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A Visit From St. Nicholas (Tanek)
Mistress Cyan – DomCon NOLA 2025
“You don’t know what you don’t know.”
Mistress Cyan joins YKF to discuss DomCon NOLA 2025. The founder of DomCon and Sanctuary Studios LAX, Mistress Cyan, discusses New Orleans, the kinky 2nd Line parade, her love of impact play, liquid nitrogen play, the importance of community in the streets of New Orleans, and how the S.W.O.T. method helps in kink.
“There is a market for everyone out there.”
subMissAnn (author of Pony Play) – 10.2025
“All you have is your connection with humanity.”
subMissAnn returns to #YKF to talk about the third edition of her book, “Pony Play”. We discuss pony play, Los Angeles Pony & Critter Club, Equus International Pony Play Event, the leather community “The Art Of Racing In The Rain,” and the fear of the cattle prod.
“Dedication, integrity, passion, & commitment.”
Scottie Schneider (Ayahuasca) – 10.2025
“Ayahuasca manages you.”
Scottie Schneider is a medically retired West Point Graduate and Army Officer turned Ayahuasca plant medicine facilitator at Ocóyái, a healing retreat center and community in the Colombian jungle. We discuss 7 days of psychedelic healing in the Colombian jungle, helping veterans with polyamory, Ortega’s stinging meddles, and how we are all looking to heal.
“(Ayahuasca) Just do it.”
An Introduction to Findom: Financial Domination in the Kink World
Article by FindomMeet
Money is power. We all know that. But in the kink world, money can literally become part of the power exchange. That’s what financial domination—better known as findom—is all about.
For some people, giving money isn’t just paying for dinner or bills. It’s giving up control. It’s sacrifice. It’s submission. And for others, being the one who receives, who controls, who demands? That’s intoxicating power.
Findom isn’t for everyone, but for the people who dive into it, it can be just as intense and fulfilling as bondage, spanking, or any other fetish. Let’s break it down.
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YKF WEEKENDS: Never Waste A Domme’s Time w/ Miztress Claudia, Anna Valentina, & Mistress Sophie
“I had to duct tape his whole head.”
Miztress Claudia, Anna Valentina, and Mistress Sophie join YKF to talk about time-wasters in the BDSM community. Time wasters are the bane of the kink community. Never waste a Domme’s time. Never waste the time of a person who knows how to drill holes in c()cks.
“The guy left with a hole inside of his…”
Michelle Lacy (Siren House) – 9.2025
“Mix some Jackson Pollock with your own blood, and come see me.”
Michelle Lacy of Siren House returns to enlighten us about her executive-level Femdom events that include servant training, heavy captivity, and bondage. We discuss her contributions to the kink community, hotel staff role play, scrubbing blood out of a marble floor, and epic golden showers.
“The room is filled with sick stuff, and I’m a sick person.”
Katarina “The Domme Kat” Pierce – (Wrestling & Feminization) – 8.2025
“I love taking a tiny man and tossing him around like pizza dough.”
Katarina “The Domme Kat” Pierce returns to YKF to discuss her “Surrender: Wrestling & Feminization” party. We discuss the power of TRASH TALK, joint locks, blood chokes, snapping pantyhose, bondage wrestling, suspending sissies, and a gay girl’s dream.
“The joke is on you, Dad. This gives me a boner.”
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YKF WEEKENDS: Losing A Long-Term Submissive (f/The Commandant, Miztress Claudia, Mistress Scarlet, & Anna Valentina)
“Star Trek saved my life.”
The Commandant, Miztress Claudia, Mistress Scarlet, & Anna Valentina discuss the complicated pain of losing a long-term submissive. How do you recover? What do you do with the toilet coffin?
“You’re not in love with me. Your brain is just stupid.”
THE PAIN OF LOSS RESONATES WITH THE KINK COMMUNITY. Did the relationship sour? Was it a health issue? Was it a location issue? What led to you losing a long-term sub? Flipside: What made you end your relationship with a long-term submissive/client? YKF gets emotional.