Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part III By Nicholas Tanek

Sadists make up a major part of the BDSM/kink community. The act of letting a sadist torture you in a consensual way displays a sense of trust.  Some people crave the pain or the feeling of helplessness that a good sadist can evoke.

I asked some of our kinky Sadist friends some questions to help our kinky community better understand this dynamic.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Holly G (Golightly) with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Holly G (Golightly) is a Dominatrix and Disciplinarian located in NW Indiana. She does book reviews and is into domestic discipline, spanking, fire play, sadism, and toys.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Lady Vi with Nicholas Tanek

Lady Vi is a professional and lifestyle Dominatrix in the Seattle metropolitan area. Beautiful, brazen and delightfully wicked. Lady Vi exudes a unique brand of sinister sexuality, instinctual sadism, and natural born female dominance. She is also an active member in the  Leather, BDSM and Sex Positive community. We talk about a penis crucifix, the occult, sadism, and so much more.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Natasya von Wölfe with Nicholas Tanek

Natasya von Wölfe is a professional dominatrix based in Albany, New York. Her greatest delights and specialties are role play, sadism, brown showers, breath play, and excruciating tease. In her vanilla life, she runs a not-for-profit, grows some of her food through gardening, and exults in the hedonism of cooking and consuming lavish, gourmet meals.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Gomorahh with Nicholas Tanek

Miss Gomorahh is a BDSM lifestyle educator, sadist, author, and host of The Miss Gomorahh’s Show.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video interview with her.

 

 

VIDEO CHAT: Miss Mackenzee with Nicholas Tanek

Miss Mackenzee is a Professional Dominatrix, Certified Erotic Hypnotist, Sexual Wellness Coach, as well as an International BDSM and Sex Educator.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video interview with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Michelle Wild (Anancy Studios) & Hardy Brooklyn with Nicholas Tanek

Michelle Wild does event photography – specializing in the LGBT community, Boudoir Photography, and runs Anancy Studios.

Hardy is a performance artist who is active in the kink community.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with both of them.

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Sydney with Nicholas Tanek

Goddess Sydney is a natural born Dominant, who has been a Lifestyle BD/SM Fetishist for the better part of 20 years and decided to transition to the role of Professional Dominant a bit over 5 years ago.  We discuss BDSM, Sex Games, sissies, Uncategorized, ballbusting, chastity, cuckolding, Dominatrix, feminization, ProDomme, sensory deprivation, sissies, spit, total power exchange (tpe), water sports, and more!
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

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Our Kinky SADIST Friends Part I by Nicholas Tanek

SADISM: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.

Consensual sadism is quite common in the BDSM community, but the practices vary widely depending on the participants.  Some sadists enjoy sensual sadism.  This can be defined in many ways but it loosely involves the infliction of pain  mixed with pleasure.  Both participants tend to enjoy the scene and have agreed upon terms.  Other sadists engage in brutal, violent acts that may not be sexual and fulfill a need for power.   Sadism can seem scary to those who don’t understand the dynamic and question why participants get a rush from it.  I wanted to learn more about Our Kinky Friends who use pain, humiliation, and suffering in their scenes.

So… I asked some questions to my kinky sadist friends so that we could learn more about this kink.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Fenris & Lady Lilah Wilde with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Fenris Wolf & Lady Lilah Wilde are friends and business partners. Mistress Fenris is a sadist and a professional Dominatrix. Lady Lilah Wilde is also a professional Dominatrix who embodies values of cruelty, comfort, and culture. They both run Wilde Fenris Production.

 

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