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SPRING BREAKERS f/ Griselda Venum – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“The spring breakers are the scum.”

Nicholas Tanek sits down with high-protocol dominatrix and one-woman haunted house Griselda Venum to break down Harmony Korine’s cult classic Spring Breakers. We dive into the film’s dark underbelly—exploring its BDSM and kink elements, the infamous gun-fellatio scene, grooming dynamics, power exchange, and the seductive corruption of youth. Griselda unpacks the film’s twisted masculine/feminine themes, class and race dynamics, poverty versus hedonistic excess, drugs, crime, and the way innocence spirals into chaos. From psychological domination and fear play to real-life parallels involving dangerous romance and moral erosion, we make everyone “Look at My Shit!”

“Spring Breakers is a comment on how we live in delusions.”

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SHORTBUS w/ Briska – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“Who hasn’t had a threesome that started like this?”

Rope goddess, proud fem daddy, and poly household leader Briska returns to The YKF Cinema Show for a raw, joyful, and explicit deep dive into John Cameron Mitchell’s cult classic SHORTBUS — the 2006 NYC erotic masterpiece packed with unsimulated sex, chaotic orgies, queer healing, and post-9/11 messiness. Briska reveals how this film literally changed her life as a young sexual health advocate, why it still hits different 20 years later, and how it mirrors real kink community vibes — the good, the messy, the patriotic ass-singing, and everything in between. Consent is sexy. Trauma dumping at sex parties. Dominatrix real talk. Poly negotiations. Vibrating eggs gone wrong. We discuss why this unapologetically raw indie film remains a gateway AND provocation for the kink & queer community.

“Short Bus fundamentally changed my life.”

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Dr. Stacy Friedman (The Purple Passion Project) – 7.2026

“Women Need to Be Masturbating”

Dr. Stacy Friedman (from The Purple Passion Project podcast) is a Clinical Sexologist and certified sex coach who joins Nicholas Tanek for a raw, shame-free conversation about sex after 50. In this episode, they destroy the biggest myth about midlife sexuality: that menopause kills your sex life. The truth? Many people are having the best sex of their lives once they drop performance pressure and embrace what actually works now.

“Our brains thrive on novelty.”

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SEX, LIES AND VIDEOTAPE w/ Goddess Rainey – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“It’s beautiful. It’s really beautiful. I like that”

Goddess Rainey (from Charlotte, NC) joins Nicholas Tanek on THE YKF CINEMA SHOW for a breakdown of Steven Soderbergh’s groundbreaking 1989 indie masterpiece, Sex, Lies, and Videotape. She delivers sharp insights into the film’s core themes of control, honesty versus lies, vulnerability, and power exchange, while exploring consent, voyeurism, repressed sexuality, and raw desire. With her signature wit and expertise as a medical play aficionado and sadist queen, Goddess Rainey dissects James Spader’s impotent voyeur Graham, Andie MacDowell’s frigid-to-freed Ann, Peter Gallagher’s cheating toxic John, and Laura San Giacomo’s chaotic hedonist Cynthia.

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Griselda Venum – 7.2026

“My brand is denial.”

Griselda Venum is an intellectual, intense, high-protocol sadist in the Ohio femdom BDSM scene. The One Woman Haunted House (Madam Griselda) talks about how high-end protocol and trauma-informed RACK/PRICK have been essential to genuine kink connection. We talk chastity, sissification, abduction play, CBT, and setting tents of men on fire. She adds to The Chastity Tears Poem, and we debate the best style of execution (firing squad vs. guillotine).

“You really don’t need a lot to torture someone’s balls.”

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Huntress Lynx 🐍👹 – 6.2026

“I need to shoot someone in the balls with my Lego gun.”

Huntress Lynx is a 10-year lifestyle and professional dominatrix from St. Petersburg, Florida. Standing at just 5’3″, she delivers fierce rope mastery, sadistic precision, extreme bondage, sissification, prey play, and raw 24/7 primal energy. From her strict religious cult upbringing to building her dream pro-dom life, we dive into Florida’s wild kink scene, gun play and safety, unshakable confidence, self-care rituals, chastity, latex ASMR, steak denial, and that unforgettable “click.”

“I bust holy water all over them.”

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LOVE & LEASHES w/ Briska – (The YKF Cinema Show)

Briska (NJ rope legend, fem daddy, and 24/7 kink powerhouse) joins Nicholas Tanek on The YKF Cinema Show for LOVE & LEASHES! We discuss this hot Korean office romcom: fantasy vs reality, real BDSM contracts, puppy play chaos, those deadly red heels, and one hell of a female empowerment arc. We talk office package mix-ups, squirting at work disasters, and why you should NEVER get sex toys delivered to the office.

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QUEEN OF THE DAMNED w/ LadyRed – (The YKF Cinema Show)

LadyRed and Nicholas Tanek bite into Queen of the Damned (2002) and suck out the good parts. Those immortal, lonely vampires are us in the kink community — dripping with power, starving for real connection. Aaliyah became the Queen we’d all bleed for. We also play: Whose heart would you rip out and eat in front of a cheering crowd?

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PULP FICTION f/ Griselda Venum – (The YKF Cinema Show)

Griselda Venum educates Nicholas Tanek on the BDSM of PULP FICTION. We talk about how the gimp’s representation of the BDSM community, fetishistic murder, what’s in the case, who keyed Vincent Vega’s car, the toxic romance of Butch, and how Vincent Vega ruins everything!