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THE BIG LEBOWSKI w/ Anna Valentina – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“It’s the cult classic that’s wearing a tailored coat”

The Dude abides, and so do we on the YKF Cinema Show! Dive deep into Coen Brothers neo-noir classic The Big Lebowski with brilliant dominatrix educator and Bussy Boss Anna Valentina (A Lebowski Priestess) as we unpack White Russians, bowling philosophy, that rug that tied the room together, foot fetish roleplay, Walter’s chaos energy, Maude’s femdom goddess power, nihilists, and subspace surrender.

“Fly your little freak flag. That’s exactly what Lebowski is about.”

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THE LAST DRAGON f/ Delvin Cox of The Delvin Cox Experience – (The YKF Cinema Show)

Delvin Cox, host of The Delvin Cox Experience, joins The YKF Cinema Show for an entertaining deep dive into the 1985 martial arts, music, and pop-culture classic The Last Dragon! From Bruce Leroy and “The Glow” to Sho’nuff, the Shogun of Harlem, Eddie Arkadian, Laura Charles, the legendary Motown soundtrack, and some of the most gloriously ridiculous moments in ’80s cinema, we break down why The Last Dragon still hits—and why it inspires kinksters to find their own Glow.

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Dr. Stacy Friedman (The Purple Passion Project) – 7.2026

“Women Need to Be Masturbating”

Dr. Stacy Friedman (from The Purple Passion Project podcast) is a Clinical Sexologist and certified sex coach who joins Nicholas Tanek for a raw, shame-free conversation about sex after 50. In this episode, they destroy the biggest myth about midlife sexuality: that menopause kills your sex life. The truth? Many people are having the best sex of their lives once they drop performance pressure and embrace what actually works now.

“Our brains thrive on novelty.”

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Griselda Venum – 7.2026

“My brand is denial.”

Griselda Venum is an intellectual, intense, high-protocol sadist in the Ohio femdom BDSM scene. The One Woman Haunted House (Madam Griselda) talks about how high-end protocol and trauma-informed RACK/PRICK have been essential to genuine kink connection. We talk chastity, sissification, abduction play, CBT, and setting tents of men on fire. She adds to The Chastity Tears Poem, and we debate the best style of execution (firing squad vs. guillotine).

“You really don’t need a lot to torture someone’s balls.”

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VIDEODROME w/ Mistress Genevieve & Peter Tupper – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“She’s totally in control of her pain” – Mistress Genevieve

The YKF Cinema Show gets sucked into David Cronenberg’s 1982 body-horror masterpiece Videodrome with professional dominatrix/dark cinema lover Mistress Genevieve and BDSM historian Peter Tupper (A Lover’s Pinch: A Cultural History of Sadomasochism). We explore ideas of the media as a virus, masochistic surrender, erotic transformation, dominant/submissive power games, and the seductive “New Flesh” philosophy—revealing how Cronenberg fuses sex, pain, control, and technology into one of the most transgressive films ever made.

Everything discussed is between consenting adults.

Watch now. Long Live the New Flesh.

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SANCTUARY (2022) w/ Cassidy Cream – (THE YKF Cinema Show)

What happens when a wealthy heir tries to dump his dominatrix… and she refuses to let go? In this episode of The YKF Cinema Show, Nicholas Tanek sits down with pro-Domme and fan favorite Mistress Cassidy Cream to break down the dark-comedy psychological thriller Sanctuary (2022), starring Margaret Qualley. Cassidy Cream also treats viewers to a close-up of her stocking-clad foot.

Topics:

- Real FEMDOM power dynamics and mind games
- Consent
- Financial Domination
- The blurry line between fantasy roleplay and dangerous reality
- Humiliation, control, consent, and what happens when the safe word is ignored
- How the movie nails — and misses — the true dom/sub experience
- The Watch!

Cassidy brings years of dungeon experience and sharp insights to the conversation. If you love dark kink cinema, psychological thrillers, or simply want to hear a real dominatrix dissect a film about one, this episode is for you.

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Huntress Lynx 🐍👹 – 6.2026

“I need to shoot someone in the balls with my Lego gun.”

Huntress Lynx is a 10-year lifestyle and professional dominatrix from St. Petersburg, Florida. Standing at just 5’3″, she delivers fierce rope mastery, sadistic precision, extreme bondage, sissification, prey play, and raw 24/7 primal energy. From her strict religious cult upbringing to building her dream pro-dom life, we dive into Florida’s wild kink scene, gun play and safety, unshakable confidence, self-care rituals, chastity, latex ASMR, steak denial, and that unforgettable “click.”

“I bust holy water all over them.”

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LOVE & LEASHES w/ Briska – (The YKF Cinema Show)

Briska (NJ rope legend, fem daddy, and 24/7 kink powerhouse) joins Nicholas Tanek on The YKF Cinema Show for LOVE & LEASHES! We discuss this hot Korean office romcom: fantasy vs reality, real BDSM contracts, puppy play chaos, those deadly red heels, and one hell of a female empowerment arc. We talk office package mix-ups, squirting at work disasters, and why you should NEVER get sex toys delivered to the office.

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Mistress Ultra Violet – 5.2026

“We’re not actually kidnapping people.”

Mistress Ultra Violet is the owner of Atlanta Dungeon, Atlanta Bed and Bondage, and Atlanta Sissy School. She joins YKF to talk about the beauty of sissy transformation, running a BDSM bed & breakfast, scent trainings, sissy school, sissies being addicted to chastity, and Camp Captivity for consensual kidnapping.

“I would like to do more kidnappings.”