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YKF: Goddess Narcissa – 4.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek (live from Mischief Manor)

“I enjoy hurting people, but harming someone is completely different.”

Goddess Narcissa is a professional/lifestyle Domme, founder of Mercy Whips, fetish model, and chef. We talk about the art of whipping, an all-Asian BDSM dungeon, outlaw fetish photography, bottom-led learning, finding a dependable whip bottom, and retaliating against attackers with a huge kitchen knife.

“When Narcissa does something, she does it until she gets to the marrow.”

P.S. Goddess Narcissa would like to point out that Dave is not a stalker, but a loyal sub.

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YKF VIDEO: Princess Kaz – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’ll chain you to the radiator in my bathroom as I luxuriate.”

Princess Kaz B from Wiltshire (UK) is back to discuss her upcoming documentary, her books (Confessions of a Dominatrix), erotic poetry, chastity teasing, the UK kink scene, transexual sex dolls, sissification, and having subs suck mud off of her toes.

“I think we are all a little sadistic sometimes.”

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YKF VIDEO: The Commandant – 2.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’m a sadist, not an asshole.”

The Commandant, known for being KINKY GOOGLE, is a traveling kink educator and lifestyle Dominatrix from Texas. We talk about sissification vs. feminization, how kink saved our lives, a women-led queer-inclusive space, the sex life of physicists, wanting to run an ethical whorehouse, Depeche Mode for dungeons, the cum receptacle competition, and which Wu-Tang Clan song is best to flog to.

“Any hole’s the goal.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Ezra (Ask Ezra) -1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I want my sex to hurt a little bit… so what?”

Sir Ezra of Ask Ezra returns to talk about his new book The Path Through. We discuss being a professional male Dom, poetry, romance, healing, grief, body degradation, Jack Kerouac, sexting, and oral sex with hot sauce.

“Be a good houseguest to your feelings.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Lilyann Laurent – 1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I had my rope top tie me to a tree next to a lake with lilipads.”

Lilyann Laurent is the author of “Vulpes Niveus”. She is also a film director, singer-songwriter, spirituality influencer, and lifestyle brand designer.  We discuss age-gap romance with older men, erotic fiction, poetry, the bond of rope/shibari, and primal play.

“There aren’t enough bisexual women represented in media.”

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Mischief Manor: Real Random Quotes

Conversations with kinky people inspire us. Since the opening night in 2022, I began collecting real random quotes that I overhear in passing while at Mischief Manor, my local BDSM kink dungeon run by the legendary Mistress Schari.  The rule of the game is that people must consent to contribute these quotes. Second, they are actual quotes that must be random, but in passing. The third rule is never to attribute a quote to a person. Part of the fun is remembering who said it (or who you think would have said it).

“I want weird people to meet other weird people.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Sera Miles (PEPlove) – 9.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“People are going to have an experience of feeling secure while playing out the fetishes they are ashamed of.”

The legendary Sera Miles of PEPLove is retiring and all the ladies came together to say thank you to this magnificent woman. We also discuss phone sex, knife play, blood play, sissification, AI in sex work, and how kinky people must communicate. So, let’s talk!

“The first step to make everything better is decriminalization.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Carli de Ville (Naughtylicious) – 6.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’m getting litty like a locked up useless clitty!”

Carli de Ville (Sexologist & Psychotherapist creating educational content on Sex/Kink/BDSM) is the author of NAUGHTYLICIOUS. We use the book/game to discuss kinky icebreakers for both swingers and couples.  We have a conversation to inspire other kinky conversations.

 

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A Safe, Sane, & Consensual Summer -6.2023 w/ Nicco Noire, Carli de Ville, Mistress Jennifer & Nicholas Tanek

Nicco Noire & Nicholas Tanek create The 12 Steps Of A Safe, Sane, & Consensual Summer with the help of Carli de Ville (Sexologist) & Mistress Jennifer (Houston, TX). We talk about the perils of alcohol, the beauty of lube, finding a neutral place, inflatable unicorns, rainbow dildos, whips, straight jackets, & more!

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VIDEO CHAT: Tina Koopersmith MD – 4.2023

“Eroticism is the secret sauce to wellness.”

Tina Koopersmith MD is a fertility doctor, relationship coach, and kink advocate. We discuss eroticism, the meaning of life, female empowerment, the beauty of the erotic mind, the breeding fetish, D/s relationships, and the power of kinky sexual expression.

“Frequent ejaculation is good. You have to get out all of the junk.”

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