The voice of a sexy woman can make a difference in your life, especially when she is kinky, intelligent and kind. PepLove.com is a luxury all-female owned and operated kinky phone sex and consultation line. So, to finalize this phone sex series of articles, I wanted to ask the ladies of Pep Love a couple of questions regarding the phone sex business.
Here are their answers…
Sera Miles
Sera Miles is the CEO/Owner of Peplove.com, a luxury all-female owned and operated kinky phone sex and consultation line. She is a legend in the kink community!
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What are the most popular fetishes and kinks that callers specifically want to talk about with you?
In an average week, if I speak with twelve different gentlemen, I might talk about 30 or 40 fetishes. That said, “spankos” tend to call me. In my early sex work days, I was a spanking video starlet. My first fetish films came out on VHS, in puffy boxes. I love talking about spanking. It’s my first and most dear fetish.
I receive a fair amount of heavy verbal humiliation calls. I’m quite talented at knocking someone’s ego about. I hear that part of the charm is my voice is so smooth, my enunciation is so perfect, as I say, “What the fuck is wrong with you?”
My loyal callers tend to return for my storytelling talents. In this way, I’d say, more so than specific fetishes, I attract a specific kind of caller: a gentleman who wants to lie back and enjoy my voice telling him a rich, detailed story about his most profane, tame, outlandish, or sublime fantasies.
How do you prepare for a day of work?
I’ve done phone sex, specifically at PEP, since 2002. I feign to say this lest anyone take it out of context, but I just do what I do. If I’m available, I’m answering and on it. If I’m not, I make sure my voice mail message is up-to-date and go about it.
My morning ritual, though, prepares me for every day of life. I wake, make coffee, write in my journal, and read a few poems. Right now, I’m reading a thick collection from Phil Levine. (Masterful.) I catch up on business. Then, I’m either off to the office to run PEP, on a call, or at an appointment.
What are some challenges you face as a phone sex worker, at work and in your personal life?
The challenges I and other sex workers face come mostly from the outside. Internally, we have the same strife as any other job. Sometimes, people are rude to us. This is just like any job in which the person interacts with the general public, especially food service or retail. Sometimes, business is slow as fuck, only to deluge two weeks later. Any contract work, from IT to website building to ghostwriting is the same way. Sometimes, it’s hard to balance work and personal (see: Capitalism). I no longer allow people in my life who “aren’t comfortable” with my job. I’m not comfortable with people building bombs or writing racist propaganda, but no one working for the US Government seems to get asked, “How does your partner handle your job?” I’m not comfortable with undocumented people being tortured via “labor,” but you don’t see wealthy farm owners being asked how their partners “feel” about their work. Somehow, that’s the chief province of sex workers, from cam performers to porn stars, to pro-dommes to escorts. The main challenge I face as a sex worker is that society judges me to be broken, inept, dirty, and shameful.
More, though, to what I think you’re pointing at with this question: I struggle with balance—balancing work, family, activism, and self-commitments. I’m a Type-A D-type, so I want it all now and I want it all right, and the piece I’m trying to learn and convert into deep intellectual and emotional knowledge is to breathe.
What do you want first-time callers to know about the protocols of phone sex?
Know that I want to hear your ideas. Know that I will never make fun of you (except for negotiated humiliation play). Trust that I am not judging you. With all that in mind, call me, tell me your name and how much time you’d like to book, then put yourself in my (capable and experienced) hands. I’ll guide you as much as you need; and if you need someone to listen while you let it all out, I’m here for that, too.
I post my schedule on my PEP profile. If it isn’t matching with yours, send me a short email and we can make arrangements. With some notice, I can usually make it work.
By and large, I’m open to acting out or saying anything on the phone… if you ask. Please don’t angle, manipulate, or push. Just ask. Chances are, I’ll act out and/or say exactly what you want. At worst, I’ll explain why I can’t and help you find someone who will.
Phone sex is one of the safest, if not the safest, ways to explore your desires. If you’ve been thinking about taking the plunge, I hope you’ll go forward. And please know, I am sincerely honored to be chosen as the person to whom you reveal those most tender, secret parts. I would love to be your first.
Video Interview with Sera Miles
VIDEO CHAT: Sera Miles (CEO/Owner of Peplove) w/ Nicholas Tanek
Giselle Thibodeaux
Also known as the Goddess of Freedom, Control, and Power, Giselle Thibodeaux is a Domme and a PepLove Phone Consultant. She likes to explore chastity, tease and denial, cock and ball torture, forced bisexuality, and more.
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What are the most popular fetishes and kinks that callers specifically want to talk about with you?
For me, the popular kinks and fetishes I get (in no particular order) are as follows: Sissification, Cross dressing, Strap-on, Forced Bi, Forced prostitution, Castration, Spanking, pure body worship (including face sitting and ass worship), service, humiliation, bondage, discipline, strict Female supremacy, and TPE (total power exchange).
