A professional Dominatrix is more than just a sex worker. They play the role of a kinky therapist or counselor. Throughout this series, I have befriended many professional Dommes. Each one has something unique to offer and can give us insight into their world. So, I asked some of our professional Dominatrix friends some questions.
Luna Darke and Nicholas Tanek discuss going to EXXXotica 2018, sex toys (Miss Melissa’s sex toy foot locker, friendship, and my book, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself
Jerome Stuart Nichols is the proprietor The Butters: Hygienics Company. They make powerful botanical creations to streamline your routines and elevate your rituals. We talk lube, holistic sexuality, pin-up boys, and puppy play.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and talks with him for a video interview.
Maitresse Synthia is a professional Dominatrix who believes women are The Superior Sex. She has her own private dungeon that she called My Sanctuary and it is filled with custom-made equipment. She is into a wide variety of kinks and fetishes: Sissification, flogging, chastity, role play, medical play, etc.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
Mistress Alexxxia is a central New York-based Dominatrix, published model, and artist. She has only been in the Domme role since May of 2017 but has been involved in the kink world since late 2011. Her specialties include financial domination, cuckolding, ass worship, ritual roleplay, and CBT (cock and ball torture).
Alexxxia was always one with a clever brain and never ending imagination, and spent most of her life as the artistic type who was often kicked around. Now, having found her inner voice and power, she has been making up for lost time, channeling it all into destroying men’s egos with a special sadistic flair.
The thrifty kink suggestions from the wonderful people that Nicholas has interviewed are as varied and awesome as they are! This week’s thrifty spotlight includes great suggestions from Mistress Genevieve, dungeon proprietress and educator; Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom; and Goddess Nyx, artist, fetish model and experience creator.
The beautiful Miss Melissa and I are kinksters. I know this shocks our faithful readers because we do come off as chaste demure women who blush at the mention of the word “tinkle.” But in reality, we are huge fans of the weird things that make our loins go buzzy. We think one of the best things about kink is all the toys. If you have begun your own adventure in exploring ideas behind bondage, power play, pet play, and other exciting endeavors, you will start to collect STUFF. We decided to put our pretty little heads together and offer Our Kinky Friends advice on how to manage all the glorious stuff of kink.
You will see people lay out their collections like this and people swoon. Most humans can’t leave their collections out on the coffee table like a book on National Parks.