Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) – 8.2025

“I want to roast marshmallows on him.”

Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) is a professional switch based in Phoenix, Arizona. We discuss safe fire play, the fluidity of being a switch, non-verbal safewords, fire massage, an hour of paddles, Tom Six’s “The Onania Club,” and making a human campfire.

“Being a switch means fluidity.”

 

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Candle Wax Play with Director Jez

“Be mindful of where the flame is.”

Director Jezebelle from K!nkify talks “Melting Point,” her candle wax play tutorial/class. We discuss why soy candles work best, the symbolism of dripping wax, pickling people, tarps, wax on buttcheeks, candle wax on melanated skin, candle wax mishaps, candle wax on the clitoris, aftercare, and how to clean up.

“People underestimate candles.”

 

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YKF VIDEO: Miss Sweet – 2.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I go so through so much lube, Amazon inquires what I am up to”

Miss Sweet is a CBT Artist out of Texas who specializes in all things CBT and blood play. We discuss blood lust, clowns for fear play, pussy clamps with 18 gauge needles, fire, using ballbusting as a self-defense mechanism, and making spider webs out of scrotums with hook pulls. She also mixes blood play, CBT, and medical play to make people “scaroused.”

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VIDEO: Emperess Oksana at Mischief Manor – 12.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Definitely… fireplay.”

Empress Oksana is a Dominatrix who was having a photo shoot at Mischief Manor. We talk about her journey from burlesque to Femdom / BDSM, roleplaying, fireplay, kinky fashion, Asperger Syndrome, and having kinky scenes outdoors.

“I have a Carl Sagan tattoo”

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VIDEO CHAT: Winter O’Shea w/ Nicholas Tanek

Winter O’Shea is a PEPLOVE phone sex kinkster. We talk about phone sex, BLOOD play, fire play, pet play, chastity, living the SLAVE lifestyle, and beating yourself with a cactus.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Princess A**hole with Nicholas Tanek

Princess A**hole is 2019 Rocky Mountain Person of Leather and Hard Pink Sister.  P.A. is a chapstick femme gender fluid person who is also a BDSM educator. We talk about leather, BLOOD PLAY, being a switch, needle play, fire cupping/blood cupping, fake surgery, scarification, and more!

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Naughtia Le Fleur with Nicholas Tanek

Naughtia Le Fleur is ‘The Flower of BDSM’ from Asheville, NC. We talk sadism, masochism, the BDSM kink parties, photography, burlesque, making sex toys, BDSM furniture/equipment, restraint, fire dancing, polyamory, and being whipped with a flogger made of barb wire!

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Velvet Spade with Nicholas Tanek

Velvet Spade. A villainous vixen with fangs as sharp as her winged liner. She’s got talent in SPADES, & she eats fireballs for breakfast. She’s the circus punk you never had the nerve to approach.
Nicholas Tanek and has a video chat with her

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Lux Valentina with Nicholas Tanek

Lux Valentina is a multi-faceted burlesque, flow art, fire, and fetish performer
She is a troupe member Discordia Dames Burlesque.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

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