I am a cyster. I am a part of the one in ten women who is affected by a hormonal imbalance known as PCOS (Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome). I’m here to tell a little bit of my story, educate, and give support to anyone dealing with this.
Topaz Linda Steele is a cosplayer, shibari artist, amateur photographer, artist and a Domme. She is located in Chicago. Her other names are Artemis Sylverwolf or The_Sylver_Lycan. In the BDSM community, her focus is shibari.
I’ve heard a lot about being vaginally fisted over the years, but had never tried it. I’m a petite woman, and I didn’t think it would be something I could enjoy comfortably or safely. I began to read about fisting, and the experience intrigued me. I wanted to explore the idea.
The beautiful Miss Melissa and I are kinksters. I know this shocks our faithful readers because we do come off as chaste demure women who blush at the mention of the word “tinkle.” But in reality, we are huge fans of the weird things that make our loins go buzzy. We think one of the best things about kink is all the toys. If you have begun your own adventure in exploring ideas behind bondage, power play, pet play, and other exciting endeavors, you will start to collect STUFF. We decided to put our pretty little heads together and offer Our Kinky Friends advice on how to manage all the glorious stuff of kink.
The kink community has wonderful people who educate and help other kinky people. Sometimes, it is through podcasts. Other times, it is through groups or books. Here at YKF, we know many heroes in the BDSM/kink community. I asked our friends a couple questions and here are their answers.
by TangledBlue Screens are everywhere: restaurants, stores and even Chuck E. Cheese. Glowing images beckon us in every man-made place and we even carry our own pocket-sized screen in the bathroom to poop because breaking that tether even for a delightful twenty minutes is too much to bear.
It’s not surprising to know that I think most the articles you see in women’s magazines are stupid. They tout these “unheard of sex positions, tricks, and techniques that will drive your partner(s) wild” lists. Most of these articles are usually very simple ideas that have been around forever or incredibly way out there ideas that no person would ever bother trying.
Every day those of us with disabilities have to find new and inventive ways to make the world work for us. It’s not always easy, and when it comes to something as personal as meeting ones sexual desires there can be many obstacles. Motor function, flexibility, pain, libido, and balance can all interfere with a quality sex, but using toys can really help bring pleasure to anyone’s life.
Shopping for BDSM goodies with someone you love is an adventure. Many BDSM stores online offer mass produced products, but if you are looking for something extra special, Etsy has great finds that are exceptionally well made and unique.
Miss Vivian is a legendary NYC Dominatrix who specializes in OTK ( light to heavy), flogging ( light to heavy), caning, bondage, creative role play, (especially, naughty school girl scenarios), hair pulling, sensory deprivation, power struggle scenes, and damsel in distress scenes. She is also a performance artist.