Mistress Qadira is an Arabic Dominatrix, Educator, Event Coordinator, and Community Leader. We talk chastity, sissification, classes, shibari, castration play, NERVE PLAY, impact toys. and how she is an Arabic woman who became dominant. She has some good stories to tell.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
Mistress Qadira
Dominatrix, Educator, Event Coordinator, Community Leader
I’m a Domme and Technical Writer based out of Washington, DC but I grew up mainly in Jordan with long stints in Lebanon, Egypt, and Cyprus. As such, my use of power dynamics is different than most would expect. It comes mostly from my grandmother, who was the matriarch and a fountain of strength to many. She had been a war nurse, business owner, socialite and powerful community leader. She inspired me to grow, survive and thrive.
In 2003 I found kink through a girlfriend who was a Dominatrix. I studied under her, and when it was time, took control of my education and business. I’m a life long student of psychology, sexuality and power dynamics. It felt right to transition to Professional Domination. Most of my clients come to me for an experience that leaves them cleansed and revitalized. Whether through pain or psychological domination they get their needs met while meeting mine.
Being a Domme isn’t a show or persona; it’s me living as I truly am, in lifestyle and profession, unfettered by society’s expectations or assumptions. If you’re playing a part then you’ll burn out. I learned that soon after starting. Within five years I’d burnt out, taken a break and eventually learned this lesson; BE WHO YOU ARE.
The type of people I look for want to build something genuine and lasting. sissies, subs, slaves, masochists, SAMs, service subs, everyone of every possible description, background, orientation, gender, and nationality. I love working with them all. My methods are unique and lean toward mentoring, and guiding to foster growth.
Given how long I’ve been in the community, I’m often found helping initiate new people into the scene by explaining the basic concepts of kink protocol (consent, scene protocol, safety, negotiation, etc). I also hold classes on a regular basis to help both new and experienced kinksters. Classes such as Bondage, Rough Body Play, Chastity, Scene safety, Negotiation, How to Cope with Chronic Illness Using Kink and so much more.
