YKF VIDEO: The Commandant – 2.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’m a sadist, not an asshole.”

The Commandant, known for being KINKY GOOGLE, is a traveling kink educator and lifestyle Dominatrix from Texas. We talk about sissification vs. feminization, how kink saved our lives, a women-led queer-inclusive space, the sex life of physicists, wanting to run an ethical whorehouse, Depeche Mode for dungeons, the cum receptacle competition, and which Wu-Tang Clan song is best to flog to.

“Any hole’s the goal.”

“My partner is my canvas.”

 

“Your kinking privately is just as valid as your kinking publically.”

โ€œThe Commandant is a Dominatrix, and kink educator. Being active within lifestyle BDSM for the past 9+ years online and in real life she has gained quite a bit of experience with how these relationships work. The Commandant keeps an open mind to all walks of life, all situations, and addresses common issues within BDSM and it’s subsets head-on. The Commandant brings a scientific, logical, and yet empathetic light to their BDSM education. The Commandant educates with passion, guiding their clients to effectively strengthen and elevate their BDSM expeditions to new heights.

With the 9+ย  years of BDSM experience, a knack for making meaningful connections with audiences and an insatiable appetite for helping others maximize their potential, The Commandant knows how to rock a platform, connect with a crowd and provide education and enthusiasm for learning so that others can effectively do the same.

The Commandant’s down-to-earth humor compels audiences to laugh while they learn. They engage with groups from the moment they step in front of them and leave them with empowering tools and focused mindsets that they will use long after the night is through. The Commandant is passionate about people, learning and BDSM. She is especially inspired to help people take their exploration within kink โ€“ and themselves โ€“ to unprecedented levels.โ€

– Your Sometimes Friendly Kink Educator, and Dominatrix.
The Commandant