VIDEO CHAT: Bex Caputo (BexTalksSex & Dildorks) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Bex Caputo is a sex educator, blogger, speaker, podcaster, and dildo peddler. They’ve been a proud and undeniable kinkster ever since they insisted on being served their meals in a dog bowl at the age of 8, (and even before that, probably). They’re a Virgo,1 a Hufflepuff, a pup, and a nonbinary queerdo who grew up into the pop punk skater boy they had a crush on in high school.

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Our Sex Shop Employee Friends by Nicholas Tanek

 

Sex shops are great! Even though many people go online to buy their sex toys and other kinky items, good brick & mortar sex shops offer much more to customers than online websites. Both serve an important purpose. People have many misconceptions of sex shops. Some think they are dirty and grimy and filled with old men jacking off in trench coats. Sure, there are some adult book stores and movie theaters where you would not want to shine a blacklight, but most sex shops have a helpful staff who can make the customer feel comfortable and educate them at the same time.

So, I asked some of our sex shop employee friends several questions. Here are their answers.

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Video Chat: Brett Davis (The Podcast For Laundry) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Brett Davis has a fetish for laundry. He is the host of The Special Without Brett Davis and also has a podcast called The Podcast For Laundry…. which is all about his LOVE of doing laundry.  Actually, he is a talented comedian who is very well known in the NYC alternative comedy scene. This is a funny interview.

https://brettdavis.rip/

The Podcast For Laundry: http://foreverdogproductions.com/fdpn/podcasts/the-podcast-for-laundry/

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VIDEO CHAT: Dominus Blue & baby j of BLACK PEOPLE KINK Podcast talk w/ Nicholas Tanek

Dominus Blue and baby j are the hosts of Black People Kink (BPK) Podcast. They are in a Master/slave TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationship. BlackPeopleKink (BPK) is dedicated to exploring, celebrating, embracing, and encouraging the free expression of sexuality for all, and creating a welcoming place for people of color in the world of BDSM/kink lifestyle.

Black People Kink (@blackpeoplekink)

Listen via GooglePlay tinyurl.com/khmczrb

iTunes tinyurl.com/mo2m2rs

Stitcher tinyurl.com/ma877gp

Tunein tinyurl.com/ktzozb7  

 

 

VIDEO CHAT: Skye Marlowe (Pro Domme / Fetish model) interviewed by Nicholas Tanek

YOURKINKYFRIENDS.com interviews Skye Marlowe, Professional Domme, Published model, make up artist, muse

http://modelmayhem.com/SkyeMarlowe

Instagram: http://instagram.com/Skyemarlowe

http://warfare01.com/missmarlowe

 

 

 

Real Wild FETLIFE Conversations w/ Nicholas Tanek

Since I am constantly marketing my books and this website, many fans and strangers contact me with  weird messages. I am “out” as a kinky person. I was also a Fetlife.com greeter. For a year, I had to greet new Fetlife members every day. I had to show them how to use the site and give them some tips. So I put myself out there and try to be as social as possible in the kink community.  These are some messages that are so weird and funny that I had to post them. NOTE: all names and faces have been removed. CLICK ON THE SCREENSHOT TO READ THE CONVERSATION.

 

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S2 Ep 20 – Nicholas Tanek on Fetish World Podcast – “A Lot Of Cunnilingus”

 

Great podcast. Great episode. Very funny.

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HEROES OF THE KINK COMMUNITY Part 1

by Nicholas Tanek

Heroes save lives and the kink community saved mine. My life was a mess. I met some wonderful people who have been kind and helpful throughout my journey within the kink community. This is only part one in a series about people who I truly think are heroes in the kink community.

So, I talked to some of my kinky heroes and asked them questions about giving back to the community. Here are their answers.

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THE HEALING POWER OF KINK by Nicholas Tanek

Our Kinky Friends Talk About Being Healed by BDSM 

Throughout the years, I have known many vanilla people who got involved in kink and now, they feel like kink saved their lives. Not everyone can wrap their head around kinky sexual expression. Some people cannot even understand the concept of being tied up. Once they break their borders, a sense of healing starts. I am a recovering drug addict. I’m not going back to drugs and kink is a major reason for that. While I do have this addictive behavior, it was love, kink, and sexual expression that helped me get through drug addiction and emotional loss after the death of the love of my life.

So, I asked some of our kinky friends some questions about how being kinky healed them. Here are their answers.

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