“I want to roast marshmallows on him.”

Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) is a professional switch based in Phoenix, Arizona. We discuss safe fire play, the fluidity of being a switch, non-verbal safewords, fire massage, an hour of paddles, Tom Six’s “The Onania Club,” and making a human campfire.

“Being a switch means fluidity.”

“It’s not just hitting people.”

“I did not want to hide any part of me.”

“Sophistication is sexy.”

Sir Aiden Charming is a professional switch based in Phoenix, Arizona. His kink journey began four years ago when he started booking sessions with professional Dommes at the local commercial dungeon. A couple years later Sir Aiden discovered he’s not actually a submissive but a switch. After much reflecting on his experience entering the world of BDSM, and upon realized that there was not much representation for trans men in the world of professional BDSM he decided to be the representation he longed to see and became a pro himself. While Sir Aiden has many skills and interests, he is known locally as “The Fire Guy”. Sir Aiden specializes in fire play and often shares his love of the flame by offering fire play experiences to guests of kink events as well as showcasing his skills during live fire play demonstrations. He offers professional domination sessions as well as professional submission and switch sessions. With his passion for education, Sir Aiden also teaches 1on1 educational sessions on practical BDSM skills and has recently begun teaching classes at BDSM conventions.

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