Category: Erotica

VIDEO CHAT: King Lexa with Nicholas Tanek

King Lexa  is a professional sex coach who specializes in coaching highly successful men through BDSM. She does Femdom videos and she is on Niteflirt. Her work is purely psychological. She opens the subconscious mind to new realms. Everything he does is strongly based on the aspect of consent. She focuses on the power exchange of the male mind working deep inside their psyche. She develops personal challenges with the sole purpose of exploring new levels of submission.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video conversation with her.

 

Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part I by Nicholas Tanek

SADISM: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

Consensual sadism is quite common in the BDSM community, but the practices vary widely depending on the participants.  Some sadists enjoy sensual sadism.  This can be defined in many ways but it loosely involves the infliction of pain  mixed with pleasure.  Both participants tend to enjoy the scene and have agreed upon terms.  Other sadists engage in brutal, violent acts that may not be sexual and fulfill a need for power.   Sadism can seem scary to those who don’t understand the dynamic and question why participants get a rush from it.  I wanted to learn more about Our Kinky Friends who use pain, humiliation, and suffering in their scenes.

So… I asked some questions to my kinky sadist friends so that we could learn more about this kink.

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Our Kinky Friends Write: Going Down by Kitt Wolf

I love to write trashy little sex stories.  Last November, I entered my work in a contest called The Smut Marathon sponsored by Marie Rebel at rebelsnotes.com.  The contest is a year long event where writers are eliminated through ten rounds of writing.  We are now in the semi-finals and shockingly, I’m still in the contest!  Writers win points through reader votes and jury votes.

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Our Kinky Friends Write: This Boy is Her Girl by Allison K. Atwood

This is not what you’d call a traditional story with a beginning, middle, and end. It has none of those things. I guess it sits somewhere between pornographic fantasy and wishful thinking. It’s the tale of the person I wish I was, bonding with the person I wish I could be with. The characters are unorthodox and kinky, and yet in their own way rather conventional. The setting is nowhere, and it takes place probably never, because the world where such a relationship would be possible, for me (without the consequences I fear), may not exist. But who knows?

Artwork by myboyisacross.tumblr.com

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Our Erotic Kinky Artist Friends Part II by Nicholas Tanek

The power of creativity mixed with eroticism is limitless, weird, and beautiful. Once again, I needed to reach out to my erotic kinky artist friends and ask them several questions about erotic/kinky art.

Here are their answers…

VIDEO CHAT: The Lady Ascends with Nicholas Tanek

TheLadyAscends is a very talented artist and pagan love witch who is a good friend of mine. She has multiple subs and participates in many kinky spiritual rituals like fake blood orgies and human sacrifices.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video interview with her.

VIDEO CHAT: Syren Rayna with Nicholas Tanek

Syren Rayna is a trained erotic hypnotist and Dominatrix from Portland, OR. She is nationally certified and well studied in hypnosis and how the mind works. She utilizes NLP, hypnotic phrasing, and behavioral conditioning to manipulate behavior. Syren has been in the BDSM scene around Portland since 2016 Syren noticed her natural gift of manipulating people at an early age. What brought her to the kink side of it was a desire to break down some of the “shame walls” that people have. She hates that, even in this community, people can feel isolated of their kink choices. She enjoys helping people understand and embrace their true under current of BDSM and Kink.
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Our Erotic Kinky Artist Friends by Nicholas Tanek

I love art! I love artists! I love drawing, painting, sculpture, mixed media, etc. I am inspired by the love and creativity that artists pour into their work.  At YourKinkyFriends.com, we love erotic art. We love the weird stuff. It may be orcs. It may be tentacles. It may be forced cross-dressing. It may be sexy vanilla art to hang over the bed.  Art is awesome.  I wanted to highlight some of the wonderful artists that I know, so I reached out to some of our Erotic/Kinky artist friends and asked them several questions.

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VIDEO CHAT: Alace Amory with Nicholas Tanek

Alace Amory has been into different aspects of the lifestyle for as long as she can remember.  She enjoys cuckolding, general kink, polyamory, lezdom, FLRs and BDSM.  She is a fetish clip producer, a non-nude performer, cam tease, fetish session enthusiast, and trains long term subs. Some things she incorporates into her playtime are authentic energy exchanges, sensual energy play, & connection building for bonding.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Dirty Lola with Nicholas Tanek

Dirty Lola is a storyteller, edutainer, sex educator, Dildo Slinger, and the creator and host of the live sex Q&A / variety show and podcast Sex Ed A Go-Go. During the last six years, she has shared her distinctive brand of kickass body and sex-positivity and her personal journey into the kink and poly lifestyles on and off stage.

Nicholas Tanek sits down with her for a video chat.

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