Category: Podcast

Melancholy Ghost (Seductive Tees) – 9.2026

“Listen to the community’s desires and needs.”

Melancholy Ghost (founder of Seductive Tees & current Miss Missouri Leather) joins YKF to discuss Seductive Tees, a proudly woman-owned, custom in-house print shop launched in 2024. Size-inclusive (XS–5X) and rooted in the LGBTQIA+, leather, and kink communities, the one thing they never print is hate. We talk about starting a community-driven apparel biz, the best damn salmon recipe you’ll ever hear, pot-themed burlesque, and pegging classes!

“Soft shirts resonate.”

 

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THE BIG LEBOWSKI w/ Anna Valentina – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“It’s the cult classic that’s wearing a tailored coat”

The Dude abides, and so do we on the YKF Cinema Show! Dive deep into Coen Brothers neo-noir classic The Big Lebowski with brilliant dominatrix educator and Bussy Boss Anna Valentina (A Lebowski Priestess) as we unpack White Russians, bowling philosophy, that rug that tied the room together, foot fetish roleplay, Walter’s chaos energy, Maude’s femdom goddess power, nihilists, and subspace surrender.

“Fly your little freak flag. That’s exactly what Lebowski is about.”

 

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Lady Vesper (Power Unleashed) – 8.2026

“Dominance is an internal state.”

Lady Vesper is a writer, podcaster (Power Unleashed podcast), and online Domme known for precise language, an intellectual approach, and a complete refusal of easy FemDom clichés. On this episode of YKF: Your Kinky Friends, Lady Vesper shares how her first female submissive inspired her poetry, the unsolicited DMs that pushed her into financial domination and full-spectrum control, and why authentic dominance means creating from her own desires—not catering to male fantasy. We dig into the primacy of psychological dominance, the impossibility of fully separating psychological and physical control, long-term D/s dynamics, practical servitude, and her approach to financial devotion as a real-world expression of power, priority, and sacrifice. 

 

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SPRING BREAKERS f/ Griselda Venum – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“The spring breakers are the scum.”

Nicholas Tanek sits down with high-protocol dominatrix and one-woman haunted house Griselda Venum to break down Harmony Korine’s cult classic Spring Breakers. We dive into the film’s dark underbelly—exploring its BDSM and kink elements, the infamous gun-fellatio scene, grooming dynamics, power exchange, and the seductive corruption of youth. Griselda unpacks the film’s twisted masculine/feminine themes, class and race dynamics, poverty versus hedonistic excess, drugs, crime, and the way innocence spirals into chaos. From psychological domination and fear play to real-life parallels involving dangerous romance and moral erosion, we make everyone “Look at My Shit!”

“Spring Breakers is a comment on how we live in delusions.”

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SHORTBUS w/ Briska – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“Who hasn’t had a threesome that started like this?”

Rope goddess, proud fem daddy, and poly household leader Briska returns to The YKF Cinema Show for a raw, joyful, and explicit deep dive into John Cameron Mitchell’s cult classic SHORTBUS — the 2006 NYC erotic masterpiece packed with unsimulated sex, chaotic orgies, queer healing, and post-9/11 messiness. Briska reveals how this film literally changed her life as a young sexual health advocate, why it still hits different 20 years later, and how it mirrors real kink community vibes — the good, the messy, the patriotic ass-singing, and everything in between. Consent is sexy. Trauma dumping at sex parties. Dominatrix real talk. Poly negotiations. Vibrating eggs gone wrong. We discuss why this unapologetically raw indie film remains a gateway AND provocation for the kink & queer community.

“Short Bus fundamentally changed my life.”

 

 

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Anna Valentina & Her Brother – 2026

“Our mom had impeccable taste.”

Recorded in the wake of their mother’s memorial, Anna Valentina and her brother are reunited on YKF to discuss the passing of their mother. Anna brings her actual sibling on the mic — the person who knows all her secrets — for a raw, honest conversation about grief, family, authenticity, and the powerful Korean matriarch who shaped them both. From late-night “biology lessons” through the bedroom wall to leather boots, pearls, and unapologetic female strength, they trace how their mother’s example flows directly into Anna’s life as a pro Domme and into David’s own path. No judgment, just real talk about loss in waves, acceptance, bravery, and running toward what scares you. This episode proves how kink, family, and real life can hold space together.

“I’m sorry I didn’t understand you more.”

 

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VIDEODROME w/ Mistress Genevieve & Peter Tupper – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“She’s totally in control of her pain” – Mistress Genevieve

The YKF Cinema Show gets sucked into David Cronenberg’s 1982 body-horror masterpiece Videodrome with professional dominatrix/dark cinema lover Mistress Genevieve and BDSM historian Peter Tupper (A Lover’s Pinch: A Cultural History of Sadomasochism). We explore ideas of the media as a virus, masochistic surrender, erotic transformation, dominant/submissive power games, and the seductive “New Flesh” philosophy—revealing how Cronenberg fuses sex, pain, control, and technology into one of the most transgressive films ever made.

Everything discussed is between consenting adults.

Watch now. Long Live the New Flesh.

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SANCTUARY (2022) w/ Cassidy Cream – (THE YKF Cinema Show)

What happens when a wealthy heir tries to dump his dominatrix… and she refuses to let go? In this episode of The YKF Cinema Show, Nicholas Tanek sits down with pro-Domme and fan favorite Mistress Cassidy Cream to break down the dark-comedy psychological thriller Sanctuary (2022), starring Margaret Qualley. Cassidy Cream also treats viewers to a close-up of her stocking-clad foot.

Topics:

    • Real FEMDOM power dynamics and mind games
    • Consent
    • Financial Domination
    • The blurry line between fantasy roleplay and dangerous reality
    • Humiliation, control, consent, and what happens when the safe word is ignored
    • How the movie nails — and misses — the true dom/sub experience
    • The Watch!

Cassidy brings years of dungeon experience and sharp insights to the conversation. If you love dark kink cinema, psychological thrillers, or simply want to hear a real dominatrix dissect a film about one, this episode is for you.  

 

 

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TRAINING DAY f/ Griselda Venum – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“I always wanted to pistol whip somebody.” – Griselda Venum

Griselda Venum and Nicholas Tanek break down the film, TRAINING DAY. They explore the film’s layered trauma of rape, the corrosive nature of power, chess versus checkers, Denzel Washington’s timeless performance, and the smiles-and-cries duality that makes the movie unforgettable. Was Jake Hoyt the shepherd? And does King Kong have shit on Alonzo?

 

 

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QUEEN OF THE DAMNED w/ LadyRed – (The YKF Cinema Show)

LadyRed and Nicholas Tanek bite into Queen of the Damned (2002) and suck out the good parts. Those immortal, lonely vampires are us in the kink community — dripping with power, starving for real connection.  Aaliyah became the Queen we’d all bleed for. We also play: Whose heart would you rip out and eat in front of a cheering crowd?

 

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