What does it really mean when we say chosen family?
In this deeply moving live episode, Lady Lioness sits down with co-host Nicholas Tanek to talk about what happens when the BDSM community shows up in real life—not just in scenes, not just online, but in moments of loss.
“We’re the top of the food chain.”
Mischief Schari (Mischief Matters/Mischief Manor) joins The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek on YKF The Growl. We discuss running New Jersey’s coolest BDSM dungeon, having two lifestyle subs, being the hub of Nicholas Tanek’s whimsical creativity, LGBTQIA+ inclusivity, musicals, Princess Leia, Wonder Woman, and a 5-9 person orgy on the dungeon floor.
“You are the longest relationship you will ever have.”
Continue reading YKF GROWL: Mistress Schari of Mischief Manor / Mischief Matters
The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.
Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.
Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.
Continue reading YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek
“All you have is your connection with humanity.”
subMissAnn returns to #YKF to talk about the third edition of her book, “Pony Play”. We discuss pony play, Los Angeles Pony & Critter Club, Equus International Pony Play Event, the leather community “The Art Of Racing In The Rain,” and the fear of the cattle prod.
“Dedication, integrity, passion, & commitment.”
“I don’t just f*{k your @$$, I f*{k your soul.”
Experiment: Can YKF do a show about vanilla life without it going down a BDSM rabbit hole? Answer: NO, we cannot. Sunshine, Anna Valentina & Mistress Sophie try to talk about vanilla life, but cannot stop talking about the BDSM lifestyle. D&D, motorcycles, & supermarket kink…. Kink always finds a way.
“Money secures time, discretion, & space.”
Miztress Claudia, LadyRed, Anna Valentina, & Mistress Sophie talk about “KINK MONEY”. What is kink money? We discuss how $ changes everything, the financial landscape of the kink community, findom, The YKF Marketplace, discreet payment processing, BDSM on a budget, and what the most lucrative fetish is.
“That’s money down the toilet!”
Continue reading “KINK MONEY” f/ Miztress Claudia, LadyRed, Anna Valentina, & Mistress Sophie
“I like fiendish, scientific, and intricate things.”
Miss Kim Rub, the legendary kink icon, returns to YKF to talk about Rubber Cult, rubber-only fetish clubbing, days of underground kink, horseshoe nails, and beautiful kinky films. (“Preaching To The Perverted,” “Maitresse,” “The Cook, The Thief, His Wife, & Her Lover,” and “Personal Services”)
“BDSM will never be boring.”
“We can enjoy the painful experience together.”
MsMadyson A. DeLaRough is a legendary kink educator/ProDom/Custom Content Creator and owner of Alphabet Mafia of Kink, one-stop online store for the kink & LGBTQIA+ communities. We discuss Las Vegas, Feminization/sissification aftercare, the eroticism of cooking, and making subs use bacon grease as lube.
“Food is my love language.”
“Get to know your limits.”
Miss D. is an artist/Domme in Albuquerque, NM, who specializes in welcoming sissification and ABDL play. We talk about Bridgette (her strap-on), SPH art, human-made art, customized art, smashing testicles between the pages of a book, and a detailed version of taking a sissy to a sex shop backroom for gloryhole fun.
“I listen to smut while grocery shopping.”
Vivian Vibes chats about her new TV show, Slut Talk. We also discuss writing erotic poetry, the nuances of sex work, Anora, evolving with AI, and Femdom fun with pennies.
“There are so many ways to torture the c*ck and balls.”
