Lady Desiree is back! She is a professional Dominatrix and we talk about training horses and how that deals with BDSM. We talk about The Red Key Club, Pony Play, and shorting out violet wands.
“Most ponies are taken”
Bio: Lady Desiree has been a Professional Dominatrix for 11 years, she owns a fully equipped dungeon studio in Reno NV, pre-scheduled appointments are available 7 days a week. The Lady also travels frequently, working with her FemDom friends in other areas around the country. She began her journey into the BDSM Lifestyle 15 years ago as a submissive, learning from her partner and attending regional munches, classes, and workshops. In 2009 after completing Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts, The Dominatrix Training 3-Day Intensive, she began offering professional sessions in the Reno area. In 2012 she opened her own Reno studio, where most sessions take place today. Lady Desiree obtained her bachelor’s degree in psychology, with a focus on BDSM research, in May of 2014, and has an interest in the therapeutic value of BDSM play. She believes in the value of continuing education and attends one or more DomCon conventions and/or other BDSM conventions in order to continue to hone her skills as a professional dominatrix. Additionally, she has completed intensive workshops with Simone Justice (LA, New York, and Currently Houston) and Damiana Chi (LA), and has worked closely with Domina M (New York, LA, Reno, Barcelona, and currently in Paris). Some of the Lady’s favorite activities include; sensory deprivation and play, bondage, impact play – specifically florentine flogging and dragons tongue-whip, electrical play – erostek 312 and violet wands, foot fetishists, and psychological play. The lady does have a few hard limits; AB/DL, wrestling, scat, roman showers, blood play, and intimate body worship.
When asked what a session usually looks like, she offers, “I don’t have a pre-planned idea of a session, not even for my long time clients. I do require my clients to communicate clearly to me their interests and needs and encourage them to freely exchange energy with me. Each session will start and end with a different energy than the last. How my submissive or slave, felt the moment before he walked in my studio may determine how he needs to play that day. Some depend on my own state of mind. It’s my job to see and read his energy and satisfy those needs. There will be a basic direction, such as a bondage scene, and I look for the need of the submissive within that guideline. Some need tight restrictive bondage others just need the psychological bondage of me whispering in their ear, ‘Don’t disappoint me by moving’. If impact play is of interest, I need to gauge what is enough but not too much. I watch body language and breathing to determine where I should go next. I work off of the energy of my playmate and together we create a reality where there was only fantasy. Done correctly the session should ebb and flow, between pleasure and pain (if that is of interest) gradually increasing intensity for the entire session. I know that does not really give you a play by play, but it’s really something that needs to be experienced…..felt, because for each person it is different, even if I am doing the same physical activities. Talking about it does not do it justice!”
Links:
website: LadyDesireesLair.com
Twitter: TheLadyDesiree
IG: Lady_Desirees_Lair
Fetlife: Lady_Desiree
