Category: sissies

Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part I by Nicholas Tanek

SADISM: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

Consensual sadism is quite common in the BDSM community, but the practices vary widely depending on the participants.  Some sadists enjoy sensual sadism.  This can be defined in many ways but it loosely involves the infliction of pain  mixed with pleasure.  Both participants tend to enjoy the scene and have agreed upon terms.  Other sadists engage in brutal, violent acts that may not be sexual and fulfill a need for power.   Sadism can seem scary to those who don’t understand the dynamic and question why participants get a rush from it.  I wanted to learn more about Our Kinky Friends who use pain, humiliation, and suffering in their scenes.

So… I asked some questions to my kinky sadist friends so that we could learn more about this kink.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Fenris & Lady Lilah Wilde with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Fenris Wolf & Lady Lilah Wilde are friends and business partners. Mistress Fenris is a sadist and a professional Dominatrix. Lady Lilah Wilde is also a professional Dominatrix who embodies values of cruelty, comfort, and culture. They both run Wilde Fenris Production.

 

Nicholas Tanek sits down for a video chat with them.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mercy West with Nicholas Tanek

Mercy West is a companion, BDSM practitioner, adult actor, and genuinely kinky person. Just a queer jumble of non-binary sensuality and empathy residing in Portland Oregon. She enjoys exotic cuisine, vintage erotica, retro fashion, marijuana, as well as all things sex-positive and am currently working on her new membership site.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Sir Mondo with Nicholas Tanek

Sir Mondo is a professional master who has now been in the lifestyle for nearly 8 years. His life journey has shaped him to be very versatile and rather unique. It has been stated that his style is the perfect blend of sensation and pain, where it is unknown where pleasure stops and suffering begins. His touch is highly energetic, but it can be either extremely seductive or very unnerving. His style of sensation and impact is delivered in a beautiful way. A true art form.

This playful demon has a way of adapting to the needs of the subject at hand; seeing every person as a blank canvas to be painted with the desires of the individual. As playful as this Dom can be, he can be just as equally cruel in more ways than one. Definitely not an experience to overlook.

Some of his services offered are impact play, sensual, sensation, sensory deprivation, sissy training, and more.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with him.

 

VIDEO CHAT: Miztress Tia with Nicholas Tanek

Miztress Tia is a Professional Dominatrix located on the East Coast of Canada.  She has been described as evil and mean, yet most who come to know her find her warm and empathetic once they get past her intimidating persona.  Her specialty is impact play however she does offer other services that can be found on her website Miztresstia.com.  She can also be found on Twitter and Fetlife under the same name.
Nicholas Tanek sits down as has a video interview with her.

VIDEO CHAT: Maddie Royce w/ Nicholas Tanek

Maddie Royce is a professional online Domme. Although she spent 5+ years as a professional Dominatrix, she is now only an online Domme who makes kinky clips about cuckolding, humiliation, sissification, and roleplaying.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

VIDEO CHAT: Bailey Love with Nicholas Tanek

Bailey Love is a trans sissy porn star who works for  THE SISSY INSTITUTE by Tia Tizzianni, who performs a transformation service for crossdressers.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and talks with her on a video interview.

Our Kinky Friends Write: This Boy is Her Girl by Allison K. Atwood

This is not what you’d call a traditional story with a beginning, middle, and end. It has none of those things. I guess it sits somewhere between pornographic fantasy and wishful thinking. It’s the tale of the person I wish I was, bonding with the person I wish I could be with. The characters are unorthodox and kinky, and yet in their own way rather conventional. The setting is nowhere, and it takes place probably never, because the world where such a relationship would be possible, for me (without the consequences I fear), may not exist. But who knows?

Artwork by myboyisacross.tumblr.com

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VIDEO CHAT: Octavia Achten with Nicholas Tanek

Domina Octavia Achten is a professional Dominatrix, model, and fetishist who lives the lifestyle full time. She is well educated in the multi-faceted art of BDSM. Years of experience and a natural, dominant allure give the Domina a presence that intoxicates. With a keen intellect and passions for history, foreign languages and Domination, She offers an experience that is delightfully surreal. Domina Octavia Achten is well known for her skill, and her love for her work.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Michelle Lacy with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Michelle Lacy is a highly sought after professional dominatrix who resides in South Florida where she has her own personal dungeon. She is most known for her creativity and passion in creating unforgettable adventures for those who play with her. Her skills, as well as her enthusiasm in her appointments, can be found on her website MichelleLacy.com and her social media outlets. Michelle enjoys a wide range of activities. She is most known for her “creative sadism,” behavior modification, discipline, bondage, lengthy captivity, as well as her love of slave-training, as she holds an entire weekend event called The Order Of Indomitus which is dedicated to just that!
Mistress Michelle loves to travel all along the East coast and even has an additional personal studio in Long Island, NY. She loves attending events, teaching classes, and assisting in spreading awareness and education of BDSM. Despite her shiny catsuits and fierce whips, Michelle is one of the most approachable and down to earth women in the industry who cares very much for the goals and the safety of the people she sees.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

NOTE: The audio gets a little messed up on my end but stick with it, Michelle Lacy does most of the talking and she’s amazing!