“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”

TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.

“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”

“If you can make me cum by sucking my toes….”

“I want to see you pitch a tent in a grocery.”

“Be a good support within the kink community in whatever capacity you can.”

www.clubfemnj.com/

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I am TheLadyLioness, a Goddess who serves our community with grace,
strength, and purpose as a co-leader and Web Mistress of ClubFEMNJ.
With over 15 years of experience in the kink community, I have dedicated
myself to the pursuit of understanding, education, and acceptance within
the world of power exchange.

Throughout my journey, I have attended numerous workshops, conventions, and classes, and have had the honor of speaking on a panel for Dominant Women at TESFest 2025, sharing my insights and experiences in leadership and empowerment.

I hold firm to the principles of safety, sanity, and consent above all else. My
philosophy is to approach every interaction “heart first” with understanding
and empathy, offering others the space and grace to be where they are in
their personal journey of self-discovery.

As I continue to grow within this lifestyle, I remain devoted to fostering
authentic connections and creating spaces where all individuals can
explore, learn, and thrive in their pursuit of the best human experience
possible.

The link I’d love to promote is www.clubfemnj.com which is where folks can go to learn all about & join ClubFEMNJ. We host munches and play parties periodically through the year all over the state of NJ to serve our widespread member base. ClubFEMNJ is dedicated to serving and supporting all those identifying as Dominant Women as well as submissive men with safe spaces and a population of like minded and diligently vetted folks looking to engage in the power exchange dynamics associated with FLR (female led relationships) and subsequently the associated D/s dynamic.