Welcome

Welcome! I’m glad you’re here.

This is a place where you will not be judged for your fetishes and kinks. My name is Nicholas Tanek and I’m your host. We’ve got a whole bunch of kinky people to help guide you through your journey.

What I wanted to do is create a site where kinky people can come together and promote each other’s work. So, we’re going to have articles, podcasts, erotic fiction, etc. It’s a safe hangout space for kinky people to connect and support each other’s creativity. You can use any name you want, but please be respectful. If you have any questions, your kinky friends are always here for you.

St. Kate West and I host the show “Sunday Service” on the last Sunday of every month. Be on your best behavior because Headmistress Nicco Noire is a stern disciplinarian. Mischief Schari (Mischief Matters) is hosting at Mischief Manor. Cherry Bomb from Conversations with Crossdressers will be there with her sissy.  It’s going to be a fun night.

Remember… Be cool. Be kind and keep an open mind.

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Nicholas Tanek is an author, speaker, and podcaster. He is best known for his memoir, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself, which chronicles his experiences as a young man in the punk rock and BDSM subcultures of the 1990s. The book has been praised for its honesty and rawness in depicting Tanek’s struggles with addiction, depression, and unconventional sexuality.
Tanek has also written several other books, including Chipped Black Nail Polish, a collection of short stories about life on the fringes of society, and Your Kinky Friends, a non-fiction book about alternative lifestyles and sexual practices. He hosts a podcast by the same name, in which he interviews people involved in BDSM, kink, and other alternative lifestyles.
In addition to his writing and podcasting, Tanek is a frequent speaker at events and conferences, where he discusses topics related to alternative lifestyles, mental health, and addiction recovery.