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A Kinky Start – Our Friends Discuss Their First Real Kink Experience by Nicholas Tanek

Everything has a beginning. There are various ways to initiate a kinky/BDSM lifestyle. It may start with playfully exploring kink and the offer of a little spank here or there. Perhaps, dabbling in light bondage awakens something inside of you. Or maybe, you slip on silk panties just to try them on for fun. But then one day the line between curiosity and desire is crossed, and you discover a driving need for more. BDSM becomes part of your life. So I asked a couple of my kinky friends about their first experiences of living out fantasies.

Here are their answers…

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VIDEO CHAT: Alex Andrews (SWOP – Sex Workers Outreach Project-USA) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Alex is a 53-year-old sex worker alumni who has experienced the criminalization of consensual sex work. She is the Co-Founder of SWOP Behind Bars and sits on the Board of Directors of NSWP as the North American Representative. Alex has been working with men, women and trans folks who have been incarcerated and also have experience in the sex industry and works to reduce the shame, discrimination and stigma of sex work by showing up at community meetings and town hall discussions on trafficking and using herself as an example to demonstrate that sex workers are just like everyone else. She has been called a “watchdog” of anti-trafficking activity and is committed to the unification of sex worker rights in the United States.

 

http://swopbehindbars.org/
http://www.new.swopusa.org

#ThriftyKinkThursday: Stick Your Dick in Stuff

by Tangled Blue

Being thrifty is nifty especially when you need some sexy fun time.  This #ThriftyKinkThursday is going to be a little different. We are offering a collection of ideas rather than a scene.  So let’s explore things that you can stick your dick into for fun!

I’m sure for most penis bearers ramming your cock into another person or person shaped object is the preference, but that isn’t always feasible.  I wanted a list that thrifty kinksters could keep in handy just in case they didn’t have a friend or specialized toy to poke.  This would also be a good list for a Domme who wants to give her sweet sissy sub a treat. Continue reading #ThriftyKinkThursday: Stick Your Dick in Stuff

Our Professional Phone Sex Friends Part II by Nicholas Tanek

More phone sex… YAY! There is an art to a kinky phone conversation. I’ve talked to some more of our professional phone sex friends from PepLove.com

PepLove is a phone sex company that specializes in various kinks and BDSM. They are experts. I asked them several questions about phone sex and here are their answers.

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VIDEO CHAT: Evil Opal (Original Silk Domme) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Goddess Evil Opal is a professional and lifestyle domina who’s been active in the kink scene for over a decade. She’s based in Tampa Bay, Florida but she enjoys traveling and meeting kinky people in every corner of the globe. Over the years she’s been involved in a variety of bdsm events & organizations, including writing for Creative Loafing, owning a transformation salon/photography service for crossdressers and hosting a popular monthly play party for t-girls & their admirers. She’s been making femdom fetish porn since 2007 and is now writing her first book, a collection of erotic stories set in a world ruled by women where all the men are slaves.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

https://youtu.be/S1owH7CWlxM

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#ThriftyKinkThursday: Spreader Bar!

Thrifty Kinksters.  Ten Dollars. Super Fun.  

By TangledBlue

BDSM calls to many people but willing kinksters can be inhibited by the cost of the tools. Leather floggers, ball gags, and dental forceps can really break the bank. Your Kinky Friends decided to take on the challenge of creating experiences that cost less than ten bucks that are still fun and sexy.

Price Limit:  $10.00

Type of Scene:  Spreader Bar

Keywords: bondage, frombe, jaywalking

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Video Chat: Jacquie Blu – (Producer – Trans Fetish Films) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Jacquie Blu lives in Los Angeles. She produces, directs, performs and edits with her own company, Blu Dreamz. She creates trans porn, BDSM and fetish films for content trade. She works with all types of talent, so any and all performers willing to do content trade work are welcome to shoot with her. She has had nominations for two awards for the Transgender Erotica Awards 2017 and 2018.

Here, she sits down with Nicholas Tanek for a video chat.

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Kinky Mixtape, Sorta

By TangledBlue

Combining kink with music can turn up the heat and bring added frivolity to any scene. There are countless lists of songs for sexy time and most are geared for vanilla realm of sweet candlelit missionary sex.  Kinky people need a sound track, too!  I thought about the scene in 50 Shades of Gray where the  dude presents his lady with an I-pad of songs that make him tickle in his pants.  This reminded me of  the beloved mixtape.  I had a sweet dual-deck pink jam box in the 90s, and I would stay up late to capture songs off the radio to weave into a musical love letter for some lucky guy.   I decided to create a mixtape of sorts for my favorite kinks.   Chill thumpy electronica is the sound track in most dungeons and it’s good for lulling patrons into a “get sexy” state of mind, but there is so much fun music in the world.  Check out my picks, have some fun, and remember you can always skip to the next one if it is not your jam.

Please play safely and be prepared for injury or emergency by having a cell phone and first aid kit close to your play space.   Continue reading Kinky Mixtape, Sorta

#ThriftyKinkThursday: Last-minute Kitchen Kink!

Thrifty Kinksters. Ten Dollars. Super Fun.  

by Miss_Melissa_

BDSM calls to many people but willing kinksters can be inhibited by the cost of the tools. Leather floggers, ball gags, and vampire gloves can really break the bank.  It is well worth it to invest in high-quality BDSM toys, but sometimes you want to play around with an idea before committing your funds.  Your Kinky Friends decided to challenge ourselves to create BDSM experiences that cost less than ten bucks so you can explore your kinky side and still have some money for pizza.

As always…use common sense when playing and put safety first!

This is our eighth #ThriftyKinkThursday post – let’s improvise!

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Our Professional Phone Sex Friends by Nicholas Tanek

How many times have you had an orgasm or gave someone an orgasm just by talking with them over the phone? Ever since I was a teenager, I have loved to have phone sex with girlfriends. I still do it as an adult. PepLove.com is a female-owned BDSM/kink phone sex group that is unlike any other phone sex company. They do not just do kinky phone sex. They also do “kink counseling.” Trust me when I say this: they are magnificent women who are smart, funny, understanding, and kinky. So, I asked our PepLove friends about their professional lives.

Here are their answers…

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