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BDSM on a Budget: Cummy Mummy! #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

Nicholas Tanek was making his own straight jackets as a teenager (see my favorite chapter in Chipped Black Nail Polish, titled “homemade straight jacket”), so I gave him one for his birthday several years ago. The best thing about the straight jacket is that I can use bondage even when I’m too tired to take out my rope. Lazy BDSM is still fantastic sex, but I decided we were long overdue for a session with some thoughtful planning behind it. I wanted to use something with a more complete restrictive feeling than rope or a straight jacket.

Let’s have some fun with sensory deprivation, and let’s do it for FREE! Or at least for under ten bucks, depending on what you have at home.

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ORC GIRL by Ami Mercury

The legendary Ami Mercury wrote a graphic novel!

ORC GIRL

Jenny/Ghorza, a geeky 29-year-old who dreams of adventures beyond her humdrum life, is transported to a fantasy world like the ones she’s spent her whole life dreaming about. There she is captured by mercenaries but is soon “rescued” by Vargan, the leader and orc king of a raiding band of orcs. Vargan, however, gives her a choice: she can either be released and left to wander the forest of a foreign land alone or be given shelter and protection in exchange for one thing… she must surrender her freedom as his “human pet.”

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Living M/s 24/7 part two by Master Bear

Living M/s 24/7 by Master Bear

The Rule of Three:  Part Two

Starting with the Rule of Three is an easy way to begin putting your household together as a Master. However, it is only the beginning. Each component that you pick for your “Rule of Three” has four pieces to it that fine-tune what it is that you are looking for.

I know that this is a lot of thinking, processing, talking, and experimenting.  It is NOT at ALL like the porn or the hot books that you have read.  However, what this does is set both you and your slave up for long-term success.  Anything can be done for a short period when you are both hot and bothered.  However, what is attainable for the next 7 months? Next eight years? How you emotionally communicate will determine how successful your relationship is.  In addition, these four legs of each requirement will help you have those conversations about expectations,  wants, and needs.

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BDSM on a Budget: Let’s Play with LEGO!

Thrifty Kinksters.  Ten Dollars. Super Fun.  

By TangledBlue

BDSM calls to many people but willing kinksters can be inhibited by the cost of the tools. Unicorn tails, Pikachu suits, and full Batman costumes can really break the bank. Your Kinky Friends decided to challenge ourselves to create kinky experiences that cost less than ten bucks. We used our twisted imaginations and ingenuity to help you get the most bang for your buck.

(The kinky minifigs can be found at Citizen Brick.)

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Sex Toys and Furniture for People who Live with Disabilities

By SassyWitch666
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Recently Nicholas Tanek did an interview with SugarCunt,  a sex toy tester who has a disability.

(Watch it, it’s great!)
This video got me thinking. Are there sex toys out there specifically for those of us who have physical disabilities?
So I did a little research and found out some great toys! How cool is that?

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VIDEO CHAT: Johnny Jackhammer (Sequential Sex Podcast) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Johnny Jackhammer is a sex-positive and censorship-negative kinkster podcaster (The Sequential Sex Podcast) and who uses graphic art and comics to help open people’s minds and spark conversations.  He has been scouring books and magazines for sexy, kinky things since stumbling across “Our Bodies, Ourselves” in the library at the age of 12.  He comes from a long line of dirty minds, including a grandfather who enjoyed making dirty cartoons to pass around.  He and his wife, Good Witch North, stay connected to the kink and poly communities in the rope capital of the world, Madison, Wisconsin.  His name has more than one origin and is a family nickname.

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Our Professional Dominatrix Friends Part III by Nicholas Tanek

 

Being a professional Dominatrix is a beautifully unique profession but also hard work. Here at YKF, we speak to Pro Dommes all the time. Especially in these politically turbulent times (FOSTA/SESTA), YKF wants to celebrate the Professional Dominatrix and give readers insight into their lifestyle. I decided to do part III of the series.

So, I asked several of my Professional Dominatrix friends some questions, and here are their answers…

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Living M/s (Master/slave) 24/7 by Master Bear

The Rule of Three – Part One

The biggest mistake that I see most new Masters make is having an extensive list of things that they want their slave to do. New Masters often times put unnecessary pressure on themselves by expecting everything all at once. Having a huge list in the beginning creates a couple of different issues.

First off, understand that if you as a Master cannot remember all of the things that you are requesting of your slave then why should your slave remember?  Secondly, this creates an unrealistic expectation on both you as well as your slave as to what can be realistically achieved in the early days of your dynamic. Slaves want to excel, they want to give, and they want to be the best they can for the Masters that they love. So set them and you up for success.

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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part two) #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

In his interviews, the Esteemed Nicholas Tanek has graciously included a budget kink question as a nod to these Thrifty Kink articles we try to post each week. The amazing folks that have answered this question have given some really fantastic ideas, and so I have begun harvesting these pearls of wisdom.

This is the second part in an ongoing series of Thrifty Kink articles that will feature a handful of excellent budget-minded BDSM suggestions from the witty, resourceful, kinky minds of the many people Nicholas has and will interview in days to come!
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Kitten vs. The Human Centipede: Write for YourKinkyFriends!

by Tangled Blue

The Human Centipede concept scares me to pieces, and truthfully, I’ve never seen the movie.  The idea alone is enough for me to have night terrors for days.  (I have clicked on a YouTube trailer or two and watched through a gap in my fingers.)  It may be scary to me, but I also find it fascinating.  I love the bizarre thoughts in the brains of others. I wonder how often people think about murderous or depraved things. Do we all walk around with a running story line in our heads of mayhem and mischief?  How do we express it? If we could express these ideas safely without actually harming others, would people be happier?  BDSM can really help the creative thought thinkers of the world and writing about it is a great first step to experiencing and exploring fantasy.

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