VIDEO CHAT: Cherry Bomb from Conversations With Crossdressers Podcast – 11.2022

“Masculinity and femininity colliding turn me on.”

Our very good friend, Cherry Bomb (aka cbombz on FetLife) is the creator/host of the Conversations With Crossdressers Podcast. We discuss dating crossdressers, being a switch, shopping, crossdressing games, the New Jersey BDSM community, the comforts of being submissive, using riding crops at the gym, and how pegging is very a very useful tool for the domination of sissies.

I like the way the male physique looks in female clothing.”

https://youtu.be/ssVlkLAsjC4

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Lady Petra & Saffermaster (Kinky Cocktail Hour Podcast)-11.2022

NOTE: I do NOT drink alcohol because I had a liver transplant…
but I can still talk about kink. 😉

You’re talking to someone who wears a butt plug daily.” – Lady Petra

Lady Petra & Saffermaster from the Kinky Cocktail Hour Podcast discuss the romance of butt plugs, daily spankings, The Story Of O, masochism, the kinkiest cocktail, BDSM relationship goals, how big clit porn led to Femdom, and the enjoyment of flogging balls.

I sent him a picture of my butt plug and wrote a love note” – Lady Petra

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Starla Vamp (Femdom Bride) – 10.2022

It’s the end of the world and all I get is doggy style?”

Goddess Starla Vamp is from the legendary Femdombride.com where she documented her marriage with her sissy cuckold husband. We discuss Femdom Bride, chastity, sadism, cuckolding, queer BDSM, horror films, divorce, CBT, her love of carbs, how every month is Locktober, and how “Rosemary’s Baby” is her comfort movie.

We were punk rock artists.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Inanna Justice 10.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I wanted to explore the depths of Femdom.”

Inanna Justice talks about her new book HEART OF THE DOMINATRIX which documents many Professional Dommes from all over the world. We discuss the BDSM scene in France, creating her book, her board game Inannapoly: jeu de société BDSM, her dungeon escape room, publishing, editing, feminism, sensory play, mental domination, sploshing, sex work, and FML (female-led relationships).

NOTE: The Virginie Despentes film referenced is actually Bye Bye Blondie

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VIDEO CHAT: Trish Wright (The Self Love Show) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Historically, they have kept us from being vibrant sexual beings.”

Trish Wright is a certified sex coach from The Self Love Show. She has a deep history in the BDSM kink community. We talk about her roleplaying as different characters, pirate-themed BDSM parties, The Dignified Man, Dark Odyssey Kink Camp, anti-racist BDSM, Gestalt psychology, helping sick people stay kinky, foot fetishism, and how she roleplays being a shamanistic spiritual f*ckboy.

“Move at the pace of your regulated nervous system”

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VIDEO: Sunday Service 8.2022 w/ Kate West, Fae Black, Nicco Noire, Trinity Rose & Genevieve Brown

https://youtu.be/2ZKVauZIpj4

IMPORTANT NOTE: Nicholas Tanek & Your Kinky Friends does not endorse or promote KINK SHAMING*. Sunday Service is meant to be fun documentation of the lives of kinky people hanging out.  Trigger warning: This includes some hardcore opinions and discussions of NSFW topics. Basically, it’s a bunch of beautiful sadistic women talking about kink. Go forth and be kinky!

(*Sunday Service? I don’t know about you, but I felt shame when I went to church.)

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VIDEO: LIVE from MISCHIEF MANOR w/ Mistress Schari & Nicholas Tanek

Mischief Manor is a brand new dungeon / exclusive club in New Jersey that is owned and operated by Mischief Schari (Mischief Matters).  Shari, Catnip, and I discuss moving/building the dungeon, the New Jersey BDSM kink scene, the future plans for Mischief Manor, and more. She takes us on a tour, shows us the high heels she’s wearing, and puts Nicholas Tanek in stocks!

NOTE: There are some sound problems, but they get better and the tour is wonderful!

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LIVE VIDEO: Sunday Service 7.2022 w/ Kate West & Nicholas Tanek.

“Hot nuns being bad is always fun.”

Join the congregation with Mistress Kate West & Nicholas Tanek as they discuss weird religious role play, sexy nuns, medical play, using BDSM to find healing through the grief process, using an electrical outlet for CBT, humiliation, and the story of Evil Tits Bobby.

“I’m gonna kick you in the balls… it’s gonna hurt.”

https://youtu.be/5HL5uxuCqZ4

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VIDEO CHAT: Sera Miles Pt. II (PEP/BECS) – 7.2022

Poetry, Power, & P*ssy”

The legendary Sera Miles sits down with Nicholas Tanek to talk about phone sex, PepLove, Becoming: Education, Connection, & Support (BECS), the power of a sexy voice, castration fetish, helping people with disabilities, sex work, LBGTQ rights, stomping balls, feminization, and the power of kinky friendships.

No one in the world owes an apology for being who they are.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Kaz B w/ Nicholas Tanek

If there are some balls, I will kick them… consensually.”

Miss Kaz B is a legendary U.K. Dominatrix, author, and founder of The Glamourazzis. We discuss her books, feminization, being a dominatrix, The Glamourazzis awards, The United Kingdom, pegging, sissification, chastity, CBT, golden showers, roleplay, and glory hole ballbusting.

Once a guy is in chastity, that’s going to prolong the experience.”

 

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