It is not uncommon for people coming into BDSM to use caricatures as a model on how to act until they figure themselves out. These caricatures are sometimes based on our limited books/movies and extensive porn. Other times they are based on a preconceived notion of how someone with “that identity” would act. In the beginning of finding your identity having a caricature can be empowering. It can give you an idea into who you want to be. I remember my caricature as a new Dominant. The caricature I assumed was quiet, calm, and hyper vigilant. It took so much energy that I couldn’t sustain it outside of the public BDSM space, but that is when I felt I needed it.
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VIDEO CHAT: Bailey Love with Nicholas Tanek
Bailey Love is a trans sissy porn star who works for THE SISSY INSTITUTE by Tia Tizzianni, who performs a transformation service for crossdressers.
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VIDEO CHAT: Octavia Achten with Nicholas Tanek
Domina Octavia Achten is a professional Dominatrix, model, and fetishist who lives the lifestyle full time. She is well educated in the multi-faceted art of BDSM. Years of experience and a natural, dominant allure give the Domina a presence that intoxicates. With a keen intellect and passions for history, foreign languages and Domination, She offers an experience that is delightfully surreal. Domina Octavia Achten is well known for her skill, and her love for her work.
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VIDEO CHAT: Nyxi Leon with Nicholas Tanek
Nyxi Leon is a trans porn actress who was feminized by Tia Tizzianni.
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VIDEO CHAT: Slave Heather with Nicholas Tanek
Slave Heather is in a D/s relationship and considers herself her Master’s slave (Master David). She is also in a leather family.
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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Lydia with Nicholas Tanek
Miss Lydia has been part of the BDSM community for over 20 years. She started out as a submissive and for the last 12 years, she has been a Domme. Miss Lydia is a lifestyle/ Pro Domme living the lifestyle 24/7. She hosts Pro sessions in a fully set up playspace/ dungeon (Lady’s Wicked Playground) near Allentown Pa. Miss Lydia accepts novice – experienced clients.
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VIDEO CHAT: Siren Thorn with Nicholas Tanek
Our Erotic Kinky Artist Friends Part II by Nicholas Tanek
The power of creativity mixed with eroticism is limitless, weird, and beautiful. Once again, I needed to reach out to my erotic kinky artist friends and ask them several questions about erotic/kinky art.
Here are their answers…
VIDEO CHAT: MsCharmness with Nicholas Tanek
Daizie Jane Charmness, MsCharmness, is a Las Vegas homebody with a passion for the naughty. Using a unique mix of creativity, curiosity, and charm, this BBW burlesque queen will leave you in a daze. MsCharmness began performing in burlesque shows in 2012 and that quickly led her down a path to exploring all things BDSM. She is currently balancing being a traveling Prodomme, Findomme, Hypnodomme, and working a full-time muggle job.
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VIDEO CHAT: Maitresse Synthia interview with Nicholas Tanek
Maitresse Synthia is a professional Dominatrix who believes women are The Superior Sex. She has her own private dungeon that she called My Sanctuary and it is filled with custom-made equipment. She is into a wide variety of kinks and fetishes: Sissification, flogging, chastity, role play, medical play, etc.
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