Tag: femdom

THE BIG LEBOWSKI w/ Anna Valentina – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“It’s the cult classic that’s wearing a tailored coat”

The Dude abides, and so do we on the YKF Cinema Show! Dive deep into Coen Brothers neo-noir classic The Big Lebowski with brilliant dominatrix educator and Bussy Boss Anna Valentina (A Lebowski Priestess) as we unpack White Russians, bowling philosophy, that rug that tied the room together, foot fetish roleplay, Walter’s chaos energy, Maude’s femdom goddess power, nihilists, and subspace surrender.

“Fly your little freak flag. That’s exactly what Lebowski is about.”

 

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Lady Vesper (Power Unleashed) – 8.2026

“Dominance is an internal state.”

Lady Vesper is a writer, podcaster (Power Unleashed podcast), and online Domme known for precise language, an intellectual approach, and a complete refusal of easy FemDom clichés. On this episode of YKF: Your Kinky Friends, Lady Vesper shares how her first female submissive inspired her poetry, the unsolicited DMs that pushed her into financial domination and full-spectrum control, and why authentic dominance means creating from her own desires—not catering to male fantasy. We dig into the primacy of psychological dominance, the impossibility of fully separating psychological and physical control, long-term D/s dynamics, practical servitude, and her approach to financial devotion as a real-world expression of power, priority, and sacrifice. 

 

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PULP FICTION f/ Griselda Venum – (The YKF Cinema Show)

Griselda Venum educates Nicholas Tanek on the BDSM of PULP FICTION. We talk about how the gimp’s representation of the BDSM community, fetishistic murder, what’s in the case, who keyed Vincent Vega’s car, the toxic romance of Butch, and how Vincent Vega ruins everything!

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Danny Stygion – director of Dominatrices (film)/Sinical Magazine – 1.2026

“A lot of people don’t see the preparation.”

Danny Stygion is the director of the 2025 documentary, Dominatrices. We discuss being a filmmaker, Sinical Magazine, being a professional BDSM photographer, One Last Trip, Bayou City Burlesque, working with Dita Von Teese, how lighting changes everything, and the power of nylons.

“Work with the resources you have.”

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THE GROWL: Nicco Noire

“My closet is dark.”

The Lady Lioness and Nicco Noire unpack the elegant world of Femdom tea parties—from protocol training, silent service in bow ties, tiered serving trays and scones, to consent, and a perfectly timed naughty stick moment. We discuss the Goddess House NJ Tea Party, ClubFEMNJ events, cannabis and consent, and how Nicco Noire maintains her magnificence.

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THE GROWL: Velvet Contessa (ClubFemNJ/Goddess House) and Mistress Gabrielle (2 Kinky Women Podcast)

YKF GROWL: A new YKF series

“We train boys.”

The Lady Lioness and Nicholas Tanek welcome Velvet Contessa (ClubFemNJ/Goddess House) and Mistress Gabrielle (2 Kinky Women Podcast) for a lively discussion on elegant Femdom culture, exploring Goddess House events, the grace and symbolism of formal tea parties, Spanksgiving celebrations, training submissive boys, the use of shock collars, consensual kidnapping scenarios, and the delights of sissy maid service.

“Etiquette means being kind to others.”

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Sissy Joyce – 12.2025

“Swallow your pride, sissies.”

Sissy Joyce, Belgium’s sissy superstar and creator of The Sissy Market, explores the allure of chastity, cuckolding, and sissification with YKF as she shares her HRT-fueled journey with sissy hypno, sissy exposure, consent vs. abuse, and creating a brick & mortar sissy paradise.

“Chastity is a very personal thing.”

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TheLadyLioness – 12.2025

“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”

TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.

“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”

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YKF WEEKENDS: The Femdom Ball w/ Alex Keeper & Mistress Sophie

“Only the Dommes are permitted to have chairs.”

Alex Keeper & Mistress Sophie talk with YKF about the elegant Femdom Ball 2025 in London.

 

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Katherine Dire – 11.2025

“The closer they get to crying, the happier I am.”

Katherine Dire is an Erotic Hypnotist and Professional/lifestyle Mistress in Portland, OR. We discuss playing the dark/evil therapist role, emotional sadism, what to say during ruined orgasms, and trying to make the term “GOCK” more popular.

“Turn your talk button on.”

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