giselle Thibodeaux (The Mistress Of Naughty) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Giselle Thibodeaux, The Mistress Of Naughty does a VIDEO chat with Nicholas Tanek.


Also known as the Goddess of Freedom, Control, and Power,  Giselle Thibodeaux is a Domme and a PepLove Phone Consultant (phone sex). She likes to explore chastity, tease and denial, cock and ball torture, forced bisexuality, and more

Coming Soon- Army of Kink armyofkink.com

Giselle on PEPLOVE: http://www.peplove.com/ladies/giselle

NaughtyGiselle-Fet : https://fetlife.com/users/6331980
Giselle Thibodeaux- Instagram

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Ms_GiselleT

Tumblr: https://naughtygiselle.tumblr.com/


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VIDEO CHAT: Dominus Blue & baby j of BLACK PEOPLE KINK Podcast talk w/ Nicholas Tanek

Dominus Blue and baby j are the hosts of Black People Kink (BPK) Podcast. They are in a Master/slave TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationship. BlackPeopleKink (BPK) is dedicated to exploring, celebrating, embracing, and encouraging the free expression of sexuality for all, and creating a welcoming place for people of color in the world of BDSM/kink lifestyle.

Black People Kink (@blackpeoplekink)

Listen via GooglePlay tinyurl.com/khmczrb

iTunes tinyurl.com/mo2m2rs

Stitcher tinyurl.com/ma877gp

Tunein tinyurl.com/ktzozb7  



Nicholas Tanek on MUST LOVE FETISH Podcast with Sara


Here is my episode: https://app.stitcher.com/splayer/f/133258/53728092

Tune in “Episode with Nicholas Tanek: ” https://tunein.com/embed/player/p966771/

iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/must-love-fetish/id1213694864?mt=2


Twitter: https://twitter.com/@SaraSweetly


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VIDEO CHAT: Elena De Luca (NYC Behavior Modification Specialist) & Nicholas Tanek

Elena De Luca is a legendary NYC Behavior Modification Specialist, Professional Dominatrix and Kink Educator based in New York City.

This is a video chat with her and Nicholas Tanek.

Website: NYDominatrix.com
Twitter: @ElenaDeLuca
Instagram: @ElenaDeLuca
Clips4Sale: ElenaDeLucaFetish.com and FascistFemDom.com