A Dollar + Duct tape! by Miss_Melissa_

BDSM ON A BUDGET

As Nicholas Tanek says in every interview… support independent vendors who make high-quality kink gear if you can, but sometimes you’re in a financial bind. And sometimes you just want to get crafty! Suggestions from Nicholas’s video interviews are always an excellent source of inspiration (see suggestion two of this article). Sometimes simply walking the aisles of the Dollar Tree can get your kinky mind-gears turning. Here are a few inexpensive ideas that you can try using things you can find at the dollar store and some duct tape.

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Our Professional Dominatrix Friends Part V by Nicholas Tanek

A professional Dominatrix is more than just a sex worker. They play the role of a kinky therapist or counselor. Throughout this series, I have befriended many professional Dommes. Each one has something unique to offer and can give us insight into their world. So, I asked some of our professional Dominatrix friends some questions.

Here are their answers.

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Happy New Year from Your Kinky Friends! – Kinky Resolutions!




by TangledBlue and Mistress Melissa

It’s good to think about the bright shiny spots and the shitty dull moments of life as a year closes.  Reflection helps us to grow as people, and the resolutions we make for ourselves promise betterment and enlightenment for a happier future.  Some people choose to go for a goal like our friends Jay Tesst who wants to learn how to do play piercings and1RuleSupercedes who is going to put out a new album in February.   Others may choose something less tangible like spiritual enlightenment or inner peace. Your Kinky Friends sent us their resolutions, and here are our goals, wishes, and/or hopes for a brand spanking new year.   Continue reading Happy New Year from Your Kinky Friends! – Kinky Resolutions!

VIDEO CHAT: MsMadyson with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress MsMadyson A. DeLaRough, but you can call her MsMadyson {do note that it is big M little “s” big M no space. } It’s that way for a reason which happens to be that is how she wants it… She has known about the lifestyle in 1988, got in 1991 & became a Pro Dom in 2000. She does what she loves. Her whole family knows & she does her personal best to not hide from them or the people she chooses to love.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and hast a video chat with her.

 

 

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Heroes of the Kink Community Part IV by Nicholas Tanek

The kink community has wonderful people who educate and help other kinky people. Sometimes, it is through podcasts. Other times, it is through groups or books. Here at YKF, we know many heroes in the BDSM/kink community. I asked our friends a couple questions and here are their answers.

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VIDEO CHAT: Jada Pandora w/ Nicholas Tanek

Jada Pandora is a new to the scene sex worker, as well as an advocate and aspiring educator on topic intersecting sex and polyamory, kink/BDSM, and queer

 

 

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Living M/s (Master/slave) 24/7 by Master Bear

The Rule of Three – Part One

The biggest mistake that I see most new Masters make is having an extensive list of things that they want their slave to do. New Masters often times put unnecessary pressure on themselves by expecting everything all at once. Having a huge list in the beginning creates a couple of different issues.

First off, understand that if you as a Master cannot remember all of the things that you are requesting of your slave then why should your slave remember?  Secondly, this creates an unrealistic expectation on both you as well as your slave as to what can be realistically achieved in the early days of your dynamic. Slaves want to excel, they want to give, and they want to be the best they can for the Masters that they love. So set them and you up for success.

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VIDEO CHAT: Lady Absinthe w/ Nicholas Tanek

Lady Absinthe is a fetish model, Mistress, and cam girl. She specializes in Anal Training, Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Jerk-off Instruction, Orgasm Denial, Chastity Training, Submission, Tit/Nipple Torture, Whips, Condoms, Gags & Blindfolds, Humiliation, Masks, Rubber / Latex / PVC, Smoking, Foot Fetish, Outfit, Tattoos, FinDom.

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VIDEO CHAT: Dr. Gloria Brame w/ Nicholas Tanek

Award-winning sex therapist, pioneering sexologist, and best-selling author, Dr. Gloria Brame has been a legendary figure in the world of BDSM since publishing her classic text, Different Loving, in 1993. A former English professor, Gloria’s began researching, writing, and erotically exploring radical sex and fluid relationships in the early 1980s. Gloria founded the first online BDSM support group on Compuserve in 1987 and has not ceased since then to advance the cause of sexual progress and to help destroy the anti-sex myths and bigotries that destroy human lives through her books, blogs, and projects.
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VIDEO CHAT: Master Bear and slave eve w/ Nicholas Tanek

Master Bear and slave eve are a dynamic BDSM couple who live the Master/slave dynamic. They are very active in the kink community.

 

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