Our Kinky Friends Write: Permission and She Bled by 1RuleSupersedes

Note:  1RuleSupersedes is a musician from New Jersey and fetish enthusiast. 

I remember all through school I was a daydreamer. I would focus on stories that I had in my mind. Most of them would be romantic or warlord like. As I got older I picked up the bass guitar and the stories in my mind turned into songs. When I turned about 25 I took a couple of acting/writing classes and started writing in character influenced monologues. I guess at this point I do not have a certain recipe for writing. I write whatever feels right and go with that.

So if I had to answer why I write? My answer would simply be, I am a fantasy junky!

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Our Kinky Friends Discuss the Sexuality of HALLOWEEN Costumes by Nicholas Tanek

I love Halloween. The atmosphere of delightfully creepy things is the perfect backdrop for wicked fun.  Now, people are allowed to dress up any time of year.  If I want to dress as Batman on the fourth of July, I will put on a mask and run around my house saving the houseplants.   I may want to be a sissy maid on a Tuesday night so I put on my French maid outfit and let my Domme fuck me with a strap-on dildo.  I can do this any day of the year, but the Halloween season makes dressing up magical.

It feels so good to put on a costume and be someone different for a little while. Adults have the option to add the spin of sex appeal to their tricks and treats.  Normally shy people may be strutting around in corsets and thongs and the energy is infectious.  The classic sexy costumes like French maid, sexy nurse, or Morticia from The Addams Family are always a welcome sight, but the creative aspect of Halloween makes it extra exciting.  I never know what sexed up concoction I will see at a dungeon party, Wal-Mart, or tagging along for trick or treating. I may see John Snow from Game of Thrones looking hot in a pair of fishnets with a little cleavage showing or Bert and Ernie in ball gags and leather.  Adults are sexual beings and Halloween is the perfect holiday to let sexual creativity come out to play.

The sexuality of Halloween costumes has always intrigued me. So, I asked my kinky friends about how outfits affect and change their sex lives.

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Our Kinky Submissive Friends by Nicholas Tanek

Being submissive is an art form that is cultivated and enhanced through practice and patience. Submissive kinksters offer a specific kind of trust that is not easy to find and may be abused by their dominant counterparts. The openness of a submissive can be interpreted as weakness, but in fact, the ability to submit requires great strength. There are submissive friends who live the lifestyle 24/7 and there are the ones who submit just in the bedroom. Either way, submissives are a valuable part of the BDSM community. I gathered some of my favorite submissive friends, and I asked them several questions.

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Our Erotic Kinky Artist Friends by Nicholas Tanek

I love art! I love artists! I love drawing, painting, sculpture, mixed media, etc. I am inspired by the love and creativity that artists pour into their work.  At YourKinkyFriends.com, we love erotic art. We love the weird stuff. It may be orcs. It may be tentacles. It may be forced cross-dressing. It may be sexy vanilla art to hang over the bed.  Art is awesome.  I wanted to highlight some of the wonderful artists that I know, so I reached out to some of our Erotic/Kinky artist friends and asked them several questions.

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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part three) #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

The thrifty kink suggestions from the wonderful people that Nicholas has interviewed are as varied and awesome as they are! This week’s thrifty spotlight includes great suggestions from Mistress Genevieve, dungeon proprietress and educator; Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom; and Goddess Nyx, artist, fetish model and experience creator.

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Vivian w/ Nicholas Tanek

Miss Vivian is a legendary NYC Dominatrix who specializes in OTK ( light to heavy), flogging ( light to heavy), caning, bondage, creative role play, (especially, naughty school girl scenarios), hair pulling, sensory deprivation, power struggle scenes, and damsel in distress scenes. She is also a performance artist.

She sits down and has a chat with Nicholas Tanek.

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VIDEO CHAT: Terra Genesis w/ Nicholas Tanek

Terra has been a cam model since 2014, starting on KinkLive.com, a former camsite affiliated with Kink.com where she was a top earner for 3 months before expanding her audience to mainstream communities like Charturbate and Streamate. Craving a more kink-friendly community, Terra made moves to launch her own site, SpankableTerra.com and now cams full time on Cam4.com. Offline, Terra is involved in her local kink community, loves rope, impact play and exploring new kinks and fetishes.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Mia Darque w/ Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Mia Darque has been a 6’3″ Oklahoma Amazon for nearly 7 years. She is a mature 39-year old BBW. She first got into the lifestyle in her very early twenties in Chicago, IL and turned it into a profession in 2013. She was trained in a house that believed that you cannot be in a position of power without knowing what it’s like to be in the position of submission. So, first roll in BDSM was in a submissive in a Polly House of 11 individuals. Her dominance has always come to me naturally not because of the clothes that she wears or parties she attend, but more because of the mindset of “I can do for myself, so what is it you possibly have to offer?”. Her country girl exterior helps to hide her serious sadistic sorry just long enough to be able to put the fear into people’s hearts that makes mine simply skip a beat.
Because of her size and stature and demeanor, she excels at particular types and styles of domination including but not limited to… ABDL, Extreme Corporal Punishments, Lift & Carry, Interrogations, Race Play and much more. She also loves to indulge in role-play/cosplay scenes and sessions, especially with her Nerdcore clientele. This can be as mild as Frodo Baggins getting a spanking from his sword (Sting) by a Nazgul with a chip on its shoulder to Kylo-Ren being bound in ecstasy filled semi-suspension well-being tickle tortured by Darth Vader for being a whiny grandchild. She enjoys all of my sessions but these do tend to hold a special place in my heart.
In May of 2018, she was honored by being asked to be Mistress of Ceremonies at DomCon Los Angeles. This along with speaking on the subjects of polyamory and people of color in kink and fetish are some of the highlights of her career. In the aspect of lifestyle domination, she is a proud member of multiple organizations and play spaces/dungeons including ClubFem DFW Dallas-Fort Worth, TX,  Impact of Memphis, TN and Xpressions of Tulsa, OK.

A Kinky Start – Our Friends Discuss Their First Real Kink Experience by Nicholas Tanek

Everything has a beginning. There are various ways to initiate a kinky/BDSM lifestyle. It may start with playfully exploring kink and the offer of a little spank here or there. Perhaps, dabbling in light bondage awakens something inside of you. Or maybe, you slip on silk panties just to try them on for fun. But then one day the line between curiosity and desire is crossed, and you discover a driving need for more. BDSM becomes part of your life. So I asked a couple of my kinky friends about their first experiences of living out fantasies.

Here are their answers…

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Nyx w/ Nicholas Tanek

Goddess Nyx is a Los Angeles based artist, fetish model and experience creator with a penchant for freaks and a body of curves that will take your breath away… literally. Her fetish interests are deeply varied and ever-growing, but some of her favorites include smothering/squishing, sensation play, wrestling, sploshing, pet play and cbt. When she is not busting balls at Sanctuary Studios she is usually working on her line of faux fur clothing and kink accessories, because she believes that life would be better if it were fuzzier.