Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part II by Nicholas Tanek

The BDSM/kink community is filled with sadists… who are good people. There are sadists who love to hurt people and there are masochists who go to them because they love the pain and humiliation.

So, I asked my kinky sadistic friends about sadism and here are their answers…

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Sydney with Nicholas Tanek

Goddess Sydney is a natural born Dominant, who has been a Lifestyle BD/SM Fetishist for the better part of 20 years and decided to transition to the role of Professional Dominant a bit over 5 years ago.  We discuss BDSM, Sex Games, sissies, Uncategorized, ballbusting, chastity, cuckolding, Dominatrix, feminization, ProDomme, sensory deprivation, sissies, spit, total power exchange (tpe), water sports, and more!
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

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Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part I by Nicholas Tanek

SADISM: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

Consensual sadism is quite common in the BDSM community, but the practices vary widely depending on the participants.  Some sadists enjoy sensual sadism.  This can be defined in many ways but it loosely involves the infliction of pain  mixed with pleasure.  Both participants tend to enjoy the scene and have agreed upon terms.  Other sadists engage in brutal, violent acts that may not be sexual and fulfill a need for power.   Sadism can seem scary to those who don’t understand the dynamic and question why participants get a rush from it.  I wanted to learn more about Our Kinky Friends who use pain, humiliation, and suffering in their scenes.

So… I asked some questions to my kinky sadist friends so that we could learn more about this kink.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Fenris & Lady Lilah Wilde with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Fenris Wolf & Lady Lilah Wilde are friends and business partners. Mistress Fenris is a sadist and a professional Dominatrix. Lady Lilah Wilde is also a professional Dominatrix who embodies values of cruelty, comfort, and culture. They both run Wilde Fenris Production.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Princess Kitten with Nicholas Tanek

Princess Kitten is a sadist and financial dominatrix. She makes videos and believes in female supremacy.

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VIDEO CHAT: Miztress Tia with Nicholas Tanek

Miztress Tia is a Professional Dominatrix located on the East Coast of Canada.  She has been described as evil and mean, yet most who come to know her find her warm and empathetic once they get past her intimidating persona.  Her specialty is impact play however she does offer other services that can be found on her website Miztresstia.com.  She can also be found on Twitter and Fetlife under the same name.
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VIDEO CHAT: Octavia Achten with Nicholas Tanek

Domina Octavia Achten is a professional Dominatrix, model, and fetishist who lives the lifestyle full time. She is well educated in the multi-faceted art of BDSM. Years of experience and a natural, dominant allure give the Domina a presence that intoxicates. With a keen intellect and passions for history, foreign languages and Domination, She offers an experience that is delightfully surreal. Domina Octavia Achten is well known for her skill, and her love for her work.

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VIDEO CHAT: Michelle Lacy with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Michelle Lacy is a highly sought after professional dominatrix who resides in South Florida where she has her own personal dungeon. She is most known for her creativity and passion in creating unforgettable adventures for those who play with her. Her skills, as well as her enthusiasm in her appointments, can be found on her website MichelleLacy.com and her social media outlets. Michelle enjoys a wide range of activities. She is most known for her “creative sadism,” behavior modification, discipline, bondage, lengthy captivity, as well as her love of slave-training, as she holds an entire weekend event called The Order Of Indomitus which is dedicated to just that!
Mistress Michelle loves to travel all along the East coast and even has an additional personal studio in Long Island, NY. She loves attending events, teaching classes, and assisting in spreading awareness and education of BDSM. Despite her shiny catsuits and fierce whips, Michelle is one of the most approachable and down to earth women in the industry who cares very much for the goals and the safety of the people she sees.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

NOTE: The audio gets a little messed up on my end but stick with it, Michelle Lacy does most of the talking and she’s amazing!

 

VIDEO CHAT: Miss Lydia with Nicholas Tanek

Miss Lydia has been part of the BDSM community for over 20 years. She started out as a submissive and for the last 12 years, she has been a Domme. Miss Lydia is a lifestyle/ Pro Domme living the lifestyle 24/7. She hosts Pro sessions in a fully set up playspace/ dungeon (Lady’s Wicked Playground) near Allentown Pa. Miss Lydia accepts novice – experienced clients.

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Sombra with Nicholas Tanek

Goddess Sombra is a Dominatrix and rigger located in South Florida. She found her way into BDSM at the age of eighteen years old. A Sadist, Mistress and all around kinky woman, she proudly lives the lifestyle to its fullest.

Outside of being a professional Domme, she is an active member in the South Florida Community. She loves attending local rope events, as well as teaching classes. She plans to teach at conventions in 2019! Goddess Sombra teaches classes on Impact Play, Scene Negotiations, Orgasm Control/ Tease and Denial, as well as Sexual Education and how to please women better in bed.

She has appeared at events including Slave To Eden and will be attending the Order of Indomitus (November 2018)

 Her goal is to be able to educate and share her experiences with others. Sharing with them the same sense of belonging she felt upon entering the community and shedding light on Female Dominance, kink, Polyamory, and living a happy queer life to those curious about it.

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