“I’ve always been more of a front-hole guy.”
Daddy Ra (he/him) is an AfroIndigenous trans chef, BIPOC event producer, kink educator. We talk queer tentacle porn, keeping the pallet curious, herbalism, putting magic in food, involved bottoms, and making the term “front hole” more popular.
“My heart has a hard-on.”
By Nicholas Tanek
My mother and father taught me to respect people. They would tell me, “Treat people how you would like to be treated.” When I was young, I’m sure I made the improper or obnoxious joke every once in a while. I’ve grown up and I’ve changed. Being friends with women and listening to women changed me.
Throughout the years of hanging out with female friends, I have learned that many males can be considered a predator. There are women who live in a constant state of terror due to misogyny and sexism. I went to college in the 1990s during a heightened state of campus date-rape awareness. The last thing I wanted to do was make a person feel unsafe. At the same time, sexual misconduct can come from women too. I’ve personally experienced it. These days, the #MeToo movement has sparked a full-on revolution on how people look at sexuality, sexual misconduct, and sexual harassment.
