YKF WEEKENDS: “Checking In On The Kink Community” w/ Anna Valentina & Mistress Sophie

“The whisper network depends on us.”

Anna Valentina and Mistress Sophie reunite on YKF WEEKENDS to discuss the importance of kinky check-ins with each other. We’ve lost too many kinksters this year. Don’t you wish you’d kept the connection with some people? While catching up, we also talk about Isla Moon, pegging, and how R.C. Horsch is a scumbag who does not represent the BDSM/kink community. (Note: This episode inspired The Grindr Strap-On Stepmom episode.)

“Connections live in the doing.”

“Just because you chop up people and turn them into food, that does not make you part of the chef industry.”

“Their eyes are bigger than their holes.”

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SOME LIKE IT HOT f/ Lady Victory V – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“My favorite tool for breath play is my own ass in latex panties.”

Lady Victory V looks magnificently beautiful in vintage lingerie as she joins The YKF Cinema Show to talk about Some Like It Hot (1959). Somehow, we end up making a BDSM version of the film where the men are found out, put in chastity, and forced to do the bidding of all women. Can you imagine a rubber version of Some Like It Hot? We can. We did.

“I would lace those boys up!”

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Melancholy Ghost (Seductive Tees) – 9.2026

“Listen to the community’s desires and needs.”

Melancholy Ghost (founder of Seductive Tees & current Miss Missouri Leather) joins YKF to discuss Seductive Tees, a proudly woman-owned, custom in-house print shop launched in 2024. Size-inclusive (XS–5X) and rooted in the LGBTQIA+, leather, and kink communities, the one thing they never print is hate. We talk about starting a community-driven apparel biz, the best damn salmon recipe you’ll ever hear, pot-themed burlesque, and pegging classes!

“Soft shirts resonate.”

 

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THE BIG LEBOWSKI w/ Anna Valentina – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“It’s the cult classic that’s wearing a tailored coat”

The Dude abides, and so do we on the YKF Cinema Show! Dive deep into Coen Brothers neo-noir classic The Big Lebowski with brilliant dominatrix educator and Bussy Boss Anna Valentina (A Lebowski Priestess) as we unpack White Russians, bowling philosophy, that rug that tied the room together, foot fetish roleplay, Walter’s chaos energy, Maude’s femdom goddess power, nihilists, and subspace surrender.

“Fly your little freak flag. That’s exactly what Lebowski is about.”

 

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Lady Vesper (Power Unleashed) – 8.2026

“Dominance is an internal state.”

Lady Vesper is a writer, podcaster (Power Unleashed podcast), and online Domme known for precise language, an intellectual approach, and a complete refusal of easy FemDom clichés. On this episode of YKF: Your Kinky Friends, Lady Vesper shares how her first female submissive inspired her poetry, the unsolicited DMs that pushed her into financial domination and full-spectrum control, and why authentic dominance means creating from her own desires—not catering to male fantasy. We dig into the primacy of psychological dominance, the impossibility of fully separating psychological and physical control, long-term D/s dynamics, practical servitude, and her approach to financial devotion as a real-world expression of power, priority, and sacrifice. 

 

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THE LAST DRAGON f/ Delvin Cox of The Delvin Cox Experience – (The YKF Cinema Show)

Delvin Cox, host of The Delvin Cox Experience, joins The YKF Cinema Show for an entertaining deep dive into the 1985 martial arts, music, and pop-culture classic The Last Dragon! From Bruce Leroy and “The Glow” to Sho’nuff, the Shogun of Harlem, Eddie Arkadian, Laura Charles, the legendary Motown soundtrack, and some of the most gloriously ridiculous moments in ’80s cinema, we break down why The Last Dragon still hits—and why it inspires kinksters to find their own Glow.

 

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SPRING BREAKERS f/ Griselda Venum – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“The spring breakers are the scum.”

Nicholas Tanek sits down with high-protocol dominatrix and one-woman haunted house Griselda Venum to break down Harmony Korine’s cult classic Spring Breakers. We dive into the film’s dark underbelly—exploring its BDSM and kink elements, the infamous gun-fellatio scene, grooming dynamics, power exchange, and the seductive corruption of youth. Griselda unpacks the film’s twisted masculine/feminine themes, class and race dynamics, poverty versus hedonistic excess, drugs, crime, and the way innocence spirals into chaos. From psychological domination and fear play to real-life parallels involving dangerous romance and moral erosion, we make everyone “Look at My Shit!”

“Spring Breakers is a comment on how we live in delusions.”

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SHORTBUS w/ Briska – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“Who hasn’t had a threesome that started like this?”

Rope goddess, proud fem daddy, and poly household leader Briska returns to The YKF Cinema Show for a raw, joyful, and explicit deep dive into John Cameron Mitchell’s cult classic SHORTBUS — the 2006 NYC erotic masterpiece packed with unsimulated sex, chaotic orgies, queer healing, and post-9/11 messiness. Briska reveals how this film literally changed her life as a young sexual health advocate, why it still hits different 20 years later, and how it mirrors real kink community vibes — the good, the messy, the patriotic ass-singing, and everything in between. Consent is sexy. Trauma dumping at sex parties. Dominatrix real talk. Poly negotiations. Vibrating eggs gone wrong. We discuss why this unapologetically raw indie film remains a gateway AND provocation for the kink & queer community.

“Short Bus fundamentally changed my life.”

 

 

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Dr. Stacy Friedman (The Purple Passion Project) – 7.2026

“Women Need to Be Masturbating”

Dr. Stacy Friedman (from The Purple Passion Project podcast) is a Clinical Sexologist and certified sex coach who joins Nicholas Tanek for a raw, shame-free conversation about sex after 50. In this episode, they destroy the biggest myth about midlife sexuality: that menopause kills your sex life. The truth? Many people are having the best sex of their lives once they drop performance pressure and embrace what actually works now.

“Our brains thrive on novelty.”

 

 

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SEX, LIES AND VIDEOTAPE w/ Goddess Rainey – (The YKF Cinema Show)

“It’s beautiful. It’s really beautiful. I like that”
Goddess Rainey (from Charlotte, NC) joins Nicholas Tanek on THE YKF CINEMA SHOW for a breakdown of Steven Soderbergh’s groundbreaking 1989 indie masterpiece, Sex, Lies, and Videotape. She delivers sharp insights into the film’s core themes of control, honesty versus lies, vulnerability, and power exchange, while exploring consent, voyeurism, repressed sexuality, and raw desire. With her signature wit and expertise as a medical play aficionado and sadist queen, Goddess Rainey dissects James Spader’s impotent voyeur Graham, Andie MacDowell’s frigid-to-freed Ann, Peter Gallagher’s cheating toxic John, and Laura San Giacomo’s chaotic hedonist Cynthia.

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