Our Kinky Friends Discuss FOSTA/SESTA

From Wikipedia: The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) and Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) are the U.S. Senate and House bills that as the FOSTA-SESTA package became law on April 11, 2018.

Illegal sex trafficking is horrible but these poorly written FOSTA/SESTA laws have had a grave effect on legitimate sex workers, the LGBTQ community, and the internet in general. Both Tumblr and Facebook are restricting sexual content. Backpage.com shut down their adult services ads. Even Craigslist.com took down their personal ads. While some say these laws “mean well” because they are trying to stop sex trafficking, anybody who sexually expresses themselves is a victim of this censorship. This not only includes sex workers, phone sex operators, and professional Dommes, but also artists, authors, Burlesque dancers, and sexual rights activists. We are living in a scary time.

So, I asked my kinky friends about FOSTA/SESTA. Here are their answers.

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VIDEO CHAT: Lycha Rose with Nicholas Tanek

Lycha Rose (aka Lycha Xo) is a transgender erotic performer and Grooby Girl who loves punk rock, paganism, and butts.

Yes… we go there in this interview.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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Happy New Year from Your Kinky Friends! – Kinky Resolutions!




by TangledBlue and Mistress Melissa

It’s good to think about the bright shiny spots and the shitty dull moments of life as a year closes.  Reflection helps us to grow as people, and the resolutions we make for ourselves promise betterment and enlightenment for a happier future.  Some people choose to go for a goal like our friends Jay Tesst who wants to learn how to do play piercings and1RuleSupercedes who is going to put out a new album in February.   Others may choose something less tangible like spiritual enlightenment or inner peace. Your Kinky Friends sent us their resolutions, and here are our goals, wishes, and/or hopes for a brand spanking new year.   Continue reading Happy New Year from Your Kinky Friends! – Kinky Resolutions!

Our Kinky Friends Write: Permission and She Bled by 1RuleSupersedes

Note:  1RuleSupersedes is a musician from New Jersey and fetish enthusiast. 

I remember all through school I was a daydreamer. I would focus on stories that I had in my mind. Most of them would be romantic or warlord like. As I got older I picked up the bass guitar and the stories in my mind turned into songs. When I turned about 25 I took a couple of acting/writing classes and started writing in character influenced monologues. I guess at this point I do not have a certain recipe for writing. I write whatever feels right and go with that.

So if I had to answer why I write? My answer would simply be, I am a fantasy junky!

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Our Kinky Friends Discuss the Sexuality of HALLOWEEN Costumes by Nicholas Tanek

I love Halloween. The atmosphere of delightfully creepy things is the perfect backdrop for wicked fun.  Now, people are allowed to dress up any time of year.  If I want to dress as Batman on the fourth of July, I will put on a mask and run around my house saving the houseplants.   I may want to be a sissy maid on a Tuesday night so I put on my French maid outfit and let my Domme fuck me with a strap-on dildo.  I can do this any day of the year, but the Halloween season makes dressing up magical.

It feels so good to put on a costume and be someone different for a little while. Adults have the option to add the spin of sex appeal to their tricks and treats.  Normally shy people may be strutting around in corsets and thongs and the energy is infectious.  The classic sexy costumes like French maid, sexy nurse, or Morticia from The Addams Family are always a welcome sight, but the creative aspect of Halloween makes it extra exciting.  I never know what sexed up concoction I will see at a dungeon party, Wal-Mart, or tagging along for trick or treating. I may see John Snow from Game of Thrones looking hot in a pair of fishnets with a little cleavage showing or Bert and Ernie in ball gags and leather.  Adults are sexual beings and Halloween is the perfect holiday to let sexual creativity come out to play.

The sexuality of Halloween costumes has always intrigued me. So, I asked my kinky friends about how outfits affect and change their sex lives.

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Our Kinky Submissive Friends by Nicholas Tanek

Being submissive is an art form that is cultivated and enhanced through practice and patience. Submissive kinksters offer a specific kind of trust that is not easy to find and may be abused by their dominant counterparts. The openness of a submissive can be interpreted as weakness, but in fact, the ability to submit requires great strength. There are submissive friends who live the lifestyle 24/7 and there are the ones who submit just in the bedroom. Either way, submissives are a valuable part of the BDSM community. I gathered some of my favorite submissive friends, and I asked them several questions.

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Our Erotic Kinky Artist Friends by Nicholas Tanek

I love art! I love artists! I love drawing, painting, sculpture, mixed media, etc. I am inspired by the love and creativity that artists pour into their work.  At YourKinkyFriends.com, we love erotic art. We love the weird stuff. It may be orcs. It may be tentacles. It may be forced cross-dressing. It may be sexy vanilla art to hang over the bed.  Art is awesome.  I wanted to highlight some of the wonderful artists that I know, so I reached out to some of our Erotic/Kinky artist friends and asked them several questions.

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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part three) #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

The thrifty kink suggestions from the wonderful people that Nicholas has interviewed are as varied and awesome as they are! This week’s thrifty spotlight includes great suggestions from Mistress Genevieve, dungeon proprietress and educator; Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom; and Goddess Nyx, artist, fetish model and experience creator.

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Vivian w/ Nicholas Tanek

Miss Vivian is a legendary NYC Dominatrix who specializes in OTK ( light to heavy), flogging ( light to heavy), caning, bondage, creative role play, (especially, naughty school girl scenarios), hair pulling, sensory deprivation, power struggle scenes, and damsel in distress scenes. She is also a performance artist.

She sits down and has a chat with Nicholas Tanek.

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VIDEO CHAT: Terra Genesis w/ Nicholas Tanek

Terra has been a cam model since 2014, starting on KinkLive.com, a former camsite affiliated with Kink.com where she was a top earner for 3 months before expanding her audience to mainstream communities like Charturbate and Streamate. Craving a more kink-friendly community, Terra made moves to launch her own site, SpankableTerra.com and now cams full time on Cam4.com. Offline, Terra is involved in her local kink community, loves rope, impact play and exploring new kinks and fetishes.

 

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