YKF CHAT: Sex Ed With Tim (Tim Lagman) – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“There are some really tight holes out there.”

Tim Lagman (host of Sex Ed with Tim podcast) is a sex therapist and a semi-retired male escort. We discuss having thousands of lovers, why escorts should not charge per orgasm,  the film “Good Luck To You Leo Grande,” using grapes for scat play, and New York City gays vs. Los Angeles gays.

“People who embrace their sluttiness are more on top of their health than the average person.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Noir w/ Nicholas Tanek

I’ll shove my foot down your mouth.”

Mistress Noir is a Dominatrix from Arizona and host of Salacious Dommeversations YouTube channel / Podcast. We discuss the medical fetish, Stand up comedy, genital torture (CBT / Ballbusting), feet, sounding, humiliation, crossdressing, pegging, Femdom on a budget, spanking, chastity, and making men jerk off with jalapeno peppers.

I’ve injected Everclear into nuts.”

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Lindsay Goldwert w/ Nicholas Tanek

Lindsay Goldwert is the author of Bow Down: Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want. She is also a journalist, stand-up comic, and host of the SPENT podcast. We talk about being an author, the curiosity of Femdom, financial domination, stand-up comedy, lingerie, and how Femdom can change women’s non-kinky life for the better.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

Keep Your Sense of Humor: My Comic Friends Talk Sex & Comedy by Nicholas Tanek

                                   

Sex is funny. Sure, it can be serious and romantic, but sometimes it’s silly or awkward, and you have to just go with it. Many of us do not like to think of ourselves as being conceived after our parents were laughing their asses off, juggling dildos, and shoving objects in each other’s butts. Actually, these days, I think that would have been cool if I was conceived like that. My point is that sexuality and humor go hand in hand. There are some comics who have made their whole career talking about sex. There are others who avoid it. (One comic declined to do this article because she did not want to be labeled a “sex comic.”)

I wrote a book titled Your Kinky Friends. The fetish community saved my life while I was mourning my fiancée, Lynn, who passed away in 2012.  My editor told me that I managed to write a funny book about mourning and being sad. I take that comment to heart because it was humor that helped me through some of my darkest times. Sex and comedy are two very important aspects of my life. They don’t necessarily have to be combined, but I have to admit, funny people are sexy. I’m not rich. I’m barely keeping up with my looks. I’m not even healthy. Basically, I nap and fart. But, you know what? Dear reader, if we hang out, there’s a decent chance that we’ll share some laughs.

So, I asked my comic friends four questions about comedy and sexuality. Here are their answers.

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