Heroes save lives and the kink community saved mine. My life was a mess. I met some wonderful people who have been kind and helpful throughout my journey within the kink community. This is only part one in a series about people who I truly think are heroes in the kink community.
So, I talked to some of my kinky heroes and asked them questions about giving back to the community. Here are their answers.
Throughout the years, I have known many vanilla people who got involved in kink and now, they feel like kink saved their lives. Not everyone can wrap their head around kinky sexual expression. Some people cannot even understand the concept of being tied up. Once they break their borders, a sense of healing starts. I am a recovering drug addict. I’m not going back to drugs and kink is a major reason for that. While I do have this addictive behavior, it was love, kink, and sexual expression that helped me get through drug addiction and emotional loss after the death of the love of my life.
So, I asked some of our kinky friends some questions about how being kinky healed them. Here are their answers.
Continue reading THE HEALING POWER OF KINK by Nicholas Tanek
New Episode starring Author & former sex worker @lola_davina!
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Continue reading Nicholas Tanek talks KINK on THE QUESTIONABLE BEHAVIOR PODCAST
I am “out” as a kinky person, but many of our friends like to keep their kinky lifestyle private. Some have important jobs. Some have judgmental friends and family members. Others just prefer to keep their kink hidden. For whatever the reason, people sometimes go to great lengths to keep their kinky lifestyle hidden.
So, I asked a couple of our kinky friends about keeping their kinky life a secret. Here are their answers…
Continue reading KEEPING YOUR KINKY LIFE SECRET by Nicholas Tanek
This is video of Nicholas Tanek & Luna Darke being guests on the One Guy Talking Podcast. It’s the BDSM/kink episode.
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Kinky people are human and humans make mistakes. There is an etiquette in the kink community, like anywhere else. Although I consider myself a switch, I am very much into Femdom. I have made some truly dumb mistakes approaching Dommes. I have grown quite a bit since then and learned some valuable lessons. Of course, I’m still learning and growing as a kinky person. In general, it’s important to have etiquette when dealing with anyone, even in the kink community.
So, I asked some of my friends in the kink community three questions and I hope their answers may help others.
Continue reading Some Dos & Don’ts of Approaching People In The Kink Community
Close Lobsters, Severed Heads, Memoirs of Addiction, and Producers of the Word
By Nicholas Tanek
Music and sex are essential aspects of my life. I always have a soundtrack in my head, especially when it comes to sex. I wrote three books filled with kinky sex and an endless amount of music references. There are songs that get me in the mood. There are songs that I have on in the background during sex. Then, there are songs for the afterglow or come down.
The sexuality of music has always intrigued me. So, I asked some of my musician friends three questions regarding the connection between music and sex.
Continue reading My Musician Friends and I Discuss SEX & MUSIC
