“I’m having an affair with sadism.”
Mistress Lyn is a legendary non-sexual sadist in Kent, UK. We talk about the beauty of growing older in the BDSM community, separating BDSM and sex, events, classes, consent, healing through BDSM, and shredding testicles.
“I’ve never shredded anyone’s balls, but there is always a first time for anything.”
“An ass is an ass. A back is a back. It’s an instrument to play with.”
“Don’t drink and kink.”
“Lock that thing away!”
I do not bottom or sub.
I have never been for one-night stands, gratuitous sex, or revenge sex. That is something I have no intention of changing.
For me, BDSM and sex are two different entities, which can and quite often do ‘marry up’. For me to ‘give’ myself to a man I have to trust that man and also be in a relationship.
I have been in this lifestyle since I took my first non-parental spanking many moons ago, was a sub for a while but decided it wasn’t for me and decided to learn my craft. This is actually my 47th year in the L/S.
It has taken me a long time to get where I am now and I like it here.
I like to think I am a firm but fair Domme, but I do have a very sadistic side that is growing at a rapid rate of knots, when I ‘play’, I play hard, but always with consent.
I teach and mentor but am also open to learning new things, different techniques etc, this is an ever-evolving lifestyle and as a Domme, I need to be on top of my game.
If you are a sub or bottom please do not message me without asking me first by putting your request on a picture of mine.
In my other life as it were I am a keen amateur photographer and lover of nature and wildlife, especially of my beloved swans(in fact a few references to me as the swan whisperer), horses are my next fave creatures to photograph luckily enough on the Island we seem to have an abundance of both. I love old buildings, especially old churches, you can keep the modern ones they have zero characters. I love cooking and baking, reading, watching factual programs especially those to do with forensics, and listening to music,I have an eclectic taste in music from the sixties to classical, depending on my mood.
I abhor time wasters, liars, wannabees, narcissists, and those that prey on the new, the unsure, and the vulnerable.
I am ex-WRAC and come from an Army background, I am a huge supporter of mental health and in fact, my subject to teach is BDSM and Mental Health, both of which I know quite a lot about, as I live one and live with the other.
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