“I think that was the most fun I’ve had ruining an orgasm.”

Valerie von Vice is a legendary Lifestyle and Professional Domme who started The Haus of Obsidian, an event group focused on Femme-Led dynamics and high-protocol parties. We discuss keyholding, various chastity devices, burlesque, Washington D.C., advice for keyholders, and the secrets behind throwing a pegging party.

Mistress Valerie von Vice is Lifestyle and Professional Domme with a passion for curating events for the bdsm community. For 10+ years she has had a focus on developing herself as kinkster and exploring all facets until 4 years into her journey she fell in love with being a key holder then power exchange. Currently she is the lead organizer of Haus of Obsidian, an event group focused on Femme Led dynamics and high protocol parties. Haus of Obsidian hosts monthly munches in the DC/Maryland/Northern Virginia area, punny and playful kink play parties for strap-on enthusiastists, and The Obsidian Ball; a high protocol fetish Ball.