Sex Toys and Furniture for People who Live with Disabilities

By SassyWitch666
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Recently Nicholas Tanek did an interview with SugarCunt,  a sex toy tester who has a disability.

(Watch it, it’s great!)
This video got me thinking. Are there sex toys out there specifically for those of us who have physical disabilities?
So I did a little research and found out some great toys! How cool is that?

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VIDEO CHAT: Johnny Jackhammer (Sequential Sex Podcast) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Johnny Jackhammer is a sex-positive and censorship-negative kinkster podcaster (The Sequential Sex Podcast) and who uses graphic art and comics to help open people’s minds and spark conversations.  He has been scouring books and magazines for sexy, kinky things since stumbling across “Our Bodies, Ourselves” in the library at the age of 12.  He comes from a long line of dirty minds, including a grandfather who enjoyed making dirty cartoons to pass around.  He and his wife, Good Witch North, stay connected to the kink and poly communities in the rope capital of the world, Madison, Wisconsin.  His name has more than one origin and is a family nickname.

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People Are The Enemy Podcast w/ Andy Mascola – Guest Nicholas Tanek

Nicholas Tanek (owner of YourKinkyFriends and author of the books Your Kinky Friends, The Coolest Way To Kill Yourself, and Chipped Black Nail Polish) sits down to talk with Andy Mascola for the PEOPLE ARE THE ENEMY PODCAST.

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Our Professional Dominatrix Friends Part III by Nicholas Tanek

 

Being a professional Dominatrix is a beautifully unique profession but also hard work. Here at YKF, we speak to Pro Dommes all the time. Especially in these politically turbulent times (FOSTA/SESTA), YKF wants to celebrate the Professional Dominatrix and give readers insight into their lifestyle. I decided to do part III of the series.

So, I asked several of my Professional Dominatrix friends some questions, and here are their answers…

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Living M/s (Master/slave) 24/7 by Master Bear

The Rule of Three – Part One

The biggest mistake that I see most new Masters make is having an extensive list of things that they want their slave to do. New Masters often times put unnecessary pressure on themselves by expecting everything all at once. Having a huge list in the beginning creates a couple of different issues.

First off, understand that if you as a Master cannot remember all of the things that you are requesting of your slave then why should your slave remember?  Secondly, this creates an unrealistic expectation on both you as well as your slave as to what can be realistically achieved in the early days of your dynamic. Slaves want to excel, they want to give, and they want to be the best they can for the Masters that they love. So set them and you up for success.

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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part two) #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

In his interviews, the Esteemed Nicholas Tanek has graciously included a budget kink question as a nod to these Thrifty Kink articles we try to post each week. The amazing folks that have answered this question have given some really fantastic ideas, and so I have begun harvesting these pearls of wisdom.

This is the second part in an ongoing series of Thrifty Kink articles that will feature a handful of excellent budget-minded BDSM suggestions from the witty, resourceful, kinky minds of the many people Nicholas has and will interview in days to come!
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VIDEO CHAT: Lady Absinthe w/ Nicholas Tanek

Lady Absinthe is a fetish model, Mistress, and cam girl. She specializes in Anal Training, Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Jerk-off Instruction, Orgasm Denial, Chastity Training, Submission, Tit/Nipple Torture, Whips, Condoms, Gags & Blindfolds, Humiliation, Masks, Rubber / Latex / PVC, Smoking, Foot Fetish, Outfit, Tattoos, FinDom.

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VIDEO CHAT: Dominatrix V (House Of V) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Dominatrix V is the founder/owner of The House Of V Fetish Studio. She is a professional Dominatrix, Queer Femme kink performer, Fetish Barberette and Owner of The Fluffy Boudoir Sissies and cross dressing salon.

Nicholas Tanek has a video chat with her.

 

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Kitten vs. The Human Centipede: Write for YourKinkyFriends!

by Tangled Blue

The Human Centipede concept scares me to pieces, and truthfully, I’ve never seen the movie.  The idea alone is enough for me to have night terrors for days.  (I have clicked on a YouTube trailer or two and watched through a gap in my fingers.)  It may be scary to me, but I also find it fascinating.  I love the bizarre thoughts in the brains of others. I wonder how often people think about murderous or depraved things. Do we all walk around with a running story line in our heads of mayhem and mischief?  How do we express it? If we could express these ideas safely without actually harming others, would people be happier?  BDSM can really help the creative thought thinkers of the world and writing about it is a great first step to experiencing and exploring fantasy.

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VIDEO CHAT: Dr. Gloria Brame w/ Nicholas Tanek

Award-winning sex therapist, pioneering sexologist, and best-selling author, Dr. Gloria Brame has been a legendary figure in the world of BDSM since publishing her classic text, Different Loving, in 1993. A former English professor, Gloria’s began researching, writing, and erotically exploring radical sex and fluid relationships in the early 1980s. Gloria founded the first online BDSM support group on Compuserve in 1987 and has not ceased since then to advance the cause of sexual progress and to help destroy the anti-sex myths and bigotries that destroy human lives through her books, blogs, and projects.
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