Thrifty Kinksters. Ten Dollars. Super Fun.
BDSM calls to many people but willing kinksters can be inhibited by the cost of the tools. It is well worth it to invest in high quality BDSM toys, but sometimes you want to play around with an idea before committing your funds. Leather floggers, ball gags, and latex wear can really break the bank. Your Kinky Friends decided to challenge ourselves to create experiences that cost less than ten bucks. We will use traditional BSDM ideas and use our imaginations and ingenuity to help you get the most bang for your buck.
As always…use common sense when playing and put safety first!
This is our fifth entry for our Thrifty Kink series: Back to School.
Price Limit: $10.00
Type of Scene: Roleplay/Discipline
Key Words: student, teacher, discipline
|a skirt, blouse, and shoes for the student – check your closet and local thrift stores||up to 9.00|
|plastic ruler – Dollar Tree||1.00|
|paper, pencil or pen, several hardcover books||you can probably find this stuff at home 🙂|
This is a roleplay scene involving a popular theme: student/teacher. This scene will feature some light impact play but intensity can be heightened if the partners want to explore more pain. It’s always good to plan for emergencies and be prepared by keeping your cell phone, a first aid kit, and aftercare items nearby.
A few days before play:
Communication is important in any relationship – especially a kinky one. Discuss limits for impact play with your partner. Some questions may include:
What do you want to feel in this scene?
Is it okay to leave marks on your skin?
What is a safe word that you are not afraid to use?
How will we know when your pain limit is reached?
What do you want from me as your sub?
(Notes on Safe Words: Having a safe word is often joked about in BDSM, but it is a key component to a successful scene. It is also important to continually check in with your sub. If he or she can’t answer simple questions during a scene such as “what is your name,” stop and check.)
It is important to talk about your plans outside of the bedroom so you aren’t distracted, and this ensures that you’re both on the same page. In my own relationship, discussing “my plans for him” drives my sub crazy in the best way. Talking about future scenes is half the fun.
You may be able to find a suitable outfit for the “student” at home, but if you can’t, check out your local thrift stores. If you strike out at one store, don’t give up. Not all thrift stores are created equal! In my area, there is one store that always has a way better selection of clothes than the others. This might take some patience.
Other things you’ll need for this scene can probably be found at home (see above). If not, the Dollar Tree has never failed me.
Day of play:
Set your scene by asking your sub to dress in the clothes you provided for him or her and invite them into your classroom. Recently, Tangled Blue said that our darling Nicholas Tanek (who is a bit overdue for a haircut) would look cute in pigtails, which helped inspire this edition of Thrifty Kink. Have some fun making your student look the part!
Take on the roles that you discussed prior to this play session. Perhaps the student is in detention for misbehavior… Use the ruler to whack tender skin as discipline for the naughty student. Immerse yourselves in the scene and feel the transition of power. Skirts are always fun to flip up to expose cute buns that are perfect for spanking over your knee.
Tina, my spirit animal.
Make your student write a phrase in their notebook 20 times. Or 50 times. Or until their hand cramps, if you’re feeling especially mean. I will do a better job cleaning the bathroom sink. I will do a better job cleaning the bathroom sink. I will do a better job cleaning the bathroom sink.
Make them balance a stack of books on their head and walk around the room. Let them know what their punishment will be every time they drop the books – a spanking, a crack of the ruler, or perhaps sitting in the corner and being ignored for a while. Use your imagination!
After your session, your submissive might need aftercare. This could take many forms, depending on your partner’s needs. It could just be a cuddle, or massaging lotion onto their sore parts, or applying ice. You could run them a bath, or get into bed together and watch Tim and Eric Awesome Show, Great Job! Whatever it is, enjoy it with your partner.