Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part II by Nicholas Tanek

The BDSM/kink community is filled with sadists… who are good people. There are sadists who love to hurt people and there are masochists who go to them because they love the pain and humiliation.

So, I asked my kinky sadistic friends about sadism and here are their answers…

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Sydney with Nicholas Tanek

Goddess Sydney is a natural born Dominant, who has been a Lifestyle BD/SM Fetishist for the better part of 20 years and decided to transition to the role of Professional Dominant a bit over 5 years ago.  We discuss BDSM, Sex Games, sissies, Uncategorized, ballbusting, chastity, cuckolding, Dominatrix, feminization, ProDomme, sensory deprivation, sissies, spit, total power exchange (tpe), water sports, and more!
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Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part I by Nicholas Tanek

SADISM: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

Consensual sadism is quite common in the BDSM community, but the practices vary widely depending on the participants.  Some sadists enjoy sensual sadism.  This can be defined in many ways but it loosely involves the infliction of pain  mixed with pleasure.  Both participants tend to enjoy the scene and have agreed upon terms.  Other sadists engage in brutal, violent acts that may not be sexual and fulfill a need for power.   Sadism can seem scary to those who don’t understand the dynamic and question why participants get a rush from it.  I wanted to learn more about Our Kinky Friends who use pain, humiliation, and suffering in their scenes.

So… I asked some questions to my kinky sadist friends so that we could learn more about this kink.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Fenris & Lady Lilah Wilde with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Fenris Wolf & Lady Lilah Wilde are friends and business partners. Mistress Fenris is a sadist and a professional Dominatrix. Lady Lilah Wilde is also a professional Dominatrix who embodies values of cruelty, comfort, and culture. They both run Wilde Fenris Production.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Mercy West with Nicholas Tanek

Mercy West is a companion, BDSM practitioner, adult actor, and genuinely kinky person. Just a queer jumble of non-binary sensuality and empathy residing in Portland Oregon. She enjoys exotic cuisine, vintage erotica, retro fashion, marijuana, as well as all things sex-positive and am currently working on her new membership site.

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VIDEO CHAT: Miztress Tia with Nicholas Tanek

Miztress Tia is a Professional Dominatrix located on the East Coast of Canada.  She has been described as evil and mean, yet most who come to know her find her warm and empathetic once they get past her intimidating persona.  Her specialty is impact play however she does offer other services that can be found on her website Miztresstia.com.  She can also be found on Twitter and Fetlife under the same name.
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VIDEO CHAT: Bailey Love with Nicholas Tanek

Bailey Love is a trans sissy porn star who works for the THE SISSY INSTITUTE by Tia Tizzianni, who performs a transformation service for crossdressers.

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VIDEO CHAT: Octavia Achten with Nicholas Tanek

Domina Octavia Achten is a professional Dominatrix, model, and fetishist who lives the lifestyle full time. She is well educated in the multi-faceted art of BDSM. Years of experience and a natural, dominant allure give the Domina a presence that intoxicates. With a keen intellect and passions for history, foreign languages and Domination, She offers an experience that is delightfully surreal. Domina Octavia Achten is well known for her skill, and her love for her work.

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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part four) #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

The inspiring suggestions from Nicholas’s interviewees continue to impress me. This week’s thrifty spotlight includes tips from Alex Andrews, sex worker alumnus and activist; Lady Remedy Ann, professional Mistress; Jacqi Kill, lead singer of THE BAD DRUGS and fetish entertainer; and Satin Jade, satin fetishist.

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VIDEO CHAT: Slave Heather with Nicholas Tanek

Slave Heather is in a D/s relationship and considers herself her Master’s slave (Master David). She is also in a leather family.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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