“I think that was the most fun I’ve had ruining an orgasm.”
Valerie von Vice is a legendary Lifestyle and Professional Domme who started The Haus of Obsidian, an event group focused on Femme-Led dynamics and high-protocol parties. We discuss keyholding, various chastity devices, burlesque, Washington D.C., advice for keyholders, and the secrets behind throwing a pegging party.
🎙️ Growl Podcast – Movie Recap & Review: Preaching to the Perverted
In this episode of the Growl Podcast, Nicholas Tanek & The Lady Lioness dive into the cult classic Preaching to the Perverted (1997)- a provocative, controversial, and surprisingly insightful look at the BDSM underground of the late 90s.
Join us as we recap the entire film, break down its unforgettable characters, and explore the film’s themes of morality, sexuality, and power. But we don’t stop there…
What really happens behind the heels? 👠🔥
In this bold and unfiltered episode of The Growl Podcast, we sit down with Cbombz (Conversations w/ Crossdressers Podcast) for a powerful conversation about dominance, identity, and the psychology behind transformation.
“Behind the Heels: Conversation with CBOMBZ” dives deep into her hit podcast, Conversations with Crossdressers, where she creates space for honest dialogue around crossdressing, power exchange, and the emotional journeys of those who embrace feminization within consensual kink dynamics.
“Your nipples remind me of my girlfriend’s clit.”
Jade Desires is back to discuss the art of the ruined orgasms, tease, denial, Odaxelagnia (biting), mindfulness, psychology books, and how primal players are the ones who ignite everything.
“Men’s nipples do not get touched nearly enough.”
“He needed the foot.”
Mistress Anne returns to YKF to tell of her evolution from a brutal sadist into the Mommy Domme role. We discuss FISTING with both feet, seeing sissies on the streets, and fisting someone while being made to watch the World Series.
“You didn’t want vanilla? This is what you get.”
What does it really mean when we say chosen family?
In this deeply moving live episode, Lady Lioness sits down with co-host Nicholas Tanek to talk about what happens when the BDSM community shows up in real life—not just in scenes, not just online, but in moments of loss.
“Cuckoldism is vouyourism on crack.”
Chastity Queen returns to YKF for the first Sunday one-on-one of 2026. We dive into her Crown & Cage Society—cumming in cages, chastity tears, steamy cuckolding, and BDSM witchcraft. We talk sex magick rituals, harnessing cum energy, international keyholding adventures, and mass locking events. There’s telekinesis, subs balancing wet diapers on their heads… and the legendary stunt of sealing a man inside 15 layers of diapers and duct tape.
“I use my mind to kick his balls.”
“Power exchange is how I express my love for people.”
Briska is a legendary New Jersey rope educator and performer in the BDSM scene. She founded The Moth House, a small leather house dedicated to queer joy, community, and education. In this discussion, we explore her past experience modeling for major kink sites, including Hard Tied, Infernal Restraints, and Kink.com. She retired from modeling around 2010 to focus on tying others, creating dynamic scenes, teaching, and deepening her own rope and power exchange practices.
“Rope is an extension of myself.”
Continue reading YKF GROWL: Briska (NJ Rope Legend/Educator)
“We’re the top of the food chain.”
Mischief Schari (Mischief Matters/Mischief Manor) joins The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek on YKF The Growl. We discuss running New Jersey’s coolest BDSM dungeon, having two lifestyle subs, being the hub of Nicholas Tanek’s whimsical creativity, LGBTQIA+ inclusivity, musicals, Princess Leia, Wonder Woman, and a 5-9 person orgy on the dungeon floor.
“You are the longest relationship you will ever have.”
Continue reading YKF GROWL: Mistress Schari of Mischief Manor / Mischief Matters
The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.
Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.
Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.
Continue reading YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek
