“The true fetish… is ego.”
The glorious Madame C is back! We discuss her new approach to sexual fantasies, London, Erotossage, floatation tanks, chastity play, her dungeon, neurolinguistic programming, and the philosophies of BDSM.
“Fetish is a tool… not a problem.”
Madame C has over 3 decades of working with individuals from all over the world who want to explore their imagination, feelings, and questions surrounding the alternative sexual play, fantasy, and temporary freedom from what they have become. Trained in counseling, neurolinguistic programming, hypnosis, and a wide range of physical therapies she has combined research from neuroscience, quantum physics, biology, extensive cross-cultural client feedback, and Eastern philosophies.
Madame C has a new approach to why we have sexual fantasies, the importance of understanding them, and, using them as a positive tool and insight for personal development in all aspects of our life. She suggests BDSM Fetish and Kink are outdated labels, and they no longer serve us. She suggests the reality we all live in our waking state, is in fact the real bondage, masochism, and domination. The values and belief frameworks of global cultures, education, and politics are broken dysfunctional, and outdated and are the biggest Kink in the biosphere, suffocating human growth development and survival of the planet.
The only Fetish that truly exists is with ourselves, our false ego, and the material goods we believe we need in order to comply and be the same as everyone else. We are all daily mesmerized by marketing, collective thought patterns, and archaic systems -all creating a false being and no sense of awareness and the true meaning of now.
We need to take control of our minds, body, and life and read the manual of what we actually are. Understanding the mind, its thought patterns, and what it is telling you through fantasy, will unlock the door to freedom and a higher state of awareness. The human mind’s primal function is to survive, and, if the environment in which it sits is detrimental to homeostasis it is so incredibly clever, that it will develop techniques to create wellbeing. Fantasy and what is seen as sexual deviance is actually an untapped tool for survival, growth insight, and personal development.
She suggests that sex and fantasy are two different processes. We need to re-write the outdated sex education system taught in mainstream schools. Sex is a multi-functional tool used for procreation, the survival of the species, systematic
pleasure, and orgasm. Whilst fantasy and erotica can be used alongside sex, it is, in itself not sex, and in fact a separate phenomenon unique to an individual. The fantasy sometimes is changing or evolves depending on the role function, and purpose it needs to provide at the time for the individual. Erotic fantasy is an extension of a childhood tool used for personal development growth and puzzle-solving and self-entertainment. It only branched into a sexual fantasy as the child developed sexually emotionally and spiritually.
Fantasy is not exclusive to sexual pleasure. It is contextual and required for the survival of the species. It is a primal brain function. Without fantasy exploration, there would be no technological growth or development of the human race. If someone had not imagined what it would be like to travel to the moon or transplant a heart, kidney, or skin graft we would remain in a static state of life.
Imagination is energy, vibrancy is the quantum of human physics, and it is the life force. Do not lock it away, embrace it, understand it, own it, and utilize it
Madame C uses talk therapy, extensive playrooms, wardrobes, makeup, and photography studios to tailor unique experiences for individuals wanting to take control of their life, and experience and understand who they are. She has also trademarked and developed Erotossage, for those wanting to journey into an altered state of sensory awakening.
For more details or to book a discovery call contact info@madame-c.co.uk
Play and Sensual Exploration is Freedom -Free from domination, free from kink, free from fetish.
Free to change your view of the world.
YKF interview with Madame C – 2019
