We usually break down making something cool or creating a kinky scene for less than ten bucks on Thrifty Kink Thursday. However, I thought it could be fun to explore the dynamics of relationships this week. Using BDSM as bedroom sprinkles is FREE! That’s right! You DON’T have to spend money to be freaky with another person. (Unless you are a filthy pay pig.)
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VIDEO CHAT: Kayda Makenna interview with Nicholas Tanek
Kayda Makenna is just your average, bisexual, small-town Indiana 27 year old submissive, who’s been an avid fan of the kink lifestyle for over 8 years. Up until 4 years ago, she had been resigned to watching from the deep seedy corners of Tumblr, reblogging post after post of bondage/BDSM, cuckquean, anal, and degradation/humiliation kinks, amongst many, many others. Feel free to shoot her questions, comments on my blog, Kayda Makenna’s Kink Adventures or requests for work (pictures, toy reviews, private cam/video shows) over on her page at Extralunchmoney!
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
Living M/s 24/7: Punishment by Master Bear
There are many things that separate Masters from each other and philosophies on punishment is one of the biggest. The social expectation is that Masters are emotionally removed and deliver harsh physical punishment at the drop of the hat. The worse the punishment the more “Masterly” the Master is considered. On the other side a slave that receives this type of punishment is supposed to glow and excel in its presence.
I suppose that works for some people. It however, does not work for me.
Over the last 17 years, I have developed a few rules about punishment:
- It cannot take any of my time, effort, or energy.
- It must redirect teach, explain, reinforce, and ultimately create a behavioral change.
- It cannot make me feel icky.
Let us look at each one.
Sex and PCOS
by Forneycation
I am a cyster. I am a part of the one in ten women who is affected by a hormonal imbalance known as PCOS (Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome). I’m here to tell a little bit of my story, educate, and give support to anyone dealing with this.
VIDEO CHAT: Topaz Steele with Nicholas Tanek
Topaz Linda Steele is a cosplayer, shibari artist, amateur photographer, artist and a Domme. She is located in Chicago. Her other names are Artemis Sylverwolf or The_Sylver_Lycan. In the BDSM community, her focus is shibari.
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Fisting Fun with SassyWitch666
by SassyWitch666
I’ve heard a lot about being vaginally fisted over the years, but had never tried it. I’m a petite woman, and I didn’t think it would be something I could enjoy comfortably or safely. I began to read about fisting, and the experience intrigued me. I wanted to explore the idea.
Thrifty Kink Thursday: Sex Stuff Storage
by Miss Melissa AND TangledBlue
The beautiful Miss Melissa and I are kinksters. I know this shocks our faithful readers because we do come off as chaste demure women who blush at the mention of the word “tinkle.” But in reality, we are huge fans of the weird things that make our loins go buzzy. We think one of the best things about kink is all the toys. If you have begun your own adventure in exploring ideas behind bondage, power play, pet play, and other exciting endeavors, you will start to collect STUFF. We decided to put our pretty little heads together and offer Our Kinky Friends advice on how to manage all the glorious stuff of kink.
Heroes of the Kink Community Part IV by Nicholas Tanek
The kink community has wonderful people who educate and help other kinky people. Sometimes, it is through podcasts. Other times, it is through groups or books. Here at YKF, we know many heroes in the BDSM/kink community. I asked our friends a couple questions and here are their answers.
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#ThriftyKinkThursday: Sex Games
by TangledBlue
Screens are everywhere: restaurants, stores and even Chuck E. Cheese. Glowing images beckon us in every man-made place and we even carry our own pocket-sized screen in the bathroom to poop because breaking that tether even for a delightful twenty minutes is too much to bear.
Not So Secret Sex Tips by SassyWitch666
by SassyWitch666
It’s not surprising to know that I think most the articles you see in women’s magazines are stupid. They tout these “unheard of sex positions, tricks, and techniques that will drive your partner(s) wild” lists. Most of these articles are usually very simple ideas that have been around forever or incredibly way out there ideas that no person would ever bother trying.
