“I think that was the most fun I’ve had ruining an orgasm.”
Valerie von Vice is a legendary Lifestyle and Professional Domme who started The Haus of Obsidian, an event group focused on Femme-Led dynamics and high-protocol parties. We discuss keyholding, various chastity devices, burlesque, Washington D.C., advice for keyholders, and the secrets behind throwing a pegging party.
“2026 is the year of showing up.”
Eustacia joins YKF for the first one-on-one episode of 2026. She’s the legendary Boston Dominatrix who’s also a certified helicopter pilot—her spirit color is traffic cone orange. We discuss the dungeon reflex, the grief of a sub’s passing, being banned from platforms, NOLA hip-hop, The Lost Boys, and attempting to re-enact Whitesnake’s “Here I Go Again” video.
“I’m still going to try and flush your head down the toilet.”
The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.
Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.
Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.
Continue reading YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek
“My closet is dark.”
The Lady Lioness and Nicco Noire unpack the elegant world of Femdom tea parties—from protocol training, silent service in bow ties, tiered serving trays and scones, to consent, and a perfectly timed naughty stick moment. We discuss the Goddess House NJ Tea Party, ClubFEMNJ events, cannabis and consent, and how Nicco Noire maintains her magnificence.
Are you having trouble finding a space to be kinky? This episode is for you. TheLadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie discuss finding a safe and inspiring place to get kinky.
From shedding judgment at your first munch to vetting new dungeons by checking hosts’ ethics and attendee vibes, the panel drops wisdom for hesitant newbies. They tackle small-town scenes, the rise of paid professional dungeons and kinky Airbnbs (mostly a win for accessibility), inclusivity must-haves like elevators and diversity statements, and ultimate dream spaces, ranging from equestrian pony stables to shadowy, high-energy warehouses with aftercare nooks. Nicholas Tanek tells his story of pallet wrap in public.
YKF GROWL: A new YKF series
“We train boys.”
The Lady Lioness and Nicholas Tanek welcome Velvet Contessa (ClubFemNJ/Goddess House) and Mistress Gabrielle (2 Kinky Women Podcast) for a lively discussion on elegant Femdom culture, exploring Goddess House events, the grace and symbolism of formal tea parties, Spanksgiving celebrations, training submissive boys, the use of shock collars, consensual kidnapping scenarios, and the delights of sissy maid service.
“Etiquette means being kind to others.”
“I was collaring subs like collecting Pokémon cards.”
Mistress Tess is a legend in the UK Femdom community. She joins YKF to talk about Fetish Weekend London, the CFNM lifestyle, Gynarchy Governance, Vanilla Corruption, whips made of fishing wire, keeping her husband in permanent chastity, ruined orgasms, rubber, the love of horses, and turning men into man-puddles.
“Usually, crying is where I would stop, but…”
“Swallow your pride, sissies.”
Sissy Joyce, Belgium’s sissy superstar and creator of The Sissy Market, explores the allure of chastity, cuckolding, and sissification with YKF as she shares her HRT-fueled journey with sissy hypno, sissy exposure, consent vs. abuse, and creating a brick & mortar sissy paradise.
“Chastity is a very personal thing.”
“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”
TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.
“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”
“Beating people burns calories.”
Mistress June & CashVamp talk Pandemonium (aka, the Capital of Hell), an immersive BDSM play party in Philadelphia. We also discuss the 4 BDSM theme rooms, kinky speed dating, variants of pain play, drag tail whips, two-way mirrors, TRE (Trauma Release Exercises), and how OCPD makes Mistress June a chronic kink overworker.
“Be proud of your kinks.”
Continue reading PANDEMONIUM – Mistress June & CashVamp – 11.2025