How do you prepare for a day of work?
A good breakfast is a great start. Usually, I will do some vocal exercises to get my voice ready to speak. I also take a mental assessment of my mood. Because if my mood is bad, it can find its way into a call.
I’m usually pretty sharp, so I don’t have to get into the mood to be kinky. That’s just who I am. However, it can help to look at perhaps Tumblr, Twitter, and all the social media. These things can really get me worked up in terms of my desire to charge forward in my day. I can find inspiration in about anything and social media helps.
What are some challenges you face as a phone sex worker, at work and in your personal life?
At work, I think one of the biggest challenges is remembering that you aren’t an island. Actually… It’s more that you are an island, but you are surrounded by other islands. You aren’t alone, you just might need a canoe to get to someone. It’s hard not to lose sight of that. You are not really alone with PEP. We have a communication system. We can always talk to each other, if you need help on a call or sometimes just that interaction with the team helps.
At home (personal life), sometimes it’s hard to put it down and not work. So, I must remind myself that self-care is not only a thing, but it’s probably more important to me now, working from home than when I worked in an office. It’s easy to lose track of the stress emotional labor can produce.
Sometimes, it can be hard relating to people who are in vanilla jobs. Especially if they don’t really know what you do. Your life can be a juggling act between fielding questions from people who don’t know what to do and trying very hard to not over share with people who do know what you do.
What do you want first-time callers to know about the protocols of phone sex?
It’s OK to be new to this. It’s OK to ask me questions but understand that you might not get the answers that you want. Have respect that I might not choose to answer your question at all if it’s too intimate.
My hope for new callers is to establish a connection you might not otherwise have in your daily life. You are paying for my time and I want you to have the best call l can give you. If I’m not doing that, please tell me, so I can either change direction or refer you to another person. After all, if there might be someone who you may have a better connection with. I want you to be comfortable having that connection with them. I will not be offended if you wish to connect with another person.
Be polite. We are getting to know each other. Calling me a name or racial slur will only cause me to hang up and refund your money. Don’t assume your payment is a ticket to being verbally abusive. I might be nice and give you a warning since you are new, but don’t expect it. Better still just be polite and stay that way. After all, as we get to know each other you and I will come to an understanding of what is and isn’t acceptable.
Lastly please, please, please don’t forget to leave feedback. We have a Feedback system on our site. I encourage new callers to use it. For me, this is so important because I cannot improve if I don’t know what I need to improve on. I like to know what is and is not working for my clients new and old. Your feedback is valuable to me and I do read it and I do consider it. So, even if you think it’s bad, don’t be afraid to leave me feedback. It’s anonymous and it’s an amazing tool to help me get better at what I do. It helps me continue to provide a great service to those who are calling in and I can improve and grow just as much as I want my callers to improve and grow.
Video Interview with Giselle Thibodeaux
VIDEO CHAT: Giselle Thibodeaux (The Mistress Of Naughty) w/ Nicholas Tanek
Learah E. Lane
Learah E. Lane is a fetish photographer and Peplove lady. Learah has an eye and mind for the perverse, impish, and diabolical. Talk cuckolding, incestuous role play, forced bi, and more with bad girl turned horny housewife Learah. Confess your most irreverent fantasies—Learah needs them, for masturbation fodder.
PEP # 567.371.2976
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What are the most popular fetishes and kinks that callers specifically want to talk about with you?
The most popular fetishes and kinks that clients call to speak to me specifically about would probably be cuckolding, sissification, and cock sucking. Oh! Definitely, best friend’s mother in High School is popular.
How do you prepare for a day of work?
Before I log in daily, I like to have my coffee and I like to be relaxed and rested. I must have the space in which I’m doing my calls in order, so my mind is free to think clearly.
What are some challenges you face as a phone sex worker, at work and in your personal life?
For me, the two biggest challenges would be time management due to family obligations and become emotionally drained from my calls. I also deal with a lot of anxiety which makes it hard to get going some days, but I try to work through it.
What do you want first-time callers to know about the protocols of phone sex?
First-time caller protocol. This is a great question. I don’t like it when people call and immediately jump into whatever character they want to play, or they jump immediately into their scene. I like to talk to my clients to get to know them a bit so that I can give them the best call possible.
So…
What have we learned from all of this?
The human voice, a mental scene, and giving into imagination can heal you. Imagine yourself as someone who cannot honestly sexually express yourself. Not everyone can tell their spouse or friends that they like to dress in women’s clothes, be pissed on, have their cock locked up, or even be castrated. In one phone call, these women help people live their deepest fantasies that they cannot live in real life.
I am a kinky person and I am a happier person for it. Not everyone can be “out” as a kinky person… and that’s understandable. My point is people who are not out can still find salvation in phone sex. If you are going to explore by phone, you may as well go to the best. Call the ladies of PepLove.com. This past year, I’ve gotten to know them as friends. They are intelligent, kinky, and most importantly, they are kind and they can help you.
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